My looks are still causing me issues after glowing up

[sams872]

I recently had my relationship end earlier today and a large part of it was me apparently "stressing her out" because id ofter complain about certain things which make me feel insecure. I'm starting to think that despite not necessarily looking bad now my looks are still fucking me up, does anyone have advice for becoming a better person

 

[Nbernical]

I recently had my relationship end earlier today and a large part of it was me apparently "stressing her out" because id ofter complain about certain things which make me feel insecure. I'm starting to think that despite not necessarily looking bad now my looks are still fucking me up, does anyone have advice for becoming a better person

Don't complain about your insecurities then

 

[Hey Lo]

you should practise gratitude and if ur think ur not ready for a gf yet take a break so not only u hep ur self but her, focus on urself man, wishing u da best, falling into bp can be very bad 4 u

 

[over0]

Take the whitepill

It's not simple but you need to do alot of self reflection, preferably without her in the picture

 

[sams872]

you should practise gratitude and if ur think ur not ready for a gf yet take a break so not only u hep ur self but her, focus on urself man, wishing u da best, falling into bp can be very bad 4 u

I find it hard to break up w people cause I meet barely any girls so I have this fear I won't be able to find anyone to talk to

 

[sams872]

Take the whitepill

It's not simple but you need to do alot of self reflection, preferably without her in the picture

I'm trying to focus more on my interests cause I think hyperfixating on people is what's causing problems but it's hard cause I did genuinely like her

 

[sams872]

Don't complain about your insecurities then

I wish it was that easy gng

 

[over0]

I'm trying to focus more on my interests cause I think hyperfixating on people is what's causing problems but it's hard cause I did genuinely like her

Maybe in the future but when you're ready

 

[Hey Lo]

I find it hard to break up w people cause I meet barely any girls so I have this fear I won't be able to find anyone to talk to

tbh let go of the things holding u nback and focus on urself for some time

 

[sams872]

tbh let go of the things holding u nback and focus on urself for some time

I just want ppl to talk to bro it affects my happiness so much

 

[Hey Lo]

I just want ppl to talk to bro it affects my happiness so much

ill talk to u

 

[sams872]

ill talk to u

I don't think I'm a very nice person that's the thing

 

[Hey Lo]

I don't think I'm a very nice person that's the thing

improve ur self then,, if u dont think ur nice talk abt it and list why u arent nice and list how u can overcome that shit

 

[sams872]

improve ur self then,, if u dont think ur nice talk abt it and list why u arent nice and list how u can overcome that shit

I used to get bullied a lot so now I can treat ppl badly to get aprooval from them, I've also dated ppl I don't genuinely like because I'm scared of not having anyone

 

[sams872]

improve ur self then,, if u dont think ur nice talk abt it and list why u arent nice and list how u can overcome that shit

I also just feel so much hatred towards some ppl it's kind of insane

 

[Hey Lo]

I used to get bullied a lot so now I can treat ppl badly to get aprooval from them, I've also dated ppl I don't genuinely like because I'm scared of not having anyone

Dont rely on other ppl thats the worst thing u can do, dont be w someoneu dont like waste of time tbh, imagne if u fiocused on urself and got better and got a gf u actually want

 

[Hey Lo]

I also just feel so much hatred towards some ppl it's kind of insane

sigh

 

[sams872]

Dont rely on other ppl thats the worst thing u can do, dont be w someoneu dont like waste of time tbh, imagne if u fiocused on urself and got better and got a gf u actually want

I can't find any motivation to actually work on myself because I'm almost certain I can't get past mtn and I'm not really interested in anything, I also don't know how to be more likeable with friends cause I just struggle in most social situations

 

[Lebensmude]

I recently had my relationship end earlier today and a large part of it was me apparently "stressing her out" because id ofter complain about certain things which make me feel insecure. I'm starting to think that despite not necessarily looking bad now my looks are still fucking me up, does anyone have advice for becoming a better person

women really hate it when you complain about your looks because thats their thing. I have pissed of a lot of normie women by talking about looksmaxxing, they see it as unmanly. autistmo women on this site are the outliers

 

[sams872]

women really hate it when you complain about your looks because thats their thing. I have pissed of a lot of normie women by talking about looksmaxxing, they see it as unmanly. autistmo women on this site are the outliers

It's genuinely beyond bs bro especially when I hyperfixate on them

 

[i_love_roosters]

None of this happened because no one is this slow

 

[sams872]

None of this happened because no one is this slow

Wdym bruh

 

[i_love_roosters]

Wdym bruh

There's no way you were this stupid to talk about looks with a girl

 

[sams872]

There's no way you were this stupid to talk about looks with a girl

Bro what the fuck am I meant to do if it's all I think about

 

[height]

Pray

 

[Lebensmude]

Bro what the fuck am I meant to do if it's all I think about

talk about your hobbies or something r****d if a woman knows you're trying to improve your looks its an immediate "ick"

 

[i_love_roosters]

Bro what the fuck am I meant to do if it's all I think about

Low IQ autism is one helluva disease

 

[sams872]

Low IQ autism is one helluva disease

"Low iq" and then it's just me wanting to voice how I actually feel about some things rather than faking my whole personality.

 

[i_love_roosters]

"Low iq" and then it's just me wanting to voice how I actually feel about some things rather than faking my whole personality.

There's no way ppl like you exist

 

[sams872]

There's no way ppl like you exist

Id rather look slightly less attractive than live your lame ass life

 

[jkcwakcjw]

dont talk about looks yoyo u need to talk about other things. dont u have any interests in ur life?

 

[sams872]

dont talk about looks yoyo u need to talk about other things. dont u have any interests in ur life?

I do talk about other stuff it's just sometimes I can't help it

 

[i_love_roosters]

Id rather look slightly less attractive than live your lame ass life

My lame ass life is that I have a really pretty gf and I simply don't project my autism onto her because that's not my whole personality. Lmao just grow a pair and man up