Hypothesis My main problem in life is being shy

[Arya]

Its literally so like different because of it, i mean i missed out on alot

academic stuff, friendships and so
i think i would be pursuing what i want academically if not for that

i cant elaborate but it has ruined everything, like i genuinely cannot speak in groups i dont wanna cut people off

Its not a new thing, i think since i was 3 every teacher has always said it every grade

I dont know what to even do, like i cant do anything i want i know it will fail because im so shy

 

[benny]

my main problem in life is being a sub 3 cuck

 

[chudlite67]

Its literally so like different because of it, i mean i missed out on alot

academic stuff, friendships and so
i think i would be pursuing what i want academically if not for that

i cant elaborate but it has ruined everything, like i genuinely cannot speak in groups i dont wanna cut people off

Its not a new thing, i think since i was 3 every teacher has always said it every grade

I dont know what to even do, like i cant do anything i want i know it will fail because im so shy

ohh same
i am very worried of being made fun of

 

[ecoli]

im shy because im subhuman

 

[lowkeydeadoutside]

animecucks are rewriting the rules of the world for you

 

[giga.mia]

I don’t like the idea of somebody perceiving my monstrous face

 

[Arya]

animecucks are rewriting the rules of the world for you

wydm

 

[Arya]

I don’t like the idea of somebody perceiving my monstrous face

im shy because im subhuman

Its not even looks for me
Atleast here in india im perceived above average,
But thats the thing people would compliment me the most i can get out is a thanks

if someone comes up to me saying they wanna be friends with me randomly i cant speak i just nod

At one point i only talked to people when they complimented me

I dont know why i cant speak i just dont know

 

[lowkeydeadoutside]

wydm

Nevermind my intelligence is too high

 

[Arya]

Its not even looks for me
Atleast here in india im perceived above average,
But thats the thing people would compliment me the most i can get out is a thanks

if someone comes up to me saying they wanna be friends with me randomly i cant speak i just nod

At one point i only talked to people when they complimented me

I dont know why i cant speak i just dont know

Why @giga.mia jfl

 

[ecoli]

Why @giga.mia jfl

next to heartbroken react missclick

 

[giga.mia]

Why @giga.mia jfl

“I’m so shy everyone thinks I’m so beautiful ”

 

[Arya]

“I’m so shy everyone thinks I’m so beautiful ”

Only in india i think what will i do if i ho abroad
and i cant form real friendships because i dont speak

 

[Arya]

Bump

 

[giga.mia]

B

 

[Arya]

Someone fucking help me

 

[submissivechud]

Its literally so like different because of it, i mean i missed out on alot

academic stuff, friendships and so
i think i would be pursuing what i want academically if not for that

i cant elaborate but it has ruined everything, like i genuinely cannot speak in groups i dont wanna cut people off

Its not a new thing, i think since i was 3 every teacher has always said it every grade

I dont know what to even do, like i cant do anything i want i know it will fail because im so shy

low t

 

[Pinksunglasses]

Its literally so like different because of it, i mean i missed out on alot

academic stuff, friendships and so
i think i would be pursuing what i want academically if not for that

i cant elaborate but it has ruined everything, like i genuinely cannot speak in groups i dont wanna cut people off

Its not a new thing, i think since i was 3 every teacher has always said it every grade

I dont know what to even do, like i cant do anything i want i know it will fail because im so shy

Awe so cute

 

[Arya]

low t

n***a help

 

[submissivechud]

n***a help

inject a gram of test daily so u can stop being a low t f****t

 

[Krusty]

loveshy's have it worse than subhumans in dating

 

[Arya]

loveshy's have it worse than subhumans in dating

all my relationships basically ended because of it

 

[donsa]

ive been high inhib my whole life, shy and insecure bc i gew up ugly.

 

[Arya]

ive been high inhib my whole life, shy and insecure bc i gew up ugly.

i have also been high inhib my whole life i dont know why honestly

How do you even deal with that? like in your career or something how do you even form friendships

 

[Krusty]

all my relationships basically ended because of it

never had a relationship but I can relate in general

you see ugly looksmatch couples together having their time but as a shy person its sadly impossible for you to reach this state of living, unless you find someone else shy what would then automatically destroy the relation at the same time

 

[Arya]

never had a relationship but I can relate in general

you see ugly looksmatch couples together having their time but as a shy person its sadly impossible for you to reach this state of living, unless you find someone else shy what would then automatically destroy the relation at the same time

yeah no one really understands because my level of shyness is just too much
its way more than normal, ive considered therapy i dont fucking know

i only formed real bonds in childhood probably, my current friendships i feel like they barely know me

I love them, they are nice people but i cannot speak for shit i just cant, i dont know

 

[donsa]

i have also been high inhib my whole life i dont know why honestly

How do you even deal with that? like in your career or something how do you even form friendships

from personal experience since ive got good looking dealing with people got way easier. people just know im not that talkative.
With work ive never had a problem, working on costumer service helped me a lot.

I think you can never get over it, you just learn to live with it and manage to get better.
i know i will never be an extrovert but beeing confident to say and do what you want is enough.

 

[Krusty]

yeah no one really understands because my level of shyness is just too much
its way more than normal, ive considered therapy i dont fucking know

i only formed real bonds in childhood probably, my current friendships i feel like they barely know me

I love them, they are nice people but i cannot speak for shit i just cant, i dont know

sad to hear

till like the age of 13 I was extremely shy too, I was even too shy to say hello to the cashier when I bought something because I found it so embarrassing to talk. Luckily this changed over the few years now, Im still shy but not as bad as a few years ago

 

[Arya]

from personal experience since ive got good looking dealing with people got way easier. people just know im not that talkative.
With work ive never had a problem, working on costumer service helped me a lot.

I think you can never get over it, you just learn to live with it and manage to get better.
i know i will never be an extrovert but beeing confident to say and do what you want is enough.

I hope that can happen for me, atleast when people newly meet me they are always surprised at how less i speak.

Only if I was extroverted, my life would be so different its painful to imagine

 

[True Spaniard]

i have also been high inhib my whole life i dont know why honestly

How do you even deal with that? like in your career or something how do you even form friendships

You can use SSRIs

 

[Arya]

You can use SSRIs

whats that?

 

[donsa]

I hope that can happen for me, atleast when people newly meet me they are always surprised at how less i speak.

Only if I was extroverted, my life would be so different its painful to imagine

the best advice i can give you is to get out of your confort zone when you can,
its uncomfortable but helpful

 

[True Spaniard]

whats that?

Pharma to lower inhibition and social anxiety

 

[donsa]

Pharma to lower inhibition and social anxiety

if i use this is over for yall

 

[Arya]

the best advice i can give you is to get out of your confort zone when you can,
its uncomfortable but helpful

Its just im scared, i already have extreme paranoia that people dislike me over small stuff
and I believe no one can like me forever because of how shy I am

 

[True Spaniard]

if i use this is over for yall

Gop ahead g im rooting for you

 

[donsa]

Gop ahead g im rooting for you

where to buy?

 

[True Spaniard]

where to buy?

cord servers from china

 

[Arya]

cord servers from china

Have u tried?

 

[Currycelloser]

yeah no one really understands because my level of shyness is just too much
its way more than normal, ive considered therapy i dont fucking know

i only formed real bonds in childhood probably, my current friendships i feel like they barely know me

I love them, they are nice people but i cannot speak for shit i just cant, i dont know

sonn... therapy for 'shyness'.

how many friends do u have

 

[True Spaniard]

Have u tried?

Nah im not that high inhib, if i get like a lot of money and have all my costs resolved then i might try it but not until then, clav uses a lot of these and it works a lot, youve seen him cold approach these random foids and transgenders and not giving af its so funny

 

[donsa]

I hope that can happen for me, atleast when people newly meet me they are always surprised at how less i speak.

Only if I was extroverted, my life would be so different its painful to imagine

since last year i fumbled 2 girls that wanted me first due to my high inhib

fomo is a motivation for me to get out of my confort zone, i have already many regrets.

 

[Arya]

sonn... therapy for 'shyness'.

how many friends do u have

idk i have a group of 4 and probably a few more

but i really dont know what to do, i cant speak i went to a sleepover recently (i knew everyone) i did not speak at all even tho ive been friends with them for years?

i just dont feel comfortable, in 9th-10th grade i genuinely dint speak at all

I dont even know why anyone would be friends with me

 

[Currycelloser]

idk i have a group of 4 and probably a few more

but i really dont know what to do, i cant speak i went to a sleepover recently (i knew everyone) i did not speak at all even tho ive been friends with them for years?

i just dont feel comfortable, in 9th-10th grade i genuinely dint speak at all

I dont even know why anyone would be friends with me

u answered ur own question, ur shy with them cause u dont feel comfy enough

well why dont u feel comfortable enough to talk to them?

 

[Arya]

u answered ur own question, ur shy with them cause u dont feel comfy enough

well why dont u feel comfortable enough to talk to them?

idk, im not funny
if i speak enough they might dislike me, the way i speak too

but i cant speak in groups i dont know when to cut people off
i just listen

 

[germanicccccccc]

u answered ur own question, ur shy with them cause u dont feel comfy enough

well why dont u feel comfortable enough to talk to them?

Thiss!!

 

[germanicccccccc]

idk, im not funny
if i speak enough they might dislike me, the way i speak too

but i cant speak in groups i dont know when to cut people off
i just listen

If you’re too afraid to speak in groups with them because you’re afraid of being judged they’re most likely not good friends for you I mean again you can just be overthinking, but you should always have a voice when you’re with your friends they should be listening to you too

 

[Currycelloser]

idk, im not funny
if i speak enough they might dislike me, the way i speak too

but i cant speak in groups i dont know when to cut people off
i just listen

well tbh same lol i am not also naturally funny so i avoid making jokes.

well i mean dude this is not a big deal actually, it will get better when u get older and trust me college later is designed to make u social dw u

 

[Arya]

If you’re too afraid to speak in groups with them because you’re afraid of being judged they’re most likely not good friends for you I mean again you can just be overthinking, but you should always have a voice when you’re with your friends they should be listening to you too

I have been friends with them for years
i just dont know, i have a friend for 13 years
but yet i think one day she will dislike me too even tho i trust her probably the most in friends

 

[Arya]

well tbh same lol i am not also naturally funny so i avoid making jokes.

well i mean dude this is not a big deal actually, it will get better when u get older and trust me college later is designed to make u social dw u

What if i fuck it up? like in the start isnt that so important to make friends there