Hypothesis My main problem in life is being shy

[Currycelloser]

What if i fuck it up? like in the start isnt that so important to make friends there

I know on my first day i was so scared, two guys approached me, i didnt even like talk to anyone, but those two guys approached me and we became friends and then later on the friend group kept on increasing tbh. You will naturally loosen up dw

 

[Arya]

I know on my first day i was so scared, two guys approached me, i didnt even like talk to anyone, but those two guys approached me and we became friends and then later on the friend group kept on increasing tbh. You will naturally loosen up dw

Do you live with roommates?

 

[germanicccccccc]

I have been friends with them for years
i just dont know, i have a friend for 13 years
but yet i think one day she will dislike me too even tho i trust her probably the most in friends

Yea if you’ve been friends for 13 years and she’s given you no reason to think she’ll suddenly dislike you that feeling is probably coming more from anxiety than reality trust is definitely built over time and 13 years is a long time. Try not to let fear convince you of something that hasn’t happened

 

[Arya]

Yea if you’ve been friends for 13 years and she’s given you no reason to think she’ll suddenly dislike you that feeling is probably coming more from anxiety than reality trust is definitely built over time and 13 years is a long time. Try not to let fear convince you of something that hasn’t happened

I dont know why she would like me, i was not that good to her when i was a kid

I was so horrible she expected me to forget her as if i dint care when she first reached out again in like some years

 

[Currycelloser]

Do you live with roommates?

tf? No way I can live in a hostel in india, i would rather die, no i live in my grandma's house, and i dont wanna live with bunch of other people of my age its awkward

 

[Arya]

tf? No way I can live in a hostel in india, i would rather die, no i live in my grandma's house, and i dont wanna live with bunch of other people of my age its awkward

ill probably live in a hostel i was seeing if id have a better time there making actual friends

 

[germanicccccccc]

I dont know why she would like me, i was not that good to her when i was a kid

I was so horrible she expected me to forget her as if i dint care when she first reached out again in like some years

It’s so different when you’re a kid I remember me and my best friend used to argue so much when we were kids but I’m sure you’re not the same as you were

 

[Currycelloser]

ill probably live in a hostel i was seeing if id have a better time there making actual friends

okay, but u need to forget Air conditioned rooms, and the bathrooms are horrible

 

[Arya]

okay, but u need to forget Air conditioned rooms, and the bathrooms are horrible

yeah i know ill pay them extra if they give me a fucking ac i cant live like that

 

[Currycelloser]

yeah i know ill pay them extra if they give me a fucking ac i cant live like that

u cant, cause of many complications, and they dont allow that cause that means u gotta pay for the electricity bills too LOL, and the bathrooms are horrendous, also not to mention the FOOD. Yeah bye i would never live in a hostel in india

 

[Arya]

u cant, cause of many complications, and they dont allow that cause that means u gotta pay for the electricity bills too LOL, and the bathrooms are horrendous, also not to mention the FOOD. Yeah bye i would never live in a hostel in india

Im basically forced to, i think in medical colleges here if ur not a local u need to stay in campus for a year

and my moms like
ur a girl u cant live alone nor with other girls like girls cant live alone like

 

[Currycelloser]

Im basically forced to, i think in medical colleges here if ur not a local u need to stay in campus for a year

omg also government college hostels are lowest of the low, private is much better, btw whats the avg fees of private clg medical per year?

and my moms like
ur a girl u cant live alone nor with other girls like girls cant live alone like

i dont think u would survive in hostel fs

 

[Arya]

omg also government college hostels are lowest of the low, private is much better, btw whats the avg fees of private clg medical per year?

idk about per year but the one i wanna go into (manipal) my dream college for multiple reason in total i think the fees is 1.5 crore or something idk?
my parents are willing to pay that
i just need 550/720 in neet which is achievable i think

i dont think u would survive in hostel fs

i dont know what to do, i cant live in a hostel for like 5 years

 

[Currycelloser]

idk about per year but the one i wanna go into (manipal) my dream college for multiple reason in total i think the fees is 1.5 crore or something idk?
my parents are willing to pay that

oooo okay

i just need 550/720 in neet which is achievable i think

yeah its achievable

i dont know what to do, i cant live in a hostel for like 5 years

exactly, honestly dude, u dug ur own grave, my cousin sister studied for law and got into one of the top government college by merit. Hostel was compulsory, she lasted 5 days and then she left the college due to the hostel

 

[Arya]

exactly, honestly dude, u dug ur own grave, my cousin sister studied for law and got into one of the top government college by merit. Hostel was compulsory, she lasted 5 days and then she left the college due to the hostel

how can i even convince my mom

 

[Currycelloser]

how can i even convince my mom

tbh rn just leave it alone, um and it depends on the clg, if they keep hostel compulsory u cant do anything or else leave it and choose another college where hostel is option. If u find a good college where hostel is optional, there are good paying guest rooms its cheaper for students and i think its pretty good depending on place to place i wld suggest look into that

 

[scotfield]

Its literally so like different because of it, i mean i missed out on alot

academic stuff, friendships and so
i think i would be pursuing what i want academically if not for that

i cant elaborate but it has ruined everything, like i genuinely cannot speak in groups i dont wanna cut people off

Its not a new thing, i think since i was 3 every teacher has always said it every grade

I dont know what to even do, like i cant do anything i want i know it will fail because im so shy

you should be low inhib by nature

 

[Cash💸]

I can help u just dm me

 

[Arya]

you should be low inhib by nature

How