I ask girls if they would date me, and they say no, but this is okay cuz it leaves no space for what ifs or could've beens. If I have a gf no girls will think "man we where boutta be with each other" or "we where basically dating" cuz if they say no or some other similar answer it's be evident it wasn't gonna happen. Also if I ascend it weeds out the girls who I ego and the ones I dont