Rage my mom is pissed and being ungrateful

[Angel]

she's mad because she had a bad day of work but she pretends to be nice to me and then snaps at me.

i did all of the work around the house today, completely organized my bedroom and even did HER stuff aswell. i'm going out of my way to help her get her tasks done because i can't stand being in a messy environment anymore. she just acts like she will do it and gets mad because i have a few things to do but i always do my work and she has the same shit to
so from months ago.

i did a bunch of dishes aswell, even the ones she hoards in her bedroom and she got upset about the one pan on the stove i didn't wash. keep in mind she says she will do all this herself. she also
lashed out because the bathroom wasn't tidied enough even though i told her i would clean up all my stuff cus i don't know where to put hers

it's not that i'm looking for the compliments of doing all
this because i do it all the time but she didnt appreciate it at all and got upset about the little things i missed

 

[rand anon]

My mom’s like that too jfl

 

[levithedudebro]

that really sucks im sorry that happened to you

 

[Angel]

that really sucks im sorry that happened to you

thank you, im just trying to be understanding for her right now, i know how hard she works and everything

 

[levithedudebro]

thank you, im just trying to be understanding for her right now, i know how hard she works and everything

its good youre tryna fit into her shoes and understand what she might be going through right now

 

[esoteric]

she's mad because she had a bad day of work but she pretends to be nice to me and then snaps at me.

i did all of the work around the house today, completely organized my bedroom and even did HER stuff aswell. i'm going out of my way to help her get her tasks done because i can't stand being in a messy environment anymore. she just acts like she will do it and gets mad because i have a few things to do but i always do my work and she has the same shit to
so from months ago.

i did a bunch of dishes aswell, even the ones she hoards in her bedroom and she got upset about the one pan on the stove i didn't wash. keep in mind she says she will do all this herself. she also
lashed out because the bathroom wasn't tidied enough even though i told her i would clean up all my stuff cus i don't know where to put hers

it's not that i'm looking for the compliments of doing all
this because i do it all the time but she didnt appreciate it at all and got upset about the little things i missed

your mom sounds exactly like me jfl speculation based on why i do these things but shes probably embarrassed abt her inability to do the things she says she will & gets upset when proven she doesnt have the capacity to do them might have adhd I do & getting on meds helped so much so if you can i recommend asking for therapy telling your therapist you think she may have adhd or need some help or smth & having a session with her and your therapist hope everything works out for you

 

[Angel]

your mom sounds exactly like me jfl speculation based on why i do these things but shes probably embarrassed abt her inability to do the things she says she will & gets upset when proven she doesnt have the capacity to do them might have adhd I do & getting on meds helped so much so if you can i recommend asking for therapy telling your therapist you think she may have adhd or need some help or smth & having a session with her and your therapist hope everything works out for you

thank you so much, yeha i'm trying to help her out rather than get upset

 

[esoteric]

thank you so much, yeha i'm trying to help her out rather than get upset

yeah youre in a tough position I do think youre doing the right thing though its not just her space and im sure she does appreciate it its just overshadowed by other more intense feelings :,)

 

[LeoK]

It’s understandable to feel unappreciated like it seems like you are doing everything right yet she is still getting mad. When someone only points out the one thing you didn’t do and ignores everything you did, it’s so easy to feel like the effort you put doesn’t matter. I hope it gets better ml

 

[Angel]

It’s understandable to feel unappreciated like it seems like you are doing everything right yet she is still getting mad. When someone only points out the one thing you didn’t do and ignores everything you did, it’s so easy to feel like the effort you put doesn’t matter. I hope it gets better ml

thanks angel