Rage my mom keeps sleeping in my bed when i'm not there

[Angel]

i have problems with germs and i know her habits. she already told me she let my disgust dog sleep there too ALL over my pillows and i'm allergic to her. she probably also chewed bones all over my bed. my mom also eats all over herself in bed so i know she did that.

it's not that i don't want to share she's just gross when it comes to her sleeping habits so i'm pissed now i'm gonna have to clean up my room and wash all my bedding AGAIN this week

i don't understand why she can't respect my boundaries

 

[Deleted Member 130731]

Really weird. I would buy something to sleep on the floor atp

 

[Angel]

she's also invading my privacy because i specifically asked her to not sleep in my bed

i don't have anything to hide but it's basic boundaries she told me she'd respect when i moved in

 

[Angel]

Really weird. I would buy something to sleep on the floor atp

yeah, i have told her this so many times

 

[LeoK]

That’s really weird

 

[Angel]

That’s really weird

i feel like she invalidates my boundaries and habits i chose for myself. i just have issues about certain things or it makes me very uncomfortable. she acts like i chose to be like this

 

[chero]

i have problems with germs and i know her habits. she already told me she let my disgust dog sleep there too ALL over my pillows and i'm allergic to her. she probably also chewed bones all over my bed. my mom also eats all over herself in bed so i know she did that.

it's not that i don't want to share she's just gross when it comes to her sleeping habits so i'm pissed now i'm gonna have to clean up my room and wash all my bedding AGAIN this week

i don't understand why she can't respect my boundaries

thats so strange bro is there sum wrong wit her bed

 

[Angel]

thats so strange bro is there sum wrong wit her bed

no she just helps herself to mine and my room

i buy nice things for myself with my own money and uses all of it without asking and just assumes. it's all silk bedding and my experience blankets. she ruined my weighted blanket sleeping in my bed last week

 

[chero]

no she just helps herself to mine and my room

i buy nice things for myself with my own money and uses all of it without asking and just assumes. it's all silk bedding and my experience blankets. she ruined my weighted blanket sleeping in my bed last week

holy strange

would u be allowed a door lock

 

[Angel]

holy strange

would u be allowed a door lock

it locks from the inside but she has to get in because i have kittens

 

[junebug]

i have problems with germs and i know her habits. she already told me she let my disgust dog sleep there too ALL over my pillows and i'm allergic to her. she probably also chewed bones all over my bed. my mom also eats all over herself in bed so i know she did that.

it's not that i don't want to share she's just gross when it comes to her sleeping habits so i'm pissed now i'm gonna have to clean up my room and wash all my bedding AGAIN this week

i don't understand why she can't respect my boundaries

I read the title and was like "aww my mom does that too when I'm gone, she just misses you" but WOW she does NOT do it in that kind of way
almost like she's asserting dominance or something wtf

 

[Angel]

I read the title and was like "aww my mom does that too when I'm gone, she just misses you" but WOW she does NOT do it in that kind of way
almost like she's asserting dominance or something wtf

yeah i don't even know at this point, she just doesn't understand boundaries when it comes to living with someone close to her

 

[junebug]

yeah i don't even know at this point, she just doesn't understand boundaries when it comes to living with someone close to her

hope it gets better

 

[chero]

it locks from the inside but she has to get in because i have kittens

mayb if u have an alright relationship wit her try having a serious talk wit her bout respecting ur boundaries and how ur room is ur personal space

I read the title and was like "aww my mom does that too when I'm gone, she just misses you" but WOW she does NOT do it in that kind of way
almost like she's asserting dominance or something wtf

yeah same i thought it was gon be a wholesome post but it sounds like ops mum is disrespecting boundaries js to show her whos in charge

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

move out bro

 

[Rololongs]

i have problems with germs and i know her habits. she already told me she let my disgust dog sleep there too ALL over my pillows and i'm allergic to her. she probably also chewed bones all over my bed. my mom also eats all over herself in bed so i know she did that.

it's not that i don't want to share she's just gross when it comes to her sleeping habits so i'm pissed now i'm gonna have to clean up my room and wash all my bedding AGAIN this week

i don't understand why she can't respect my boundaries

Your mom genuinely doesn't want you in house no more from the things I am reading and your other replies she disrespecting you for no reason

 

[Angel]

Your mom genuinely doesn't want you in house no more from the things I am reading and your other replies she disrespecting you for no reason

i don't think it's this because there was recently a whole situation that happened i won't just trauma dump about but she isn't like that

she seriously just doesn't respect my boundaries

 

[Bananachip]

i have problems with germs and i know her habits. she already told me she let my disgust dog sleep there too ALL over my pillows and i'm allergic to her. she probably also chewed bones all over my bed. my mom also eats all over herself in bed so i know she did that.

it's not that i don't want to share she's just gross when it comes to her sleeping habits so i'm pissed now i'm gonna have to clean up my room and wash all my bedding AGAIN this week

i don't understand why she can't respect my boundaries

My mom does this too because her boyfriend snores but I lowkey let rats in my bed

 

[Angel]

hope it gets better

thank you

mayb if u have an alright relationship wit her try having a serious talk wit her bout respecting ur boundaries and how ur room is ur personal space

yeah i'm just nervous, i don't want her to think i'm trying to be rude

move out bro

i don't have anywhere else to go

 

[LeoK]

i feel like she invalidates my boundaries and habits i chose for myself. i just have issues about certain things or it makes me very uncomfortable. she acts like i chose to be like this

Try to explain to her how it affects you