Rage My parents are threatning to send me to an eqting disorder treatment center called "mantrose manor" in south africa if i lose any more weight

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

On my own life I haven't even been trying to lose weight AT ALL. Im very happy w my body atm. But apparently when my team blind weighed me last week (that means I dont get to see the weight) I had lost weight. idk how much and now my parents are freaking out.
Im in germany, south africa is far asf
And I asked my parents why we dont just send me to the hospital I was at for last admission, which is only 2 hours way from my house, and they said "because clearly that didnt work"
FIRST OF ALL YES IT DID, AS IM NOT EVEN TRYNA LOSE WEIGHT, IM NOT REPLAPSING
Second of all, even if that was the case hypothetically, why would your first thought be south africa???
They said "its one of the best and we have friends who can check up on you there"
Thats fucking insane, everyone in my house is fucking insane
I gotta lock the fuck in because im not going to south africa
I hope this is js a phase for them and theyre just raging in the heat of the moment cuz im not dealing with this

 

[Angel]

after my ed my entire family never let me do anything

 

[Dearpleasehelpme]

On my own life I haven't even been trying to lose weight AT ALL. Im very happy w my body atm. But apparently when my team blind weighed me last week (that means I dont get to see the weight) I had lost weight. idk how much and now my parents are freaking out.
Im in germany, south africa is far asf
And I asked my parents why we dont just send me to the hospital I was at for last admission, which is only 2 hours way from my house, and they said "because clearly that didnt work"
FIRST OF ALL YES IT DID, AS IM NOT EVEN TRYNA LOSE WEIGHT, IM NOT REPLAPSING
Second of all, even if that was the case hypothetically, why would your first thought be south africa???
They said "its one of the best and we have friends who can check up on you there"
Thats fucking insane, everyone in my house is fucking insane
I gotta lock the fuck in because im not going to south africa
I hope this is js a phase for them and theyre just raging in the heat of the moment cuz im not dealing with this

What’s your bmi?

 

[Nenestar]

it's just a bluff. don't worry about it

 

[ilya]

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[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

after my ed my entire family never let me do anything

Yeah this has been the case for me for years now, my mom got mad at me for eating strawberries today because she said im being eating disordered

 

[ILOVELIFE]

I know that place I live in South Africa.

 

[chocolatechips]

theyre probably not gonna don't stress tm

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

What’s your bmi?

Last i checked 16.5, probably lower now that ive lost weight. Im tryna get it up to 18 but I keep losing no matter how much I eat : (

 

[Angel]

Yeah this has been the case for me for years now, my mom got mad at me for eating strawberries today because she said im being eating disordered

unfair for us

 

[Venus]

When my child is mentally ill so i threaten to send her to a strange place in a different continent what the fuck

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

When my child is mentally ill so i threaten to send her to a strange place in a different continent what the fuck

Exactly bro, like scaring me isnt gonna help me get better

 

[ILOVELIFE]

Exactly bro, like scaring me isnt gonna help me get better

Hey its not bad bruh, it is in cape town and in a safe fucking area.

they have like armed secruity at the place. I work there aswell, as a volunteer to help with group runs on saturday btw.

 

[Dearpleasehelpme]

Last i checked 16.5, probably lower now that ive lost weight. Im tryna get it up to 18 but I keep losing no matter how much I eat : (

Damn Your parents prolly bluffing about sending you to a ed camp, ignore them and focus on your wellbeing. When I had a ed it was because I was at the peak of my depression. Just eat more, exercise daily so you don’t lose muscle, and try finding the root of your ed.

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

Hey its not bad bruh, it is in cape town and in a safe fucking area.

No im sure its lovely! But being a 15 hour flight away from home at the age of 15, missing all my school and not seeing my family for months just isnt a very nice thing to picture : (

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

Damn Your parents prolly bluffing about sending you to a ed camp, ignore them and focus on your wellbeing. When I had a ed it was because I was at the peak of my depression. Just eat more, exercise daily so you don’t lose muscle, and try finding the root of your ed.

Thank you dude, ill try doing so!

 

[ILOVELIFE]

No im sure its lovely! But being a 15 hour flight away from home at the age of 15, missing all my school and not seeing my family for months just isnt a very nice thing to picture : (

okay i see thats fucked. IF YOU ZERO FAMILY AND 15 YOUR FUCKED. LIKE THE PEOPLE THERE ARE INSANE THE PATIENTS. THE STAFF ARE FINE SO IS SECRUITY BUT PATIENTS ARE FUCKED, THEY ARE FROM ALL OVER THE WORLD BUT THEY ARE FUCKED IN THE HEAD CRAZY.

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

okay i see thats fucked. IF YOU ZERO FAMILY AND 15 YOUR FUCKED. LIKE THE PEOPLE THERE ARE INSANE THE PATIENTS. THE STAFF ARE FINE SO IS SECRUITY BUT PATIENTS ARE FUCKED, THEY ARE FROM ALL OVER THE WORLD BUT THEY ARE FUCKED IN THE HEAD CRAZY.

Oh shit well then I really gotta lock in, I dont wanna spend months with crazy people

 

[ILOVELIFE]

Oh shit well then I really gotta lock in, I dont wanna spend months with crazy people

YES. THE SISTER CLINIC IS BETTER THOUGH BUT THATS CRAZY EXPENSIVE 45000 Euros if you convert for 2 months.

 

[dontcallthemfoidsbro]

YES. THE SISTER CLINIC IS BETTER THOUGH BUT THATS CRAZY EXPENSIVE 45000 Euros if you convert for 2 months.

Well if my parents send me away they better be willing to spend the money so ill ask them about that if they actually do choose to ship me off