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so i used to talk to this girl, and i really liked her, but i was too insecure that it self sabotaged any chance i had with her. but she 100% liked me. she asked to be put on, initiated hangouts, goodmorning texts, etc. we don’t talk anymore, but i feel like hitting her up. what are the chances she responds
 
Dandelions said:
so i used to talk to this girl, and i really liked her, but i was too insecure that it self sabotaged any chance i had with her. but she 100% liked me. she asked to be put on, initiated hangouts, goodmorning texts, etc. we don’t talk anymore, but i feel like hitting her up. what are the chances she responds
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Just do it bro worth the chance
 
milkjar said:
had a similar experience, but it's been a long time since we talked + i've descended hard, from when we last spoke, usually they lose attraction to you after such time, so the chances are low
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sorry to hear the man. i’ve gotten a lot better looking since i last spoke with her, do you reckon it changes anything or am i better off just finding a new girl
 
princeps said:
Do you still like her or just want to finish the unfinished story
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i still like her. she was amazing. she treated me like i was the most important person in the world
milkjar said:
I'm the one with actual experience, so take my word theory
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thank you brother, i’ll take it into consideration
 
Dandelions said:
thank you brother, i’ll take it into consideration
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if it was a case of love at first site where she immediately showed romantic interest when you first met, there's still a chance, if it was the usual case where you guys just started off as friends or whatever and then she gradually started liking you, yea it's over if you guys have not talked in a long time
 
milkjar said:
if it was a case of love at first site where she immediately showed romantic interest when you first met, there's still a chance, if it was the usual case where you guys just started off as friends or whatever and then she gradually started liking you, yea it's over if you guys have not talked in a long time
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well, she only saw my face initially. we talked for a bit, then i finally saw her in person when school started and she instantly asked my friend for my number. it’s a bit of both i guess
 
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Dandelions said:
so i used to talk to this girl, and i really liked her, but i was too insecure that it self sabotaged any chance i had with her. but she 100% liked me. she asked to be put on, initiated hangouts, goodmorning texts, etc. we don’t talk anymore, but i feel like hitting her up. what are the chances she responds
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Something like this is going to be completely nuanced between each person, but probably more favorable since she liked you before. Literally just take the shot, do you have anything to lose by doing it? And if she does not reciprocate back then at least you have hard confirmation and know to move on.
 
milkjar said:
how long you haven't spoken now?
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about a year give or take. i’m the one who cut her off because i was too caught up in the blackpill and thought it was impossible for someone to love me. i never got closure, i just up and blocked her one day
apatheia said:
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Something like this is going to be completely nuanced between each person, but probably more favorable since she liked you before. Literally just take the shot, do you have anything to lose by doing it? And if she does not reciprocate back then at least you have hard confirmation and know to move on.
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thank you so much for the advice. you’re totally right, which i’m not surprised considering you’re extremely high iq. i’ll probably do it, i’m undecided as of now though
 
Dandelions said:
about a year give or take. i’m the one who cut her off because i was too caught up in the blackpill and thought it was impossible for someone to love me. i never got closure, i just up and blocked her one day
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yea it's over brochacho
 
milkjar said:
it's not the context, but rather how long you have no spoken, it's hard for someone keep attraction for that long especially if they weren't in a relationship or at least some what intimate
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yeah you’re right. it’s my fault after all, can’t blame anyone but myself. i appreicate your transparency
 
apatheia said:
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Sorry, I did not hear it was a year. Yeah, most likely she has moved on, but still what I said still applies, at least you will have closure.
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if only i could travel back in time and tell myself to not click on that @
 
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Dandelions said:
about a year give or take. i’m the one who cut her off because i was too caught up in the blackpill and thought it was impossible for someone to love me. i never got closure, i just up and blocked her one day

thank you so much for the advice. you’re totally right, which i’m not surprised considering you’re extremely high iq. i’ll probably do it, i’m undecided as of now though
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I am nowheres close to being "extremely high iq" thank you for the compliment though.
 
Dandelions said:
yeah you’re right. it’s my fault after all, can’t blame anyone but myself. i appreicate your transparency
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you only live once

I think you should atleast try

what if it turns out to be good?

if it doesn't work doesn't matter, you still have yourself
 
foidletlexi said:
you definitely should i don't see any reason why she wouldn't respond
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twinkdestroyer said:
you only live once

I think you should atleast try

what if it turns out to be good?

if it doesn't work doesn't matter, you still have yourself
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thank you guys. i fumbled big time though if i’m being honest. she deserves better
 
foidletlexi said:
ofc im sure there's a higher chance of her responding to u than not i really think u should just go for it, there's nothing bad that could happen
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twinkdestroyer said:
that's what matters, you made that step

now we wait (inserting spiderman image)
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appreciate it guys. i just texted her saying “hey, how’s it going”. hoping for the best
 
Dandelions said:
so i used to talk to this girl, and i really liked her, but i was too insecure that it self sabotaged any chance i had with her. but she 100% liked me. she asked to be put on, initiated hangouts, goodmorning texts, etc. we don’t talk anymore, but i feel like hitting her up. what are the chances she responds
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Shoot your shot bud, but depends on how you ended up talking if everything was chill go for it
 
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Dandelions said:
ok, i’m going to send her a text right now. highly doubt she’ll respond but oh well. thank you guys for pushing me out of my comfort zone
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Hope it turns out well for you, if it does not, you said during orientation that two girls seemed into you, so clearly you are doing something right. It is not the end of the world if she does not reciprocate back.
 
Dandelions said:
so i used to talk to this girl, and i really liked her, but i was too insecure that it self sabotaged any chance i had with her. but she 100% liked me. she asked to be put on, initiated hangouts, goodmorning texts, etc. we don’t talk anymore, but i feel like hitting her up. what are the chances she responds
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n***a who cares about the chances she wanted u in the past js do it if she doesnt u dont even talk anymore wont fucking matter
 
apatheia said:
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Hope it turns out well for you, if it does not, you said during orientation that two girls seemed into you, so clearly you are doing something right. It is not the end of the world if she does not reciprocate back.
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thank you my good friend
foidletlexi said:
im so proud of u rn
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you’re so supportive and i absolutely love it
tuberculosisinmybal said:
Shoot your shot bud, but depends on how you ended up talking if everything was chill go for it
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hello tuber, thank you for the advice my friend
 
drchad said:
n***a who cares about the chances she wanted u in the past js do it if she doesnt u dont even talk anymore wont fucking matter
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Dandelions said:
it’s some nba talk. we’re basically just referencing random players and moments. however, giannis antetokounmpo is not a random player. he’s the greatest power forward in nba history
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He yapped some rnadom stuff hes lowk bad maybe i should hit
Is giannis the guy tha got injured
 
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