Need advice

[Kamo]

So I'm with this girl right
Before I used to be able to kiss her hug her and everything
Then we had a few issues got back together
Then she hated physical touch like crazy
So we go on a date right
And now she wanted a hug today out of the blue
Did I fuck up by being reluctant about it?
Like I hugged her but barely

 

[Deleted Member 78476]

all roads lead to Rome

 

[Kamo]

all roads lead to Rome

Real shit, it was going well until a few months ago then she turned into the emo "I hate touch and I don't know how to show love" shit

 

[Deleted Member 49073]

She's wanting to get closer again, it's up to you if you want this as well.

 

[Deleted Member 78476]

Real shit, it was going well until a few months ago then she turned into the emo "I hate touch and I don't know how to show love" shit

cheat

 

[Kamo]

She's wanting to get closer again, it's up to you if you want this as well.

Yes I want it but she still acts distant and slow

 

[Kamo]

cheat

I'm a good man that goes to church trust I have too much faith to cheat, I've literally locked away any physical intimacy or want for sex for her

 

[Deleted Member 78476]

I'm a good man that goes to church trust I have too much faith to cheat, I've literally locked away any physical intimacy or want for sex for her

yeah me too
just dispose of her and focus on everything but relationships

 

[Kamo]

She's wanting to get closer again, it's up to you if you want this as well.

What am I supposed to do to make her feel comfortable

 

[Deleted Member 49073]

What am I supposed to do to make her feel comfortable

Might sound corny, but make her feel protected and listened to.
Talk with her about her troubles, be able to stand your ground against adversary, etc.

 

[Deleted Member 78476]

What am I supposed to do to make her feel comfortable

give up on it completely

 

[Kamo]

Might sound corny, but make her feel protected and listened to.
Talk with her about her troubles, be able to stand your ground against adversary, etc.

Alright, and if she rarely answers my texts (as she usually does) what should I do then

 

[Deleted Member 49073]

Alright, and if she rarely answers my texts (as she usually does) what should I do then

Don't force it, wait until it's absolutely vital to text her. Something you really have to say.
Just give it time.

 

[Kamo]

Don't force it, wait until it's absolutely vital to text her. Something you really have to say.
Just give it time.

Okay, it seems now she is posting about how she feels unwanted and nobody likes her in her status, also something else happened I have no recollection of because I wasnt involved