Serious need help asap

[Angel]

yesterday my friend was spam texting me it reels and i thought to myself i'll answer later

i never did and more reels came in i ignored

it got late and claimed he was getting ignored but i literally procrastinated answering him bc i got scared he would be rlly mad

i did the same thing today but honestly he kinda puts me down when i talk to him

he's rude and makes everything about himself and puts his problems on me so i'm kinda subconsciously protecting myself

do i text him back

 

[HolyHair5000]

i did the same thing today but honestly he kinda puts me down when i talk to him

he's rude and makes everything about himself and puts his problems on me so i'm kinda subconsciously protecting myself

and you call this guy your “friend”

 

[submissivechud]

yesterday my friend was spam texting me it reels and i thought to myself i'll answer later

i never did and more reels came in i ignored

it got late and claimed he was getting ignored but i literally procrastinated answering him bc i got scared he would be rlly mad

i did the same thing today but honestly he kinda puts me down when i talk to him

he's rude and makes everything about himself and puts his problems on me so i'm kinda subconsciously protecting myself

do i text him back

He doesnt seem like much of a friend

 

[Angel]

and you call this guy your “friend”

He doesnt seem like much of a friend

wdym?

 

[HolyHair5000]

wdym?

you said he puts you down when you talk to him that doesn’t make up of a good friend is what we are saying.

 

[submissivechud]

wdym?

What kind of friend puts one another

 

[Angel]

you said he puts you down when you talk to him that doesn’t make up of a good friend is what we are saying.

oh i apologize, i didnt understand

yeah i know, i try not to talk to him that much but then he starts victimizing himself if i don't talk to him

 

[HolyHair5000]

oh i apologize, i didnt understand

yeah i know, i try not to talk to him that much but then he starts victimizing himself if i don't talk to him

your friend seems to have some problems then just saying.

 

[submissivechud]

oh i apologize, i didnt understand

yeah i know, i try not to talk to him that much but then he starts victimizing himself if i don't talk to him

He just sounds annoying as fuck

 

[Angel]

What kind of friend puts one another

yeah, he's very egotistical which upset me honestly

your friend seems to have some problems then just saying.

yeah that's why i feel bad

he says he has no other friends and i'm the only person he talks to

 

[Angel]

He just sounds annoying as fuck

yeah he sent me like three scrolls worth of texts yesterday

but also i dont have to have an excuse why i didn't answer him he's just possessive because he's lonely

i only reach out or talk to people i want to because it's a waste of time to put myself in a negative position

 

[HolyHair5000]

yeah, he's very egotistical which upset me honestly

yeah that's why i feel bad

he says he has no other friends and i'm the only person he talks to

ik this might be hard to do but you need to bring up his problems to him so he can fix them if you is all he’s got then that’s probably why he victimizes himself when you don’t talk/respond to him

 

[Angel]

ik this might be hard to do but you need to bring up his problems to him so he can fix them if you is all he’s got then that’s probably why he victimizes himself when you don’t talk/respond to him

i know it's hard because if i'm not being satire i'm a people pleaser

i want him to have friends and be happy but it's draining me and takes away my time from people i actually want to converse with

i want to say something but it seems like he will get angry and it's obviously gonna upset me when he attacks me

 

[jacksasub5]

yesterday my friend was spam texting me it reels and i thought to myself i'll answer later

i never did and more reels came in i ignored

it got late and claimed he was getting ignored but i literally procrastinated answering him bc i got scared he would be rlly mad

i did the same thing today but honestly he kinda puts me down when i talk to him

he's rude and makes everything about himself and puts his problems on me so i'm kinda subconsciously protecting myself

do i text him back

if you dont like him talking to him onlyy wastes both of your time tell him and try to solve it or just stop talking to him

 

[HolyHair5000]

i know it's hard because if i'm not being satire i'm a people pleaser

i want him to have friends and be happy but it's draining me and takes away my time from people i actually want to converse with

i want to say something but it seems like he will get angry and it's obviously gonna upset me when he attacks me

yeah something like this is a bad situation but i just recommend telling him about it and if he “attacks” you just know he’s doing it because it’s the truth and he doesn’t want to admit it

 

[Angel]

yeah something like this is a bad situation but i just recommend telling him about it and if he “attacks” you just know he’s doing it because it’s the truth and he doesn’t want to admit it

very true

i'll talk to him tomorrow about everything thank you so much

 

[HolyHair5000]

very true

i'll talk to him tomorrow about everything thank you so much

yes yes no problem feel free to ask for any other advice in this situation

 

[jacksasub5]

very true

i'll talk to him tomorrow about everything thank you so much

i had a friend group like that too now I have like none hope it goes better for you

 

[rand anon]

ds and i'm the only person he talks to

well no wonder, considering the way he is. Help da maynnn out by informing him of his retarded behavior and then cut ties

Pat pat

 

[submissivechud]

yeah he sent me like three scrolls worth of texts yesterday

but also i dont have to have an excuse why i didn't answer him he's just possessive because he's lonely

i only reach out or talk to people i want to because it's a waste of time to put myself in a negative position

He sounds like a friend of mine
Its hard to stop talking to them
Tbh Idk how I can, i cant be of much help

 

[Angel]

He sounds like a friend of mine
Its hard to stop talking to them
Tbh Idk how I can, i cant be of much help

it's okay, i'm just gonna build up the courage to express my feelings

 

[submissivechud]

it's okay, i'm just gonna build up the courage to express my feelings

Thats good
Let me know how it goes