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Finished my studies still khhv 0 kisses not even a hug from a girl. Im a Big failure bullied as a child and now my father has cancer too. I feel lonely i never had any Friends and i feel the end is Closer than before. I actually dont know how to cope and i feel hopeless.

Should i end with it?
 
no just take steroids and get huge it’s easy asf after that
 
Where do you live? Height? Race?
 
How did you end up in this situation? Did you isolate yourself from everyone? Or do normies just don’t want anything to do with you?
 
Beanermaxxer said:
How did you end up in this situation? Did you isolate yourself from everyone? Or do normies just don’t want anything to do with you?
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I think both things happened. I suffered bullying in high school and that made me isolate myself but also normies don't want to get along with me
 
returnofthecutecel said:
Finished my studies still khhv 0 kisses not even a hug from a girl. Im a Big failure bullied as a child and now my father has cancer too. I feel lonely i never had any Friends and i feel the end is Closer than before. I actually dont know how to cope and i feel hopeless.

Should i end with it?
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Wym end with it bro... Stop saying that shit, trust me, get in the gym and exercise, try to do stuff you never did (in every field), download tinder or hinge and start going out with a girl, if youre consistent you will find one. On the first date you will be very shy and insecure, its fine, its the first, on the second one you will be slightly better. And just like this you will improve.
The best thing is to put yourself in social enviroments, for example, i don't like going to the club, but i feel its the right thing to develop human relationships skills, you talk with boys and girls, everybody, your brain will develop skills that you never had.
 
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Wym end with it bro... Stop saying that shit, trust me, get in the gym and exercise, try to do stuff you never did (in every field), download tinder or hinge and start going out with a girl, if youre consistent you will find one. On the first date you will be very shy and insecure, its fine, its the first, on the second one you will be slightly better. And just like this you will improve.
The best thing is to put yourself in social enviroments, for example, i don't like going to the club, but i feel its the right thing to develop human relationships skills, you talk with boys and girls, everybody, your brain will develop skills that you never had.
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I am 24 bro, its a point of no return
 
returnofthecutecel said:
I think both things happened. I suffered bullying in high school and that made me isolate myself but also normies don't want to get along with me
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Makes sense, brutal combo tbh. Bullying shits on your self image, then isolation turns you into someone normies actually avoid. It becomes a loop: they treat you like shit -> you isolate -> your social skills decay -> they sense the awkwardness -> repeat.

But first be brutally honest with yourself.

Do you have some sort of neurodivergence?

Do you give off weird energy?

Do you avoid eye contact, mumble, or fidget?

I’m gonna assume you are probably autistic or have some kind of neurodivergence. You should probably train your social interactions, the average normie does not have the need to do this ofc, but you do. And I am going to assume that your parents neglected you in this aspect of life. So:

- Start small interactions daily. Ask a cashier how their day is. Make eye contact. Compliment someones shoes. It’ll feel fake and forced af first, but do it anyway.

- Film yourself talking. It’s going to be fucking awkward. But it’ll show you how you come across. That’s how you fix it.


- Stop thinking people hate you by default. They don’t, they just react to the energy you give. Change the input, and you’ll start changing the output.

Don’t try too hard to be liked by normies. Just get good at being someone you respect.
 
Beanermaxxer said:
Makes sense, brutal combo tbh. Bullying shits on your self image, then isolation turns you into someone normies actually avoid. It becomes a loop: they treat you like shit -> you isolate -> your social skills decay -> they sense the awkwardness -> repeat.

But first be brutally honest with yourself.

Do you have some sort of neurodivergence?

Do you give off weird energy?

Do you avoid eye contact, mumble, or fidget?

I’m gonna assume you are probably autistic or have some kind of neurodivergence. You should probably train your social interactions, the average normie does not have the need to do this ofc, but you do. And I am going to assume that your parents neglected your in this aspect of life. So:

- Start small interactions daily. Ask a cashier how their day is. Make eye contact. Compliment someones shoes. It’ll feel fake and forced af first, but do it anyway.

- Film yourself talking. It’s going to be fucking awkward. But it’ll show you how you come across. That’s how you fix it.


- Stop thinking people hate you by default. They don’t, they just react to the energy you give. Change the input, and you’ll start changing the output.

Don’t try too hard to be liked by normies. Just get good at being someone you respect.
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I don't know if im autistic but i can do expositions in class or talk with other people. But maybe they can sense something weird or its only the fact that im ugly and short.
 
Beanermaxxer said:
Makes sense, brutal combo tbh. Bullying shits on your self image, then isolation turns you into someone normies actually avoid. It becomes a loop: they treat you like shit -> you isolate -> your social skills decay -> they sense the awkwardness -> repeat.

But first be brutally honest with yourself.

Do you have some sort of neurodivergence?

Do you give off weird energy?

Do you avoid eye contact, mumble, or fidget?

I’m gonna assume you are probably autistic or have some kind of neurodivergence. You should probably train your social interactions, the average normie does not have the need to do this ofc, but you do. And I am going to assume that your parents neglected you in this aspect of life. So:

- Start small interactions daily. Ask a cashier how their day is. Make eye contact. Compliment someones shoes. It’ll feel fake and forced af first, but do it anyway.

- Film yourself talking. It’s going to be fucking awkward. But it’ll show you how you come across. That’s how you fix it.


- Stop thinking people hate you by default. They don’t, they just react to the energy you give. Change the input, and you’ll start changing the output.

Don’t try too hard to be liked by normies. Just get good at being someone you respect.
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very good advice
 
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