Serious Never use the term “insecure“

[height]

It makes you look like a big stupid idiot. That is because the term insecure is vague and doesnt clear things up. It just opens up a variety of ways to overthink.

If you say “my insecurities“ you are throwing a flash bang of confusion into your subconcious.

If you accuse someone of being insecure you show your ignorance since you dont know anyones heart or why they do something.

If you think someone is insecure you can help them or make them feel comfortable.

 

[homeless on the spectrum]

Good thread

It hurts my brain when people don't use precise language

 

[kazama]

Real

 

[Archelaus]

It makes you look like a big stupid idiot. That is because the term insecure is vague and doesnt clear things up. It just opens up a variety of ways to overthink.

If you say “my insecurities“ you are throwing a flash bang of confusion into your subconcious.

If you accuse someone of being insecure you show your ignorance since you dont know anyones heart or why they do something.

If you think someone is insecure you can help them or make them feel comfortable.

I agree, helping someone insecure is the best decision, but calling out insecurity and the other party listening and not taking offense to it would be the first step, you have to identify an issue to adress it

 

[height]

I agree, helping someone insecure is the best decision, but calling out insecurity and the other party listening and not taking offense to it would be the first step, you have to identify an issue to adress it

My mentor does this to me but its not something most people could handle. Its much deeper than just calling me insecure but now i see that it works. He just calls it triggering. I have analyzed why it is triggering and it is because he doesnt explain to me why he said it. So there is confusion. Insecurity? I don’t think that insecurity is anything you can pin point. Even when you go by the trauma theory of Alice Miller.

There is an explanation for this by Teal Swan who says that we have dozens of personalities. In my opinion this also includes empathy. Empathy and personality probably switch together.

An even better explanation is probably in the kabala where i think its dozens of minor arcanas but i havent looked at it yet.

This is why its important to talk to your child just as you do with others so it doesn’t underdevelop one or multiple empathies. Which is what autism or psychopathy are.

 

[Archelaus]

My mentor does this to me but its not something most people could handle. Its much deeper than just calling me insecure but now i see that it works. He just calls it triggering. I have analyzed why it is triggering and it is because he doesnt explain to me why he said it. So there is confusion. Insecurity? I don’t think that insecurity is anything you can pin point. Even when you go by the trauma theory of Alice Miller.

There is an explanation for this by Teal Swan who says that we have dozens of personalities. In my opinion this also includes empathy. Empathy and personality probably switch together.

An even better explanation is probably in the kabala where i think its dozens of minor arcanas but i havent looked at it yet.

This is why its important to talk to your child just as you do with others so it doesn’t underdevelop one or multiple empathies. Which is what autism or psychopathy are.

People who treat their children in a way they treat an adult (if the child is kid) or in the same way they treat a baby (if the child is a teenager for example) are setting them up for failure i agree.