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nightmare 2nd date๐Ÿ˜ญ

She needs to grow a pair ngl
Like after being insulted i feel kind of shitty but a whole fucking paragraph is crazy
what is so wrong w communication๐Ÿ˜, if something/someone makes u feel shitty especially a person ur romantically involved with u need to speak up
 
noticing how it's almost unanimously the men here who are mad at me ๐Ÿ’€
incels on looksmax forums were left behind in 2023. weโ€™re all grown enough to differentiate right from wrong . regardless of how often women can be cruel, youโ€™re objectively in the wrong here
 
Yah just grow a pair bro
I get being insecure abt weight but take everything a n***a say with a grain of salt, whole personality shouldnt come crashing down js bcs some dude mightve not found u attractive. plenty of fish in the sea
 
what is so wrong w communication๐Ÿ˜, if something/someone makes u feel shitty especially a person ur romantically involved with u need to speak up
Just dump them if its the 2nd date and they say sum shit like that tbh
 
I get being insecure abt weight but take everything a n***a say with a grain of salt, whole personality shouldnt come crashing down js bcs some dude mightve not found u attractive. plenty of fish in the sea
I used to know a girl I told her sheโ€™s a lil over weight and then she sent me a barcode arm istg , girls react different I even said it in a good tone and was just concerned about her health wasnโ€™t even dating her
 
if you had only sent the first screenshot, i wouldve agreed it was confusing for her to ask such a question and then be offended by your answer.

the rest of the messages tell a different story. she comes across as kind and willing to communicate openly. i also cant understand why you would brag about having sex with her, then include a screenshot showing she felt uncomfortable about it afterward jfl. it also wasnt even necessary to send those messages as some sort of "proof" you werent lying. the jabs at her appearance towards the end only further the strangeness of it all.

theres nothing shocking about being a shit person or making shitty decisions, but not recognizing whats wrong here is odd. comments like, โ€œand all this other dumb shit not to mention all the kind words and emotional labor I did for her,โ€ make it sound like you are the bad guy, which clearly wasnt your intention, before you say anything.

and when a person sends a photo like that to you, your words afterward will either affirm their trust or betray it. all of this has cost you far more in the way people see your character i would say. looking from an outsider's pov
ok but you haven't seen and experienced this girl lmao get off ur high horse, maybe you wouldn't make a thread like this but you would understand and empathize with my other words / actions much more.
 
Just dump them if its the 2nd date and they say sum shit like that tbh
ppl like u are the reason why relationships these days are shit
canโ€™t even communicate these days lmao, what she said wasnโ€™t even crazy or overdramatic
i swear i saw u complaining somewhere ab relationships too come the fuck on
 
I used to know a German bitch I told her sheโ€™s a lil over weight and then she sent me a barcode arm istg , girls react different I even said it in a good tone and was just concerned about her health not even dating her
thats diff bro damn I wouldnt send cutting pics but thats straight up cruel
in slops situation though, im guessing it wasnt in that harsh of a context, thats why i think shes overreacting a bit, but i understand both sides tbh
 
ppl like u are the reason why relationships these days are shit
canโ€™t even communicate these days lmao, what she said wasnโ€™t even crazy or overdramatic
i swear i saw u complaining somewhere ab relationships too come the fuck on
why? i get communicating if your deep in a rls, but if its the 2nd date, and someone said some mean shit to you, id just dip ngl
 
thats diff bro damn I wouldnt send cutting pics but thats straight up cruel
in slops situation though, im guessing it wasnt in that harsh of a context, thats why i think shes overreacting a bit, but i understand both sides tbh
folded like a lawning chair
 
She needs to grow a pair ngl
Like after being insulted i feel kind of shitty but a whole fucking paragraph is crazy
She might just be a more sensitive girl tbh. Its totally valid, she communicated well there. Might be a little excessive, but its mature on her part.
 
ok but you haven't seen and experienced this girl lmao get off ur high horse, maybe you wouldn't make a thread like this but you would understand and empathize with my other words / actions much more.
i think that was a point i was trying to make. announcing this is fine, but im not sure why you would respond to me saying "i dont know whats wrong with this". it takes simple context clues yknow? or youre just playing dumb. if you truly think you did or said nothing wrong than you wouldnt call my perspective from a "high horse". youd also be aware youve left out total context, which is fine, but dont act surprised about why i said what i said. youre clearly saying here if i had more context i'd understand, but i dont. im taking what you said at face value which is a fair thing to expect. if you think youre totally in the right, then you know your situation better than any of us.
 

~โ€”โ€ข APATHEIA โ€ขโ€”~​


She might just be a more sensitive girl tbh. Its totally valid, she communicated well there. Might be a little excessive, but its mature on her part.

Now imagine if she posted a thread on a forum down talking the original poster and posted his face and an intimate photo...easy dox and potential blackmail.
 
ok but you haven't seen and experienced this girl lmao get off ur high horse, maybe you wouldn't make a thread like this but you would understand and empathize with my other words / actions much more.
You displayed nothing here that would make this in your favor at all, this isn't a high horse take. You dropped the ball when you threw her insecurities in the ocean to feed the fish. It was scummy asf, you could've easily detailed this out better but even then leaving the shit out would just make you look less scummy when you acted it.

You did people a favor really by showing how much of a prick you are, so caught up in manipulation you don't even know how it seems bad.
 
I feel like Iโ€™m Shia jehadist with that S on my avi I need an avi now
 
whoever removed the first pic is a stupid bitch
 
i think that was a point i was trying to make. announcing this is fine, but im not sure why you would respond to me saying "i dont know whats wrong with this". it takes simple context clues yknow? or youre just playing dumb. if you truly think you did or said nothing wrong than you wouldnt call my perspective from a "high horse". youd also be aware youve left out total context, which is fine, but dont act surprised about why i said what i said. youre clearly saying here if i had more context i'd understand, but i dont. im taking what you said at face value which is a fair thing to expect. if you think youre totally in the right, then you know your situation better than any of us.
>you would call my perspective from a high forse
that's exactly how I would respond to someone preaching at me from the sidelines. I made one comment about her weight and you're typing essays over it.
You displayed nothing here that would make this in your favor at all, this isn't a high horse take. You dropped the ball when you threw her insecurities in the ocean to feed the fish. It was scummy asf, you could've easily detailed this out better but even then leaving the shit out would just make you look less scummy when you acted it.

You did people a favor really by showing how much of a prick you are, so caught up in manipulation you don't even know how it seems bad.
sure it is, I couldn't imagine being so invested in defending someone that wasn't at least my sister or smth. no one gives a fuck about about what I say or do here pretending otherwise is just cope
 
>you would call my perspective from a high forse
I made one comment about her weight and you're typing essays over it.
the weight comment i actually have no problem with, which i said earlier. its good to be honest even if it seems like the worse answer. it was the other stuff i quoted, and all around everything else you said. i already mentioned that though haha
 
why this n***a smallville doing a non-gold react

AI going haywire type shit

we're all fucked
the names Dandelions blud
 

~โ€”โ€ข APATHEIA โ€ขโ€”~​




I apologize, it just reminded me of a comment that user made under @foidletlexi's post that I presume was deleted, otherwise I would quote it.
@ Decay?
 
i think that was a point i was trying to make. announcing this is fine, but im not sure why you would respond to me saying "i dont know whats wrong with this". it takes simple context clues yknow? or youre just playing dumb. if you truly think you did or said nothing wrong than you wouldnt call my perspective from a "high horse". youd also be aware youve left out total context, which is fine, but dont act surprised about why i said what i said. youre clearly saying here if i had more context i'd understand, but i dont. im taking what you said at face value which is a fair thing to expect. if you think youre totally in the right, then you know your situation better than any of us.
its probably on purpose for dark triad foid manipulator status

I don't think he posted this unaware that (some) people would think he's an asshole. If he wanted validation he'd have posted it on org where people would just call him based. Unless hes banned there or smth idk the guy
 

~โ€”โ€ข APATHEIA โ€ขโ€”~​



~โ€”โ€ข APATHEIA โ€ขโ€”~​




No, Decay said he would not do something like that. It was darkeningstar.

Do not worry about it. It was an offhand comment and immature of me. Pay it no mind.
 
the weight comment i actually have no problem with, which i said earlier. its good to be honest even if it seems like the worse answer. it was the other stuff i quoted, and all around everything else you said. i already mentioned that though haha
I guess we just disagree about the morality of posting intimate irl experiences on here... the photo wasn't even that bad and neither were my words / actions
 

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