nothing in life matters to me

[Deleted Member 76281]

i can only pretend it does. regardless of anything i accomplish within any field, it would never truly matter to me. deep down inside, i’ve only ever wanted one thing.

and that is to be attractive. i want to be like those tiktok pretty boys who have girls saying out of pocket statements in their comment sections. i never will though, so everything i do in life is a temporary placeholder to try and help fill in the hollowness inside

i know some of you guys can relate

 

[BlendedBulge]

Your dopamine system is fried

Dopamine detox + 9-Me-BC

 

[YourFavouriteUser]

I see no point in living if I can't be beautiful aah brain wiring

good thread anyways

 

[Deleted Member 76281]

Your dopamine system is fried

Dopamine detox + 9-MeBC

are you sure i’m not just being realistic

 

[over0]

Being attractive wouldn't matter if other people didn't exist btw

If being attractive is "the only thing that matters to you" then there's a reason why you put it on a pedestal but you have to figure out what that reason is

 

[Deleted Member 76281]

Being attractive wouldn't matter if other people didn't exist btw

If being attractive is "the only thing that matters to you" then there's a reason why you put it on a pedestal but you have to figure out what that reason is

good point. thank you for your input

 

[BlendedBulge]

are you sure i’m not just being realistic

It’s not natural to feel that

It’s too long to explain

In short: you shouldn’t feel that way by default

Your default state is what you had when you were a kid. Did you care to be the best and perfect as a kid?

These are all man made dogmas

@Nihilus thoughts ?

 

[Deleted Member 76281]

It’s not natural to feel that

It’s too long to explain

In short: you shouldn’t feel that way by default

Your default state is what you had when you were a kid. Did you care to be the best and perfect as a kid?

These are all man made dogmas

@Nihilus thoughts ?

yeah you’re probably right about that. i don’t think i’ll ever be able to fix it though so i just continue looking at other ways to enjoy life

 

[Nihilus]

It’s not natural to feel that

It’s too long to explain

In short: you shouldn’t feel that way by default

Your default state is what you had when you were a kid. Did you care to be the best and perfect as a kid?

These are all man made dogmas

@Nihilus thoughts ?

Yes

 

[Nihilus]

yeah you’re probably right about that. i don’t think i’ll ever be able to fix it though so i just continue looking at other ways to enjoy life

Never stress and fix your biochemical state

 

[Deleted Member 76281]

Never stress and fix your biochemical state

i will indeed try, thank you my friend

 

[BlendedBulge]

Never stress and fix your biochemical state

Yeah I think he needs to fix his life issues if he has them (drop negative people and talk to positive people more), maybe change school for example if it’s bad there for him

As far as biohacking goes he needs to improve sleep, get sunlight, vitamins, and compound 9-Me-BC can help increase dopamine receptors sensitivity

And yes avoiding cheap pleasure like social media porn etc

 

[Deleted Member 67860]

ok

 

[Tumor]

Yeah I relate, only thing you can do is work a job and save up to ascend to some higher level

 

[BlendedBulge]

Yeah I relate, only thing you can do is work a job and save up to ascend to some higher level

It can help but it will never be enough it’s just an endless cycle
He needs to work both on his looks and mental health

 

[Tumor]

It can help but it will never be enough it’s just an endless cycle
He needs to work both on his looks and mental health

The 2 surgeries I want will satisfy me a lot

 

[Deleted Member 76281]

The 2 surgeries I want will satisfy me a lot

i think using steroids and building a good physique would have a higher return on investment

 

[Tumor]

i think using steroids and building a good physique would have a higher return on investment

Thanks but the gym doesn't change your facial bones

 

[Deleted Member 76281]

Thanks but the gym doesn't change your facial bones

the physique aspect of it is more important at your age

 

[fashist]

i know how it feels dandy and i seriously think you’re really dysmorphic
i think starting school will be the best thing for you, as you’ll form plenty of new relationships to help you realise your looks aren’t the only important thing in life
i hope one day you can realise your worth and leave this forum for good

 

[Deleted Member 76281]

i hope one day you can realise your worth and leave this forum for good

reminds me of sigma

 

[Tumor]

the physique aspect of it is more important at your age

Mehhhhh I'd be happy with any of the 2 surgeries I want, or both

 

[BlendedBulge]

i know how it feels dandy and i seriously think you’re really dysmorphic
i think starting school will be the best thing for you, as you’ll form plenty of new relationships to help you realise your looks aren’t the only important thing in life
i hope one day you can realise your worth and leave this forum for good

Awwwww

 

[Deleted Member 76281]

Mehhhhh I'd be happy with any of the 2 surgeries I want, or both

you’re playing a very risky game my friend, but i hope it pays off

 

[BlendedBulge]

you’re playing a very risky game my friend, but i hope it pays off

Some surgeries aren’t that risky like I will get rhino and genio small tweaks that will increase harmony

 

[Deleted Member 76281]

Some surgeries aren’t that risky like I will get rhino and genio small tweaks that will increase harmony

 

[Tumor]

you’re playing a very risky game my friend, but i hope it pays off

Jaw implants and fat grafts (for eyes)

Are they risky?

 

[Deleted Member 76281]

Jaw implants and fat grafts (for eyes)

Are they risky?

likely not

 

[r4ge]

Most attractive women end up with average-looking guys anyways; beauty is not everything, although it is important. I'd honestly say physique can up your attractiveness by a point. Style is pretty important too. Most people here are just insecure and have body dysmorphia. It's okay to be average-looking; imo, there are some advantages to it. Like Lexi said, I hope you realize your worth.

 

[Deleted Member 76281]

Most attractive women end up with average-looking guys anyways; beauty is not everything, although it is important. I'd honestly say physique can up your attractiveness by a point. Style is pretty important too. Most people here are just insecure and have body dysmorphia. It's okay to be average-looking; imo, there are some advantages to it. Like Lexi said, I hope you realize your worth.

thank you for the long and detailed comment, it’s very thoughtful. you’re right, but i just like having a competitive spirit. my life is amazing the way it is, but there’s always room for improvement

 

[r4ge]

thank you for the long and detailed comment, it’s very thoughtful. you’re right, but i just like having a competitive spirit. my life is amazing the way it is, but there’s always room for improvement

Of course! I understand; I'm also a very competitive person. I'm glad you can say your life is pretty good how it is; most people can't, so that's really good! and I agree.

 

[Stardust_]

i can only pretend it does. regardless of anything i accomplish within any field, it would never truly matter to me. deep down inside, i’ve only ever wanted one thing.

and that is to be attractive. i want to be like those tiktok pretty boys who have girls saying out of pocket statements in their comment sections. i never will though, so everything i do in life is a temporary placeholder to try and help fill in the hollowness inside

i know some of you guys can relate

What would being attractive do if you don’t do well in studies? I think studies are way more important than any of this, sorry if it seems wrong for me to comment on here as I don’t know what it’s like for guys in society but being a good person is what makes you successful, don’t change for anyone

 

[Deleted Member 76281]

What would being attractive do if you don’t do well in studies? I think studies are way more important than any of this, sorry if it seems wrong for me to comment on here as I don’t know what it’s like for guys in society but being a good person is what makes you successful, don’t change for anyone

yeah you’re right. it’s all about being someone others can look up to

 

[Stardust_]

I only speak from experience as someone who couldn’t handle it in my third year of uni my grades tanked and I live with that regret but you don’t have to

 

[MoggerJaw]

This is more to do with human psychology always looking for a challenge. If you were attractive (presuming you were born into such a phenotype) you would have had other concerns that would have been your ‘voids’. Simply unaware of what you in another life wanted was your uncounted gift in this one. The TikTok comments in that case would have been commonplace and thus to you normal. Similarly, I believe the gifts you have right now are immense. It’s not that this ‘void’ can not be filled but more so you have chosen for it to be empty always. This is the common self fulfilling prophecy bias. It’s as the quote goes “it doesn’t matter what we want, once we get it, then we want something else.” Life can indeed be lived in this way, always in a flux of desires. But the quote goes much deeper on further analysis, to have mental fortitude is to clarify to the world and yourself that it’s only you who chooses whether you will be happy or not, think of it this way, every version of you even the personified ideal you want to reach has issues, your mind will always return to a sort of equilibrium after it adjusts to environment. After which it will look for its next struggles. You would enjoy those TikTok comments but you’re maturing, this stage in life is one in which the most rapid personality development occurs. In short, those TikTok comments sure seem sweet dandy, but as an adult you simply have bigger issues. I assure you in 3 years time you will feel completely indifferent on some topics you’re passionate about today. I don’t mean to say you shouldn’t focusing on ascending, but I want you to realise that discounting your attractiveness is a cognitive bias more than an objective fact. Why can I tell? I have been in the exact same place, and grown from it.. I too struggle with looks, so does everyone here to a great extent. But you have the choice. You’re focusing on an extremely small place for fulfilled, with due time you’ll realise just how vast life is. I believe it in my bones and I know you do deep down as well.

 

[BlendedBulge]

This is more to do with human psychology always looking for a challenge. If you were attractive (presuming you were born into such a phenotype) you would have had other concerns that would have been your ‘voids’. Simply unaware of what you in another life wanted was your uncounted gift in this one. Similarly, I believe the gifts you have right now are immense. It’s not that this ‘void’ can not be filled but more so you have chosen for it to be empty always. This is the common self fulfilling prophecy bias. It’s as the quote goes “it doesn’t matter what we want, once we get it, then we want something else.” Life can indeed be lived in this way, always in a flux of desires. But to have mental fortitude is to clarify to the world and yourself that it’s only you who chooses whether you will be happy or not. I too struggle with looks, so does everyone here to a great extent. But you have the choice. I believe it in my bones and I know you do deep down as well.

Focus on what you have and you’ll be happier

 

[easterpink]

literally anything you do as a more attractive person counts more and is more widely recognised as something good. A LTN could do the same exact good deed as a HTN and not even get half the praise. Looks actually transpire into everything in life and can determine life trajectory. this is literally water and widely known but still its actually insane. But lowkey the only thing more brutal than looks is pure talent pill.

 

[MoggerJaw]

This is more to do with human psychology always looking for a challenge. If you were attractive (presuming you were born into such a phenotype) you would have had other concerns that would have been your ‘voids’. Simply unaware of what you in another life wanted was your uncounted gift in this one. The TikTok comments in that case would have been commonplace and thus to you normal. Similarly, I believe the gifts you have right now are immense. It’s not that this ‘void’ can not be filled but more so you have chosen for it to be empty always. This is the common self fulfilling prophecy bias. It’s as the quote goes “it doesn’t matter what we want, once we get it, then we want something else.” Life can indeed be lived in this way, always in a flux of desires. But the quote goes much deeper on further analysis, to have mental fortitude is to clarify to the world and yourself that it’s only you who chooses whether you will be happy or not, think of it this way, every version of you even the personified ideal you want to reach has issues, your mind will always return to a sort of equilibrium after it adjusts to environment. After which it will look for its next struggles. You would enjoy those TikTok comments but you’re maturing, this stage in life is one in which the most rapid personality development occurs. In short, those TikTok comments sure seem sweet dandy, but as an adult you simply have bigger issues. I assure you in 3 years time you will feel completely indifferent on some topics you’re passionate about today. I don’t mean to say you shouldn’t focusing on ascending, but I want you to realise that discounting your attractiveness is a cognitive bias more than an objective fact. Why can I tell? I have been in the exact same place, and grown from it.. I too struggle with looks, so does everyone here to a great extent. But you have the choice. You’re focusing on an extremely small place for fulfilled, with due time you’ll realise just how vast life is. I believe it in my bones and I know you do deep down as well.

@Dandelions crodie I think u ain’t even read my msg

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

Being attractive wouldn't matter if other people didn't exist btw

Breathing wouldn’t matter if oxygen didn’t exist btw.

 

[drchad]

i can only pretend it does. regardless of anything i accomplish within any field, it would never truly matter to me. deep down inside, i’ve only ever wanted one thing.

and that is to be attractive. i want to be like those tiktok pretty boys who have girls saying out of pocket statements in their comment sections. i never will though, so everything i do in life is a temporary placeholder to try and help fill in the hollowness inside

i know some of you guys can relate

 

[drchad]

Man this is true

 

[SpecAl122]

the physique aspect of it is more important at your age

This is very late but wdym by this ? I find that the opposite is true, as in your physique's importance decreases as you age. Like, a 30yo with a muscular physique is far less impressive than a 20yo with the same physique