literally benefit nothing from being a girls boyfriend , now you owe a girl constant attention , you have to see her and talk to her consistently , watch her get comfortable because now she feels that you'll desire her even if she doesn't try to be desired by you anymore , you lose your excitement factor so now she'll be bored of you even faster , you'll be put in embarassing situations and situations that will deteriorate your mental health , literally 0 perks to being a boyfriend that you don't get by just being a guy that fucks her