To preface, I'm a KHHV.
I was finally talking with a girl.
I had met her at a coffee shop (I don't even drink coffee but they have good egg biscuits).
Anyways, we really hit it off, and like in a cute and cuddly kinda way. She's kinda damaged and didn't want to have sex. Anyways, the most intimate thing we had done by date 3 is eye contact. So, I ask her out on a walk in the park. We meet together at the park, and I reach for her hand. She meets me, but I feel her tense up and feel like wanting to move away. My hands are cold and pale and small. Her's are normal but again mine are small so basically equal. She is visibily disgusted. She pulls out of the hand hold to point out at a cute dog at the park. I try to quickly recover by running with her over to the dog so we can pet it.
She's ghosted me for 3 months by now, even though I sent her a message last week saying happy birthday. Is it over?
I was finally talking with a girl.
I had met her at a coffee shop (I don't even drink coffee but they have good egg biscuits).
Anyways, we really hit it off, and like in a cute and cuddly kinda way. She's kinda damaged and didn't want to have sex. Anyways, the most intimate thing we had done by date 3 is eye contact. So, I ask her out on a walk in the park. We meet together at the park, and I reach for her hand. She meets me, but I feel her tense up and feel like wanting to move away. My hands are cold and pale and small. Her's are normal but again mine are small so basically equal. She is visibily disgusted. She pulls out of the hand hold to point out at a cute dog at the park. I try to quickly recover by running with her over to the dog so we can pet it.
She's ghosted me for 3 months by now, even though I sent her a message last week saying happy birthday. Is it over?