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okay gn

huntergirl said:
I don’t have a type. Looks wise I would consider you, but in the end it comes down to your personality
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Some women don't care for personality. I'm too much of a truecel, my former oneitis didn't even want to get to know me, just straight up turned me down. :kekw::sadge::sadcat:
 
Chifuyu said:
Some women don't care for personality. I'm too much of a truecel, my former oneitis didn't even want to get to know me, just straight up turned me down. :kekw::sadge::sadcat:
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Ive never been turned down but then again I have never asked
 
huntergirl said:
Yeah I get it, but what if you have a happy family by then? You’re kinda thinking in a very negative/fixed way, like things will never get better. You never know what life has planned for you. Don’t just give up.
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I don't want to have kids. Women from my background all want to have kids, so they wouldn't want to marry me. They marry to start a family, I wanted to marry to avoid loneliness and have something to live for, but I have lost interest in women after my oneitis thingy (that happened in 2021). Who knows, perhaps I'll get a dog or some other kind of pet so that I can have a reason to stay. If there's anything I love more than anything else it's animals. We'll see how it goes!
 
BimaxLaser said:
Ive never been turned down but then again I have never asked
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My oneitis thingy hurt a lot because I wasn't interested in her because of looks, it was something deeper than that. And I got turned down because of my looks. Not that I was told that, but it's pretty damn obvious. Only a legit truecel would get turned down. And aside from that, I am rarely attracted to girls, so yeah it was a really depressing episode of my life. I even started smoking again even though I had stopped f or 7 years at that point. :sadcat:
 
Chifuyu said:
My oneitis thingy hurt a lot because I wasn't interested in her because of looks, it was something deeper than that. And I got turned down because of my looks. Not that I was told that, but it's pretty damn obvious. Only a legit truecel would get turned down. And aside from that, I am rarely attracted to girls, so yeah it was a really depressing episode of my life. I even started smoking again even though I had stopped f or 7 years at that point. :sadcat:
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idk what a oneitis is
 
Chifuyu said:
My oneitis thingy hurt a lot because I wasn't interested in her because of looks, it was something deeper than that. And I got turned down because of my looks. Not that I was told that, but it's pretty damn obvious. Only a legit truecel would get turned down. And aside from that, I am rarely attracted to girls, so yeah it was a really depressing episode of my life. I even started smoking again even though I had stopped f or 7 years at that point. :sadcat:
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Its very sad how just how your face is shaped can stop you from accomplishing romantic relationships
I havent smoked a cigarette in my life tbh
 
huntergirl said:
Brutal
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Definitely. She's married now, and became a mother recently. She actually lives very nearby, but I avoid going in that direction now even though it's a convenient direction because a supermarket is there, so I go to another franchise that's even further away. Anything to avoid them, I just don't want to risk seeing her with her husband. If I see them together, it's gonna live rent-free in my head.
 
Chifuyu said:
Definitely. She's married now, and became a mother recently. She actually lives very nearby, but I avoid going in that direction now even though it's a convenient direction because a supermarket is there, so I go to another franchise that's even further away. Anything to avoid them, I just don't want to risk seeing her with her husband. If I see them together, it's gonna live rent-free in my head.
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get therapy to move on ngl, things need to continue and change eventually
 
Chifuyu said:
Definitely. She's married now, and became a mother recently. She actually lives very nearby, but I avoid going in that direction now even though it's a convenient direction because a supermarket is there, so I go to another franchise that's even further away. Anything to avoid them, I just don't want to risk seeing her with her husband. If I see them together, it's gonna live rent-free in my head.
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First love typa shi I see
 
Ultramaxxfiresigma said:
get therapy to move on ngl, things need to continue and change eventually
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I don't talk about my problems in real life, not even with friends or family. I'm already over it but I am just telling it here so you guys can understand why I am the way I am now.
 
Chifuyu said:
I don't talk about my problems in real life, not even with friends or family. I'm already over it but I am just telling it here so you guys can understand why I am the way I am now.
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it still looks like u need help getting back up ngl
everyone copes differently take ur time dude
wishing u the best
 
BimaxLaser said:
Same
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It took me 6 years to open up. I recommend you change your ways, and start talking about your problems. I mean, the fact you are admitting you have problems is a good step. In the past, I never said anything about it, not even online. It's only since 2021 that I started talking about it. I guess I mention it often, as if I'm making up for my keeping silent.
 
Chifuyu said:
It took me 6 years to open up. I recommend you change your ways, and start talking about your problems. I mean, the fact you are admitting you have problems is a good step. In the past, I never said anything about it, not even online. It's only since 2021 that I started talking about it. I guess I mention it often, as if I'm making up for my keeping silent.
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Im not sure to who I would open up to. I do the same as you and speak more openly in forums such as these but idk
 
Ultramaxxfiresigma said:
this is a sign ur not moved on
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No, I really have moved on from my oneitis. I don't even want to be with her. Not because I'm mad at her, but because there's no point anymore in being with her anymore, even if she were to divorce (I really hope she never does!!!!!). It's too late now. In fact, I even congratulated her on wedding. I dunno what she said in response because I sent a letter and dropped it in her mailbox. I wanted to end things on a positive note.
 
Chifuyu said:
No, I really have moved on from my oneitis. I don't even want to be with her. Not because I'm mad at her, but because there's no point anymore in being with her anymore, even if she were to divorce (I really hope she never does!!!!!). It's too late now. In fact, I even congratulated her on wedding. I dunno what she said in response because I sent a letter and dropped it in her mailbox. I wanted to end things on a positive note.
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happy for u
 
huntergirl said:
Man it’s all in your mind, forget that bith
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Please don't call her that! It's not her fault. It's all my own fault, and I've paid the price for my mistakes. But the blame is all on me, and she is not deserving of bad words or bad thoughts. I'm sure she's a nice person. Anyway, like I said it's in the past now. I'm fine.
 
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