On being called stupid

[junebug]

For most of my life I've been deemed stupid by a lot of people, and I feel awful when I make silly mistakes. Academically I'm brilliant but I have no passion for anything anymore. I just want someone to call me smart and think I'm so incredible instead of being treated like an autistic freak.

 

[Echo_]

if people go out of their way to call you stupid …

 

[junebug]

if people go out of their way to call you stupid …

I'm not saying it's not warranted but I feel like I'm constantly treated as stupid or cringe or annoying. I want to be loved unconditionally too.

 

[Echo_]

I'm not saying it's not warranted but I feel like I'm constantly treated as stupid or cringe or annoying. I want to be loved unconditionally too.

you keep proving farther that you’re stupid with what you say
“ unconditional love “ holy cage no such thing

 

[junebug]

you keep proving farther that you’re stupid with what you say
“ unconditional love “ holy cage no such thing

So what do you suggest I do? I've already fixed the annoying aspect by shutting up 99% of the time but how do I eliminate the social stupidity?

 

[Luffy]

Ok?

Do want me to pitty and comfort you?

 

[Nenestar]

i'll call you smart and pat your head, just come here

 

[junebug]

Ok?

Do want me to pitty and comfort you?

Did I ask you to? I'm just yelling into the void.

 

[junebug]

i'll call you smart and pat your head, just come here

I mean someone irl but thanks

 

[Echo_]

So what do you suggest I do? I've already fixed the annoying aspect by shutting up 99% of the time but how do I eliminate the social stupidity?

Listen to Nenestar

 

[junebug]

Listen to Nenestar

See even you don't know. I'm doomed.

 

[ecoli]

Relatable
I’m stupid and have 95iq

 

[Jack Frost]

For most of my life I've been deemed stupid by a lot of people, and I feel awful when I make silly mistakes. Academically I'm brilliant but I have no passion for anything anymore. I just want someone to call me smart and think I'm so incredible instead of being treated like an autistic freak.

Find an autist online

 

[junebug]

Find an autist online

Fish looks in sea

I want irl relationships with people where I don't constantly feel inferior

 

[Echo_]

See even you don't know. I'm doomed.

I mean I’d wish for @Nenestar to pat my head and call me smart

 

[Jack Frost]

I want irl relationships with people where I don't constantly feel inferior

Then become non-inferior.

 

[junebug]

Then become non-inferior.

I'm asking how. I literally do not know how.

 

[Jack Frost]

I'm asking how. I literally do not know how.

Work on your meta-cognition capabilities

And also, if you don't like being called stupid, tell your friends that
A friend that makes fun of you is no friend at all

 

[Nenestar]

when do they call you stupid? in what situation?

is that you're socially slow? you lose focus and don't know what's going on? or what?

 

[Echo_]

Work on your meta-cognition capabilities

And also, if you don't like being called stupid, tell your friends that
A friend that makes fun of you is no friend at all

Bald ass gay nafri

 

[Solemn.]

For most of my life I've been deemed stupid by a lot of people, and I feel awful when I make silly mistakes. Academically I'm brilliant but I have no passion for anything anymore. I just want someone to call me smart and think I'm so incredible instead of being treated like an autistic freak.

i dont like getting called stupid because being smart is the only thing im good at

 

[TFC]

For most of my life I've been deemed stupid by a lot of people, and I feel awful when I make silly mistakes. Academically I'm brilliant but I have no passion for anything anymore. I just want someone to call me smart and think I'm so incredible instead of being treated like an autistic freak.

then you should unshelter yourself. if your not "street smart" then just larp it... thats literal how street smart works. Black people all pretend to be street smart.

if you you want be seen as smart and you already have the academic capability then start larping street smarts.

 

[junebug]

Work on your meta-cognition capabilities

And also, if you don't like being called stupid, tell your friends that
A friend that makes fun of you is no friend at all

when do they call you stupid? in what situation?

is that you're socially slow? you lose focus and don't know what's going on? or what?

my old boss used to taunt me all the time for being dumb
"how come you can take all these APs and still be so stupid", he'd say a lot

I'm socially slow and I get overwhelmed easily, so it's really hard for me to maintain that flow of conversation. and in highschool I'd try to make friends with people but hear later that they were talking about how annoying and dumb I was.

 

[junebug]

i dont like getting called stupid because being smart is the only thing im good at

same