Rage Oops

[junebug]

Kind of blew up at my mom. I told her I was extremely stressed after she came in to tell me to try all these clothes she found and started asking what size this pair of pants was vs that one etc etc, I said I was really stressed and I'd do it later. She said "don't be stressed" which just pissed me off so bad in the moment because it makes my problem sound so small. "Don't be stressed" yeah I can't control that mom. I wish it was that easy.

But after she said that I kinda snapped at her, just said "it's not that easy" really harshly and she started going off saying stuff about how it's okay to be stressed but I have to treat others well, which is true but she doesn't know I've been holding it in for weeks and have been acting totally normal up until this moment. Idk. I know I'm wrong but everything is just pissing me off so bad. I know she's probably mad at me now too. I've been so miserable these past few days.

 

[pauseboicarti]

Kind of blew up at my mom. I told her I was extremely stressed after she came in to tell me to try all these clothes she found and started asking what size this pair of pants was vs that one etc etc, I said I was really stressed and I'd do it later. She said "don't be stressed" which just pissed me off so bad in the moment because it makes my problem sound so small. "Don't be stressed" yeah I can't control that mom. I wish it was that easy.

But after she said that I kinda snapped at her, just said "it's not that easy" really harshly and she started going off saying stuff about how it's okay to be stressed but I have to treat others well, which is true but she doesn't know I've been holding it in for weeks and have been acting totally normal up until this moment. Idk. I know I'm wrong but everything is just pissing me off so bad. I know she's probably mad at me now too. I've been so miserable these past few days.

dnr but dont be stressed

 

[BigDihDiddy ⚦]

Why so stressed?

 

[Mia]

Kind of blew up at my mom. I told her I was extremely stressed after she came in to tell me to try all these clothes she found and started asking what size this pair of pants was vs that one etc etc, I said I was really stressed and I'd do it later. She said "don't be stressed" which just pissed me off so bad in the moment because it makes my problem sound so small. "Don't be stressed" yeah I can't control that mom. I wish it was that easy.

But after she said that I kinda snapped at her, just said "it's not that easy" really harshly and she started going off saying stuff about how it's okay to be stressed but I have to treat others well, which is true but she doesn't know I've been holding it in for weeks and have been acting totally normal up until this moment. Idk. I know I'm wrong but everything is just pissing me off so bad. I know she's probably mad at me now too. I've been so miserable these past few days.

sorry to hear that hope things get better for you twin.

 

[internetbirth]

awe its okay. ive been irritable lately too. if you can just talk to her later and apologize. but also she should respect your wishes to not do something right that instant youre allowed to say no

 

[submissivechud]

Kind of blew up at my mom. I told her I was extremely stressed after she came in to tell me to try all these clothes she found and started asking what size this pair of pants was vs that one etc etc, I said I was really stressed and I'd do it later. She said "don't be stressed" which just pissed me off so bad in the moment because it makes my problem sound so small. "Don't be stressed" yeah I can't control that mom. I wish it was that easy.

But after she said that I kinda snapped at her, just said "it's not that easy" really harshly and she started going off saying stuff about how it's okay to be stressed but I have to treat others well, which is true but she doesn't know I've been holding it in for weeks and have been acting totally normal up until this moment. Idk. I know I'm wrong but everything is just pissing me off so bad. I know she's probably mad at me now too. I've been so miserable these past few days.

from what u said she seems to understand somewhat or atleast emphasize w u
dont worry about it too much
js apologize and try to communicate ur feelings
hopefully u feel better soone tho!

 

[jest]

Kind of blew up at my mom. I told her I was extremely stressed after she came in to tell me to try all these clothes she found and started asking what size this pair of pants was vs that one etc etc, I said I was really stressed and I'd do it later. She said "don't be stressed" which just pissed me off so bad in the moment because it makes my problem sound so small. "Don't be stressed" yeah I can't control that mom. I wish it was that easy.

But after she said that I kinda snapped at her, just said "it's not that easy" really harshly and she started going off saying stuff about how it's okay to be stressed but I have to treat others well, which is true but she doesn't know I've been holding it in for weeks and have been acting totally normal up until this moment. Idk. I know I'm wrong but everything is just pissing me off so bad. I know she's probably mad at me now too. I've been so miserable these past few days.

if she was being overwhelming what did she expect? ur allowed to say smth plus it's fine just apologize when you want and say "if you see me and i look stressed out, please stop talking to me and give me a minute"

 

[junebug]

Why so stressed?

I don't even know. Everything is throwing me into rage lately in one way or another. I try not to let people see it though because it's not their problem.

 

[junebug]

if she was being overwhelming what did she expect? ur allowed to say smth plus it's fine just apologize when you want and say "if you see me and i look stressed out, please stop talking to me and give me a minute"

inb4 "I pushed you out I can bother you whenever I want"
she didn't even knock on my door bruh I had to speedclose this tab

 

[jest]

inb4 "I pushed you out I can bother you whenever I want"
she didn't even knock on my door bruh I had to speedclose this tab

my god why are all of our parents horrible onthis forum
id try to communicate about it still just use wording that you know won't make her triggered

 

[victorique]

Kind of blew up at my mom. I told her I was extremely stressed after she came in to tell me to try all these clothes she found and started asking what size this pair of pants was vs that one etc etc, I said I was really stressed and I'd do it later. She said "don't be stressed" which just pissed me off so bad in the moment because it makes my problem sound so small. "Don't be stressed" yeah I can't control that mom. I wish it was that easy.

But after she said that I kinda snapped at her, just said "it's not that easy" really harshly and she started going off saying stuff about how it's okay to be stressed but I have to treat others well, which is true but she doesn't know I've been holding it in for weeks and have been acting totally normal up until this moment. Idk. I know I'm wrong but everything is just pissing me off so bad. I know she's probably mad at me now too. I've been so miserable these past few days.

Feels like you recently lost someone or just your job

 

[junebug]

my god why are all of our parents horrible onthis forum
id try to communicate about it still just use wording that you know won't make her triggered

Literally like a dating sim skill check jfl. I'll try. I'm moving out for college soon anyways though.

 

[junebug]

Feels like you recently lost someone or just your job

If anything losing my job lowered my cortisol haha. I hated my bosses, they'd scream at me all the time.
I have been doing jack shit lately so everything has been piling up. It won't end.

 

[junebug]

my god why are all of our parents horrible onthis forum