OP states, "I did all of it. Every single thing."
I understand setting limits and boundaries in looksmaxxing, especially drawing a line on surgery.
BUT, if you REALLY DID want to take action towards this problem, you would have, at the very least, looked into methods outside of your comfort zone, such as surgery, since you complain about how horrible your life has been as a result of being bad looking, especially with dating.
This is sad to see. I sympathize with those who participate in the r/ugly subreddit because I understand how it feels being perceived as inferior solely because of your physical looks, but it's infuriating to see many who don't understand how much they would benefit just from getting out of their comfort zone.