Out of everyone I've met, I've been the most quiet one

[Nenestar]

How unlucky genetically did I really get?

Both of my parents are quiet, but I must have ended up with the absolute worst combination of their traits tbh.

 

[jkcwakcjw]

are u ND?

 

[Nenestar]

are u ND?

I don't think so. I just overthink perma + 0 instinct to talk. I really need to force myself to say something

 

[Deleted Member 108588]

@Blackpillirony why you snowing nikka do something

 

[apatheia]

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How unlucky genetically did I really get?

Both of my parents are quiet, but I must have ended up with the absolute worst combination of their traits tbh.

I log into .com and everyone is doomerposting today, sorry your life turned out this way

 

[Nenestar]

@Blackpillirony why you snowing nikka do something

He's enjoying the Christmas spirit

 

[Nenestar]

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I log into .com and everyone is doomerposting today, sorry your life turned out this way

Nothing happy to talk about.

If there were, I'd sure post

 

[BechnoToss]

Ye autists.com indeed

 

[jkcwakcjw]

I don't think so. I just overthink perma + 0 instinct to talk. I really need to force myself to say something

u should try to occupy ur conscious mind more with tasks like breathing or humming to music
that might stop ur conscious mind from interfering
but nothing works more than actually tackling the problem, u should talk more def

 

[Nenestar]

u should try to occupy ur conscious mind more with tasks like breathing or humming to music
that might stop ur conscious mind from interfering
but nothing works more than actually tackling the problem, u should talk more def

I'm just unable to connect with many people, that is really the main problem tbh. If there is someone who is really similar to me, I can talk way more, but most of the time, I'll still be the more quiet one.

Small talk or anything like that, yeah, I really don't feel like saying anything tbh

 

[Blackpillirony]

@Blackpillirony why you snowing nikka do something

It's snowing where I'm at

 

[jkcwakcjw]

I'm just unable to connect with many people, that is really the main problem tbh. If there is someone who is really similar to me, I can talk way more, but most of the time, I'll still be the more quiet one.

Small talk or anything like that, yeah, I really don't feel like saying anything tbh

yeah it also depends on the ppl too yeah
but yeah if ur even thinking abt ur interactions with ppl and saying that u can talk to this person better than that person and similarities than ur probably overthinking abt it

 

[Nenestar]

yeah it also depends on the ppl too yeah
but yeah if ur even thinking abt ur interactions with ppl and saying that u can talk to this person better than that person and similarities than ur probably overthinking abt it

Yeah.. I'm decent at 1-1 convos as I can just ask questions and guide the convo etc. If there are many people, I just have a such a hard time saying anything. Most of the time I just sit silent and listen.

My brain is just fucked like this, can't do much

 

[jkcwakcjw]

Yeah.. I'm decent at 1-1 convos as I can just ask questions and guide the convo etc. If there are many people, I just have a such a hard time saying anything. Most of the time I just sit silent and listen.

My brain is just fucked like this, can't do much

wow mines is complete opposite
im better in groups since im better at tagging and building off of setup
but i never really learned to set up things or control the conversation with questions that well bc i just relied on ppl talking to me first
ur brain isnt fucked tho its just a preference

 

[RRM]

How unlucky genetically did I really get?

Both of my parents are quiet, but I must have ended up with the absolute worst combination of their traits tbh.

Nah it’s fine