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Have you ever met someone or had a friend who claimed to have a certain standard? Like maybe a height requirement, maybe they said they'd never date someone who liked a certain type of music, or that doing x was a deal breaker. I can guarantee you've noticed them go against these claims. Why? Because people lie for social status and to (in their eyes) increase their worth. In other cases it can be just because the person is good looking or has some other x factor.
This can even go for looks. for example, have you ever seen that street interview where they all rate gandy a 3? Do you actually think they think that? That they wouldn't be head over heals for him irl? Girls and guys both exaggerate their standard to GH to fit in. The same people reposting about how high their standards are and pretending to be future are the same people going back to the drugie who cheated on them again and again.
Tldr:
People lie about their standards
This can even go for looks. for example, have you ever seen that street interview where they all rate gandy a 3? Do you actually think they think that? That they wouldn't be head over heals for him irl? Girls and guys both exaggerate their standard to GH to fit in. The same people reposting about how high their standards are and pretending to be future are the same people going back to the drugie who cheated on them again and again.
Tldr:
People lie about their standards