Serious People with abusive parents , how to cope?

[Deleted Member 57971]

Yh I'm actually a very abused dog too.

Raised with shitty mom and dad

I don't want to elaborate on what I went through.

But It's genuinely not nice.

I wanted to rope at some point .,

What should I do ?
How to cope ?

I'm 17 currently, maybe it will get better with age .

But generally speaking I don't live with my parents.
Only get money from them.

 

[looxmtrdr]

return their favor
abuse them back

 

[TonyDr]

But generally speaking I don't live with my parents.

Good thing

Unfortunately the best solution is preparing an escape, find a school elsewhere and find a work

 

[Deleted Member 57971]

Yh I'm actually a very abused dog too.

Raised with shitty mom and dad

I don't want to elaborate on what I went through.

But It's genuinely not nice.

I wanted to rope at some point .,

What should I do ?
How to cope ?

I'm 17 currently, maybe it will get better with age .

But generally speaking I don't live with my parents.
Only get money from them.

@Chifuyu

This is why I wanted to rope.
I'm being fr

 

[D340RM3D]

Yh I'm actually a very abused dog too.

Raised with shitty mom and dad

I don't want to elaborate on what I went through.

But It's genuinely not nice.

I wanted to rope at some point .,

What should I do ?
How to cope ?

I'm 17 currently, maybe it will get better with age .

But generally speaking I don't live with my parents.
Only get money from them.

If you no longer live with them and don’t plan to in the future, do you need support in coping with past abuse?

 

[Scenehikikomori]

Just do your best to separate yourself from them and remember it's nit about you they just either weren't ready or weren't meant to be parents

 

[Sigma Girl]

Yh I'm actually a very abused dog too.

Raised with shitty mom and dad

I don't want to elaborate on what I went through.

But It's genuinely not nice.

I wanted to rope at some point .,

What should I do ?
How to cope ?

I'm 17 currently, maybe it will get better with age .

But generally speaking I don't live with my parents.
Only get money from them.​

I'm so sorry, I'm always here if you need to talk about it.

 

[Deleted Member 57971]

If you no longer live with them and don’t plan to in the future, do you need support in coping with past abuse?

Yh , like it was insane I was literally malnourished as a kid , despite my parents having a lot of wealth .

Forced to be in school when I was only fukin 2 .5 year old .

This is some drops of water in ocean .

Their is more

 

[Sigma Girl]

Yh , like it was insane I was literally malnourished as a kid , despite my parents having a lot of wealth .

Forced to be in school when I was only fukin 2 .5 year old .

This is some drops of water in ocean .

Their is more

This is so shocking.

 

[Deleted Member 57971]

This is so shocking.

i still ended up descent height and frame.
So I didn't roped yet ,

but yh I don't feel nice ofcourse.

 

[N9wiff ⋆｡°✩]

Move out

 

[Deleted Member 57971]

I'm so sorry, I'm always here if you need to talk about it.

Yh thanks for your sympathy!
Means a lot


But u are like kid .
And I'm almost a adult.
I'll relate with a therapist more .

Will soon visit it , even though it's kinda cope

 

[D340RM3D]

Yh , like it was insane I was literally malnourished as a kid , despite my parents having a lot of wealth .

Forced to be in school when I was only fukin 2 .5 year old .

This is some drops of water in ocean .

Their is more

If you're no longer going to live with them, therapy(I wouldn't recommend) and distracting yourself as much as possible are probably the best ways

 

[Sovvton]

If you're no longer going to live with them, therapy(I wouldn't recommend) and distracting yourself as much as possible are probably the best ways

why do you not recommend therapy?

 

[Sigma Girl]

Yh thanks for your sympathy!
Means a lot

​

But u are like kid .
And I'm almost a adult.
I'll relate with a therapist more .

Will soon visit it , even though it's kinda cope​

I'm kind of a teenager, lmao.

 

[Sigma Girl]

Yh thanks for your sympathy!
Means a lot


But u are like kid .
And I'm almost a adult.
I'll relate with a therapist more .

Will soon visit it , even though it's kinda cope

i like your pfp btw

 

[Deleted Member 43211]

@delonisliterallyme is a professional in this topic

 

[delonisliterallyme]

@delonisliterallyme is a professional in this topic

water

 

[Sigma Girl]

I'm kind of a teenager, lmao.

https://chatgpt.com/share/67ab9250-9ad4-800b-b3a0-cff3610b99c9

 

[neymar]

My family gave me a low class environment cause of their poor decision making, narcissistic traits, and learning disabilities

When I get rich I’m giving them absolutely nothing in return I’ll just leave them behind and go to a diff country to start a new family who I will actually support

 

[Deleted Member 57971]

Yh I'm actually a very abused dog too.

Raised with shitty mom and dad

I don't want to elaborate on what I went through.

But It's genuinely not nice.

I wanted to rope at some point .,

What should I do ?
How to cope ?

I'm 17 currently, maybe it will get better with age .

But generally speaking I don't live with my parents.
Only get money from them.

@AllureBloom

 

[Deleted Member 57971]

@delonisliterallyme is a professional in this topic

If you are joking around with this ,

I mean 'If' than u are a pathetic human.

 

[BodieDysmorphia]

Yh I'm actually a very abused dog too.

Raised with shitty mom and dad

I don't want to elaborate on what I went through.

But It's genuinely not nice.

I wanted to rope at some point .,

What should I do ?
How to cope ?

I'm 17 currently, maybe it will get better with age .

But generally speaking I don't live with my parents.
Only get money from them.

It doesn't get better with age if your parents are controlling. I'm 18, been dealing with my parents BS for years, now they threaten my future daily and threaten to kick me out before I can graduate. Im currently living in a tent in the backyard. Therapy ain't helping.

 

[n4evis]

therapy, healing your inner child, reading books and listening to podcasts about trauma, surrounding yourself with supportive and understanding friends, journaling and meditation(to avoid being triggered by past trauma)

 

[delonisliterallyme]

therapy, healing your inner child, reading books and listening to podcasts about trauma, surrounding yourself with supportive and understanding friends, journaling and meditation(to avoid being triggered by past trauma)

my inner child is a bitch

 

[D340RM3D]

why do you not recommend therapy?

I've been going to therapy for a while, but none of it has helped. I've also seen four different psychiatrists, and they didn’t help either. All they do is diagnose and prescribe medication. Talking to them feels like having a conversation with ChatGPT. None of them actually understand. Especially here in Canada, they just give basic responses and solutions that never really help, therapy may be different for OP, but for me and many others it has done nothing.

 

[Deleted Member 57971]

therapy, healing your inner child, reading books and listening to podcasts about trauma, surrounding yourself with supportive and understanding friends, journaling and meditation(to avoid being triggered by past trauma)

Yh I think I need to make friends more

My social anxiety doesn't helps either , but I'll try my best.

 

[BodieDysmorphia]

therapy, healing your inner child, reading books and listening to podcasts about trauma, surrounding yourself with supportive and understanding friends, journaling and meditation(to avoid being triggered by past trauma)

I dont have a child inside me, that would be illegal

 

[n4evis]

I dont have a child inside me, that would be illegal

inner child = the part of your subconscious that holds memories and experiences from your childhood

 

[AllureBloom]

Yh I'm actually a very abused dog too.

Raised with shitty mom and dad

I don't want to elaborate on what I went through.

But It's genuinely not nice.

I wanted to rope at some point .,

What should I do ?
How to cope ?

I'm 17 currently, maybe it will get better with age .

But generally speaking I don't live with my parents.
Only get money from them.

I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way. You’ve been through a lot, and it makes sense that it’s weighing on you.
Since you’re already independent from your parents, focus on building a support system like trusted friends, mentors, or even therapy if possible. Processing your emotions (through journaling, art, or talking to someone) can help. Healing takes time, but you’re not broken, and things can get better with the right support

 

[Deleted Member 57971]

I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way. You’ve been through a lot, and it makes sense that it’s weighing on you.
Since you’re already independent from your parents, focus on building a support system like trusted friends, mentors, or even therapy if possible. Processing your emotions (through journaling, art, or talking to someone) can help. Healing takes time, but you’re not broken, and things can get better with the right support

I wonder how long healing it will take .
I'm fuked up in head.

 

[AllureBloom]

I wonder how long healing it will take .
I'm fuked up in head.

Healing isn’t a straight path, and there’s no set timeline—it’s different for everyone. But the fact that you’re aware of your struggles and want to heal is already a huge step. You’re not “fucked up” in the way you might think. Your brain and body have adapted to survive difficult situations, and those coping mechanisms might not serve you well now. But they can change. The brain has an incredible ability to rewire itself, especially while you’re young.

 

[Chifuyu]

@Chifuyu

This is why I wanted to rope.
I'm being fr

This may sound weird but I wish mine were like that.

 

[Deleted Member 57971]

This may sound weird but I wish mine were like that.

U don't wanna have that trust me man.

I know what I'm talking about.

 

[Chifuyu]

U don't wanna have that trust me man.

I know what I'm talking about.

No, I do actually…