Perks of being a 30 year old man

[Gengar]

To me it doesn’t sound a like but other people might think it does I would send you a voice note but I hate sending my voice

I feel you, hearing my own voice on a recording is so damn cringe. Sometimes I talk to someone on the phone and they have me on speaker and I can hear my voice echoing, I hate that.

 

[Gengar]

YOU JUST DID.

WHITE OR BROWN, does it really matter?

Oh fuckkkk the unc in me is strong.

And yes bhai. If a brown man walks around with a white kid, people will think he kidnapped the lil dude. Now if a white man walks around with a brown kid, people will think he’s a big-hearted adoptive parent.

 

[Gengar]

Shiittt wasnt it ur birfday

Yes it was my birthday a few days ago but I don’t celebrate it anyway lol.

 

[Spuffy]

I can go around calling others “son” and it’s not weird.

gengar my mom is 4 years older than you

 

[Sasageyo]

gengar my mom is 4 years older than you

n*****s mom is 34 jfl,

 

[Gengar]

gengar my mom is 4 years older than you

Wow! She’s a 90s kid like me then haha.

 

[Gengar]

n*****s mom is 34 jfl,

It’s nice to have a young mom and dad ngl.

 

[Sasageyo]

It’s nice to have a young mom and dad ngl.

Ye but her mom was a teen then

 

[ADAM]

Haha yeah, that’s a common misconception. Punjabis are associated with being Sikh and Indian, but most Punjabis are actually Islamic and Pakistani. We have 110 million Punjabis, they have like 38 million Punjabis. And enjoy your holidays, man! Seriously. Personally, I’m not a fan of going on holidays. I prefer my own home but I’ve flown to Pakistan before. I don’t like it as there are no direct flights.

Oh okay I understand.Bro my country only has 5 million people but if you include the uk as a country it’s like 60 million London has more people than my full country.thanks bro I used to not like holidays but my friends kind of got me into liking it and they have been getting me to drink a lot ik it’s not good but I’m going to enjoy it for a bit since only the past couple months since I’ve ascended have been invited to party’s

 

[Gengar]

Ye but her mom was a teen then

Idk how old Spuffy is.

 

[ADAM]

I feel you, hearing my own voice on a recording is so damn cringe. Sometimes I talk to someone on the phone and they have me on speaker and I can hear my voice echoing, I hate that.

Yeah I hate it I’ve sent a voice message here before but it’s me saying n****r

 

[Sasageyo]

Idk how old Spuffy is.

Theres no mods younger then 16 here right?

 

[Ghoultune]

What did you do on your birthday

 

[Sasageyo]

What did you do on your birthday

he treated it like a normal day

 

[Ghoultune]

he treated it like a normal day

I didn't ask you

 

[Sasageyo]

I didn't ask you

Dont make me angrier then i already am.When my eyes turn red, run.

 

[Gengar]

Oh okay I understand.Bro my country only has 5 million people but if you include the uk as a country it’s like 60 million London has more people than my full country.thanks bro I used to not like holidays but my friends kind of got me into liking it and they have been getting me to drink a lot ik it’s not good but I’m going to enjoy it for a bit since only the past couple months since I’ve ascended have been invited to party’s

There’s only 5 million Scottish people? Wow. I was thinking maybe 20-30 million. Maybe because I live in The Netherlands and it’s seen as a small nation with “just” 18 million people in it (it used to be 16 million when I was younger). I personally wouldn’t include the UK since that pretty much dilutes your unique identity. And I see, that makes sense then. Good to hear you’ve been invited to parties, do you like going to those? I’m the kind of guy who prefers staying at home.

 

[Sasageyo]

There’s only 5 million Scottish people? Wow. I was thinking maybe 20-30 million. Maybe because I live in The Netherlands and it’s seen as a small nation with “just” 18 million people in it (it used to be 16 million when I was younger). I personally wouldn’t include the UK since that pretty much dilutes your unique identity. And I see, that makes sense then. Good to hear you’ve been invited to parties, do you like going to those? I’m the kind of guy who prefers staying at home.

Dnr no offesne

 

[Gengar]

Yeah I hate it I’ve sent a voice message here before but it’s me saying n****r

High T behavior. XD

 

[Ghoultune]

Dont make me angrier then i already am.When my eyes turn red, run.

Sorry Phanom! Sheesh

 

[Sasageyo]

Sorry Phanom! Sheesh

 

[Gengar]

Dnr no offesne

None taken. M

 

[Gengar]

What did you do on your birthday

Nothing at all haha it was just like any other day.

 

[Spuffy]

Ye but her mom was a teen then

teen parents. both my mom and dad are 34. i turned 19 about a month ago

It’s nice to have a young mom and dad ngl.

there are pros and cons. but mostly pros for my case

 

[Gengar]

teen parents. both my mom and dad are 34. i turned 19 about a month ago

there are pros and cons. but mostly pros for my case

Belated happy birthday!

And I’m curious to hear, what are the pros and what are the cons?

 

[snow]

Wow. Why at 20?

Im joking

 

[Sasageyo]

And I’m curious to hear, what are the pros and what are the cons?

we dont actually know

 

[Gengar]

Im joking

Joever, my unc brain didn’t get it.

 

[moewzerz]

Unc

 

[Gengar]

we dont actually knowView attachment 230569

n***a are you this hyperactive irl as well?

 

[Gengar]

Unc

Hi, son.

 

[ADAM]

There’s only 5 million Scottish people? Wow. I was thinking maybe 20-30 million. Maybe because I live in The Netherlands and it’s seen as a small nation with “just” 18 million people in it (it used to be 16 million when I was younger). I personally wouldn’t include the UK since that pretty much dilutes your unique identity. And I see, that makes sense then. Good to hear you’ve been invited to parties, do you like going to those? I’m the kind of guy who prefers staying at home.

It’s like 5-6 million people.i thought Netherlands was as small population as Scotland that’s quite a lot.yeah the uk has so much culture and individuality I don’t know why some people think it has none.i don’t mind the party’s.i used to like staying at home but now i kind of like socialising i used to not be able to order food like a year ago now im confident and enjoy interacting with people ik people say these forums are bad and you shouldn’t be on them but these have help me get a lot more confidence

 

[Sasageyo]

n***a are you this hyperactive irl as well?

Depends who im with

 

[ADAM]

High T behavior. XD

I will try find it and link you it 2 mins

 

[Gengar]

It’s like 5-6 million people.i thought Netherlands was as small population as Scotland that’s quite a lot.yeah the uk has so much culture and individuality I don’t know why some people think it has none.i don’t mind the party’s.i used to like staying at home but now i kind of like socialising i used to not be able to order food like a year ago now im confident and enjoy interacting with people ik people say these forums are bad and you shouldn’t be on them but these have help me get a lot more confidence

Damn hahaha, I’m the same way. Super uncomfy with ordering food and whatnot. I just think it’s awkward/cringe going like “Can I have a Crunchy Chicken deal” or whatever. XD I prefer using those machines where I don’t have to interact with them. Glad to hear these forums had a positive impact on you.

 

[Gengar]

Depends who im with

I wonder if I’ll have students like you.

 

[Sasageyo]

I wonder if I’ll have students like you.

Would i be a good student or bad

 

[Gengar]

I will try find it and link you it 2 mins

Sounds good. I’ll make sure not to listen to it outside (lots of black people here).

 

[Gengar]

Would i be a good student or bad

I’d enjoy interacting with students like you.

 

[ADAM]

Damn hahaha, I’m the same way. Super uncomfy with ordering food and whatnot. I just think it’s awkward/cringe going like “Can I have a Crunchy Chicken deal” or whatever. XD I prefer using those machines where I don’t have to interact with them. Glad to hear these forums had a positive impact on you.

I was the exact same bro I just kept doing it and I also stared cold approaching and now I like talking to people once you start doing it you will like it

 

[Gengar]

I was the exact same bro I just kept doing it and I also stared cold approaching and now I like talking to people once you start doing it you will like it

I usually try to point at the items I want. “Can I have this?” Instead of saying the name. XD

 

[ADAM]

I will try find it and link you it 2 mins

https://forum.looksmaxxing.com/threads/bro-stop.94106/ it’s like the 3rd message or something

 

[Spuffy]

Belated happy birthday!

And I’m curious to hear, what are the pros and what are the cons?

i think the pros and cons are very personal to my specific situation.

some cons would be that they definitely make more bad life decisions in general. it caused a lot of stress on me growing up, but i now have problems dealing with stress to this day. another is theyre more like older siblings than parents, and they treat me as such for the most part. some would say another con is that my parents arent together, but a lot of parents arent and that has not a lot to do with age.

pros would be that theyre more aware of me emotionally. a lot of kids have trouble with their parents "not understanding" their struggles, but they very well understand things like depression and anxiety. my parents dont blow up at miniscule things because theres no big generation gap. our interests are similar too in everything. they play video games with me and listen to my music a lot. and due to their age, im able to do a lot of active things with them while in their prime physical strength. if they dont know something, or i need a more parental role in my life, i would just go to my grandparents who are normal parent age. i basically consider them my parents too because of how involved they were in my life. im saying this is specific to me because some people dont have big and loving families. more pros is that i got to be alive and have memories with my great great grandparents, and my great grandmother is still alive, which im grateful for. their age wasnt much of a problem because i have a great family on both sides who did not abandon my parents, or take over raising me for them.

@Phantom in case you were wondering for my explanation, since you replied, here it is.

also, obviously everyone has has issues with their childhood or trauma. i definitely do and have my own problems, but i cant correlate any of it to their age

 

[Sasageyo]

i think the pros and cons are very personal to my specific situation.

some cons would be that they definitely make more bad life decisions in general. it caused a lot of stress on me growing up, but i now have problems dealing with stress to this day. another is theyre more like older siblings than parents, and they treat me as such for the most part. some would say another con is that my parents arent together, but a lot of parents arent and that has not a lot to do with age.

pros would be that theyre more aware of me emotionally. a lot of kids have trouble with their parents "not understanding" their struggles, but they very well understand things like depression and anxiety. my parents dont blow up at miniscule things because theres no big generation gap. our interests are similar too in everything. they play video games with me and listen to my music a lot. and due to their age, im able to do a lot of active things with them while in their prime physical strength. if they dont know something, or i need a more parental role in my life, i would just go to my grandparents who are normal parent age. i basically consider them my parents too because of how involved they were in my life. im saying this is specific to me because some people dont have big and loving families. more pros is that i got to be alive and have memories with my great great grandparents, and my great grandmother is still alive, which im grateful for. their age wasnt much of a problem because i have a great family on both sides who did not abandon my parents, or take over raising me for them.

@Phantom in case you were wondering for my explanation, since you replied, here it is.

Did read idk what to say tho

 

[Gengar]

i think the pros and cons are very personal to my specific situation.

some cons would be that they definitely make more bad life decisions in general. it caused a lot of stress on me growing up, but i now have problems dealing with stress to this day. another is theyre more like older siblings than parents, and they treat me as such for the most part. some would say another con is that my parents arent together, but a lot of parents arent and that has not a lot to do with age.

pros would be that theyre more aware of me emotionally. a lot of kids have trouble with their parents "not understanding" their struggles, but they very well understand things like depression and anxiety. my parents dont blow up at miniscule things because theres no big generation gap. our interests are similar too in everything. they play video games with me and listen to my music a lot. and due to their age, im able to do a lot of active things with them while in their prime physical strength. if they dont know something, or i need a more parental role in my life, i would just go to my grandparents who are normal parent age. i basically consider them my parents too because of how involved they were in my life. im saying this is specific to me because some people dont have big and loving families. more pros is that i got to be alive and have memories with my great great grandparents, and my great grandmother is still alive, which im grateful for. their age wasnt much of a problem because i have a great family on both sides who did not abandon my parents, or take over raising me for them.

@Phantom in case you were wondering for my explanation, since you replied, here it is.

also, obviously everyone has has issues with their childhood or trauma. i definitely do and have my own problems, but i cant correlate any of it to their age

Thanks for the elaborate response, I hear what you’re saying and totally understand where you’re coming from. For me, the pros of having young parents is that they’ll stay with you much longer. Having old parents sucks because you know you don’t have much time with them. For example, my last grandparent passed away when I was 11, one of them passed away almost 10 years before I was born, so you’re very lucky to have met your great great grandparents.

 

[Spuffy]

Thanks for the elaborate response, I hear what you’re saying and totally understand where you’re coming from. For me, the pros of having young parents is that they’ll stay with you much longer. Having old parents sucks because you know you don’t have much time with them. For example, my last grandparent passed away when I was 11, one of them passed away almost 10 years before I was born, so you’re very lucky to have met your great great grandparents.

i agree! i get so anxious for my friends who have parents in their late 50s-60s. even just seeing that my grandparents are looking older stresses me out haha. however, i should probably have children because by the time my parents need 24/7 care, ill also be pretty old myself.

 

[Gengar]

i agree! i get so anxious for my friends who have parents in their late 50s-60s. even just seeing that my grandparents are looking older stresses me out haha. however, i should probably have children because by the time my parents need 24/7 care, ill also be pretty old myself.

Precisely! It’s always on the back of your mind, and it’s very stressful/sad. Ahh, okay, so you want to have kids? I don’t want kids myself. I don’t mind adopting orphans though but we’ll see.

 

[mus.]

Where did the Italian come from? I understand the English part but the Italian is interesting. I was born and raised in The Netherlands, but my family is from Pakistan.

ooo k wist ni dat je NL bent

 

[Gengar]

ooo k wist ni dat je NL bent

Hahaha jeetje. Ik wist ook niet dat je Nederlands was. Ik woon zelf in Rotterdam. En jij?

 

[Sasageyo]

i agree! i get so anxious for my friends who have parents in their late 50s-60s. even just seeing that my grandparents are looking older stresses me out haha. however, i should probably have children because by the time my parents need 24/7 care, ill also be pretty old myself.

Nah bro its better to have young parents in my opinion because seeing ur parents old at a young age is heartbreaking