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Personality does matter more than looks to some women, but not many

Rau Le Creuset

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There are three women who were and some still are very interested and want to marry me, even though I’m objectively unattractive. They all basically hinted that they like me a lot because of my personality. But the only thing that isn’t there is interest from my side. I can’t experience romantic feelings anymore, not after the things I have been through. I’m damaged goods. Maybe I should stay alone.
 
There are three women who were and some still are very interested and want to marry me, even though I’m objectively unattractive. They all basically hinted that they like me a lot because of my personality. But the only thing that isn’t there is interest from my side. I can’t experience romantic feelings anymore, not after the things I have been through. I’m damaged goods. Maybe I should stay alone.
I agree, no sane guy who have his life together and options will tolerate a shitty woman even if she's hot
 
I agree, no sane guy who have his life together and options will tolerate a shitty woman even if she's hot
They like me so much to the point they don’t even care that I don’t have my life together. They just want to be with me. But eh… I’m not feeling it.
 
They like me so much to the point they don’t even care that I don’t have my life together. They just want to be with me. But eh… I’m not feeling it.
Go for it bud if they're LTR material
 
They absolutely are, but they also want children, and I don’t want children. This world is a shitty place and I don’t want to expose them to the dangers of this world.
Personally i want children, that's why choosing a peaceful woman who's a little bit trad is better
 
Personally i want children, that's why choosing a peaceful woman who's a little bit trad is better
Two were traditional, one wasn’t. But I got along very well with all. One of the traditional ones didn’t want to have children either, but the other two do, they’re also the ones I’m still in touch with.
 
Two were traditional, one wasn’t. But I got along very well with all. One of the traditional ones didn’t want to have children either, but the other two do, they’re also the ones I’m still in touch with.
I'd said that the baby fever for men appears when you have a high quality woman by your side. When i was with my exes i didn't wanted any babies with them. With my gf however... Or maybe i'm getting old, 26
 
I'd said that the baby fever for men appears when you have a high quality woman by your side. When i was with my exes i didn't wanted any babies with them. With my gf however... Or maybe i'm getting old, 26
No, I’m already part my baby fever phase. I was 15 when I wanted children. I was 19 when I decided I never want to have children. I haven’t really told people but there are event there that took place and it’s what’s shaped my views a lot.
 
No, I’m already part my baby fever phase. I was 15 when I wanted children. I was 19 when I decided I never want to have children. I haven’t really told people but there are event there that took place and it’s what’s shaped my views a lot.
Understandable. Maybe i want children because i'll have a peaceful life in the years to come
 
Understandable. Maybe i want children because i'll have a peaceful life in the years to come
Yeah, most people have children for selfish reasons. Nay, dare I say, all people have children for selfish reasons. Either they want a legacy, or they want a "mini me," etc. I lack this selfishness.
 
Yeah, most people have children for selfish reasons. Nay, dare I say, all people have children for selfish reasons. Either they want a legacy, or they want a "mini me," etc. I lack this selfishness.
I def want a legacy
 
Yeah, most people have children for selfish reasons. Nay, dare I say, all people have children for selfish reasons. Either they want a legacy, or they want a "mini me," etc. I lack this selfishness.
To me having kids is one of the most important goals in life. To each their own. I liked the thread.
 
Frfr
I’m pretty sure my oneitis liked me back in hs when I was terasubhuman, I never made a move though ofc :sadge: :pepehands:
Oh, yeah I try not to think of that girl from my high school. She was one year my junior and I had impressed her, gained her friends' approval but I simply ignored her when she was smiling at me, an inviting smile. I was so insecure of my looks that I just did nothing with it. After that day, she completely ignored me; erased me from existence. I try not to think about that as it fills me with regret. :sadge::pepehands:
 
To me having kids is one of the most important goals in life. To each their own. I liked the thread.
99.9999% of people think like you do. It doesn't mean you're all wrong and I'm right. It's just what I personally believe. I'm glad you liked the thread, my friend.
 
Oh, yeah I try not to think of that girl from my high school. She was one year my junior and I had impressed her, gained her friends' approval but I simply ignored her when she was smiling at me, an inviting smile. I was so insecure of my looks that I just did nothing with it. After that day, she completely ignored me; erased me from existence. I try not to think about that as it fills me with regret. :sadge::pepehands:
Part of what held me back from trying with her was that I thought that it wouldn’t go anywhere cause her parents prob wouldn’t accept me. I should’ve still tried through, they seemed modern enough
 
Part of what held me back from trying with her was that I thought that it wouldn’t go anywhere cause her parents prob wouldn’t accept me. I should’ve still tried through, they seemed modern enough
Duuuude. I saw her Facebook like a year later and saw that her sister was in a relationship with a brown guy, so it was like..... not an issue. But I thought due to being ugly + ethnic I wouldn't be liked. I was so wrong.
 
Duuuude. I saw her Facebook like a year later and saw that her sister was in a relationship with a brown guy, so it was like..... not an issue. But I thought due to being ugly + ethnic I wouldn't be liked. I was so wrong.
My oneitis didn’t even hve social media, she was perfect jfl. I just assumed I would hve had 2 strikes with her folks by being curry and not muslim so I thought it was pointless, regret’s a bitch
 
My oneitis didn’t even hve social media, she was perfect jfl. I just assumed I would hve had 2 strikes with her folks by being curry and not muslim so I thought it was pointless, regret’s a bitch
It's best not to think about the past and dwell on our mistakes. It will only increase the regrets and make us feel worse.
 

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