personalitymaxx

[archangelholic]

I'm autsitic so the problem is I really cannot do small talk. I also can't do romantic relationships if they aren't online cause I genuinely get repulsed by people around me. I don't feel the need to talk to people everyday and it's caused some of my relationships to break. Even my father I can't talk to everyday. I like people at a distance and as for attraction I can only be attracted to people that don't know me like ictional characters. a,yoner I get into a friendship or relationship with I slowly begin to hate . idfk if it's trauma or what

 

[Molotongo]

I don't have friends or anything and my life is pretty chill rn

 

[archangelholic]

I don't have friends or anything and my life is pretty chill rn

I'd love that but I still have school and I don't feel like being socially broke

 

[Molotongo]

I'd love that but I still have school and I don't feel like being socially broke

I have school too but I can stay at home for like 4 weeks

 

[Pearex]

I'm autsitic so the problem is I really cannot do small talk. I also can't do romantic relationships if they aren't online cause I genuinely get repulsed by people around me. I don't feel the need to talk to people everyday and it's caused some of my relationships to break. Even my father I can't talk to everyday. I like people at a distance and as for attraction I can only be attracted to people that don't know me like ictional characters. a,yoner I get into a friendship or relationship with I slowly begin to hate . idfk if it's trauma or what

Everyone has different social boundaries and tolerance levels for others. You dont need to stress yourself out further trying to figure out whether this is a trauma or a character trait. Maintaining communication at your own level is your natural right

 

[lightning_mc]

I'm autsitic so the problem is I really cannot do small talk. I also can't do romantic relationships if they aren't online cause I genuinely get repulsed by people around me. I don't feel the need to talk to people everyday and it's caused some of my relationships to break. Even my father I can't talk to everyday. I like people at a distance and as for attraction I can only be attracted to people that don't know me like ictional characters. a,yoner I get into a friendship or relationship with I slowly begin to hate . idfk if it's trauma or what

Same but I got over it just start small

 

[aspiringd0ll]

I mean if its just the way you are maybe start accepting yourself. I have 0 friends and its been like this for a long time. Ofc for the first months I was super fucking depressed and jealous of others' connection but eventually I started doing things by myself, enjoying my own company and finding lots of hobbies to fill my time up with. And basically I'm coping by telljng myself that instead of wasting time pleasing other "friends" that are probably fake and will leave anyway I'm using the time building skills and improving myself. Maybe not that healthy but its what works best for me, u should try it too

 

[ponyboy]

Theres no reliable fix, that particular part of your tism could atleast in theory be fixed by more oxytocin, look into LIT-001 if youre interested

 

[s3amoonbear]

I'm autsitic so the problem is I really cannot do small talk. I also can't do romantic relationships if they aren't online cause I genuinely get repulsed by people around me. I don't feel the need to talk to people everyday and it's caused some of my relationships to break. Even my father I can't talk to everyday. I like people at a distance and as for attraction I can only be attracted to people that don't know me like ictional characters. a,yoner I get into a friendship or relationship with I slowly begin to hate . idfk if it's trauma or what

 

[aesense]

why small talk with nobodies

 

[archangelholic]

Everyone has different social boundaries and tolerance levels for others. You dont need to stress yourself out further trying to figure out whether this is a trauma or a character trait. Maintaining communication at your own level is your natural right

Thank you . I’m just gonna go my pace

 

[archangelholic]

I mean if its just the way you are maybe start accepting yourself. I have 0 friends and its been like this for a long time. Ofc for the first months I was super fucking depressed and jealous of others' connection but eventually I started doing things by myself, enjoying my own company and finding lots of hobbies to fill my time up with. And basically I'm coping by telljng myself that instead of wasting time pleasing other "friends" that are probably fake and will leave anyway I'm using the time building skills and improving myself. Maybe not that healthy but its what works best for me, u should try it too

Thank u dollll

 

[archangelholic]

Theres no reliable fix, that particular part of your tism could atleast in theory be fixed by more oxytocin, look into LIT-001 if youre interested

I didn’t know I could somewhat fix it so tyty

 

[archangelholic]

why small talk wit

why small talk with nobodies

especially when they piss me off every day