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PLEASE HELP ME ! 😭

R1pMe0p3n

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There’s this guy that goes to my school. I never see him throughout the day except during passing period after lunch, which is between my second-to-last — going into last period. I have no idea what grade he’s in or what his name is, but he’s genuinely THE CUTEST guy at school.
I know how to talk to guys who are less attractive than me, but whenever I try to talk to guys I find attractive, I act like an absolute fool. I don’t want to seem like a stalker, but every day during passing period, I stare at him while he walks by; sometimes I even do a 180 and walk backwards just to look at him longer. It’s gotten so bad that I’ve even memorized his backpack just to have some kind of information on him.
I’m too scared to go up to him because I’m afraid of rejection. Also, my type is white guys—which he is—but 9/10 guys like that tend to like basic blonde white girls, and I’m NOT that. I’d say I’m pretty average-looking, so I feel like he’s totally out of my league. What should I do?
 
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There’s this guy that goes to my school. I never see him throughout the day except during passing period after lunch, which is between my second-to-last — going into last period. I have no idea what grade he’s in or what his name is, but he’s genuinely THE CUTEST guy at school.
I know how to talk to guys who are less attractive than me, but whenever I try to talk to guys I find attractive, I act like an absolute fool. I don’t want to seem like a stalker, but every day during passing period, I stare at him while he walks by; sometimes I even do a 180 and walk backwards just to look at him longer. It’s gotten so bad that I’ve even memorized his backpack just to have some kind of information on him.
I’m too scared to go up to him because I’m afraid of rejection. Also, my type is white guys—which he is—but 9/10 guys like that tend to like basic blonde white girls, and I’m NOT that. I’d say I’m pretty average-looking, so I feel like he’s totally out of my league. What should I do?
find out his friends and see if you can learn any of their names or info to find them online, then look through their following and find the guy you like. Stalk his page and find out his likes and dislikes, or even make a catfish account to interact with him to get to know him better. Then you will know if you got the look he seems to like, or what qualities he likes that you should present first in your personality.
 
find out his friends and see if you can learn any of their names or info to find them online, then look through their following and find the guy you like. Stalk his page and find out his likes and dislikes, or even make a catfish account to interact with him to get to know him better. Then you will know if you got the look he seems to like, or what qualities he likes that you should present first in your personality.
He was walking with this one guy I don’t actually know, but I’m more familiar with. It’s just hard to get aquatinted with his friends when I have no periods with him/when I see him besides after lunch & it would be awkward to stop him in the middle of the hallway while people are walking in the opposite direction. Also, I’ve been asking my friends if they know who he is but they’re unsure as well. Also holy shit there is a look alike of him sitting in my study hall right now across from me and I’m staring like a fucking creep. He’s wearing glasses and he looks so cute. At least now I have options JFL 😂😂
 
There’s this guy that goes to my school. I never see him throughout the day except during passing period after lunch, which is between my second-to-last — going into last period. I have no idea what grade he’s in or what his name is, but he’s genuinely THE CUTEST guy at school.
I know how to talk to guys who are less attractive than me, but whenever I try to talk to guys I find attractive, I act like an absolute fool. I don’t want to seem like a stalker, but every day during passing period, I stare at him while he walks by; sometimes I even do a 180 and walk backwards just to look at him longer. It’s gotten so bad that I’ve even memorized his backpack just to have some kind of information on him.
I’m too scared to go up to him because I’m afraid of rejection. Also, my type is white guys—which he is—but 9/10 guys like that tend to like basic blonde white girls, and I’m NOT that. I’d say I’m pretty average-looking, so I feel like he’s totally out of my league. What should I do?
Find guys in your own league.
 
Find guys in your own league.
I don’t trust my judgement whatsoever on what my “look match” is after my ex. After me and him broke up, everyone told me I was crazy for even dating him because I was supposedly out of his league. Also, I’m not just being a total bitch, he admitted to only using me for my body after we broke up.
 
I don’t trust my judgement whatsoever on what my “look match” is after my ex. After me and him broke up, everyone told me I was crazy for even dating him because I was supposedly out of his league. Also, I’m not just being a total bitch, he admitted to only using me for my body after we broke up.
Girls will say that and lie to you. You guys were probably looksmatched.
 
@Achilles "I have had a boyfriend he was disgusting and ugly and I ONLY used him for attention but this chad who i admire everyday will be my future husband saar"
 
@Achilles "I have had a boyfriend he was disgusting and ugly and I ONLY used him for attention but this chad who i admire everyday will be my future husband saar"
Lmao not you defending a weirdo. We met when I was 15 turning 16, and he was 23. Throughout our relationship I was devoted/loyal to him, he’s the one who wasn’t — not me. 😡😡
 
Lmao not you defending a weirdo. We met when I was 15 turning 16, and he was 23. Throughout our relationship I was devoted/loyal to him, he’s the one who wasn’t — not me. 😡😡
"I was 15 and he was 23"
 
"2 months ago i was a different person saaar" @Achilles
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Tie him up in your basement
 
urg hypergamous foiiid 😡😡
 
thanks
be safe
approach me next time ima respond
Ngl this lowkey gave me motivation to approach him, if he rejects me ill rope on Facebook live
 

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