imagine being homophobic while dateing a bi man?? and foid isn't misogynistic. It's genuinely just a descriptive for a woman on this forum.
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At least try to distance yourself as much as you can and focus on your mental health. The fact that he's inconsistent and doesn't even treat you like a priority signals to me that the relationship might not last
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You have to talk to him or leave ASAP. This seems controlling, because he told you to make time mostly for him but he makes more time for Benson.
Homophobic??? Bitch im pan with a all fem preference what are you talking about
And its a insulting term used by men who hate women???
Im not leaving or complaining to him this isn't what I came here for I just want answers I cant keep feeling like this
what r fags only okay when your "sweet little pookie wookie abusive pos baby boy" is bi but when a girl is genuinely aroace its an excuse to be a bitchy ass FOID?
first of all, you can't be pansexual with a preference , you would be Omni sexual or bisexual pansexual is having no preference
Second of all, it's not
Uh nah when a bitch is a bitch I get to be a bitch thx, all my friends are gay, im gay, my bfs gay, I work with queer youth groups, ive paid for my trans friends and gay friends support stuff, what have you done besides dumb yourself down to look cool for men online lol
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It is not complaining it is simply keeping yourself in check. Never be a pushover, including romantic relationships, you have to stay confident in your boundaries for your own sake. It seems like he is taking your social life away from you and controlling you.
thats GREAT but your being homophobic to an aroace person? thats so fucking lame, and I don't think I'm trying to look cool for anyone online because I'm literally aromantic and asexual
I literally have no attraction, I'm literally not into anyone 
You're a genuinely uneducated and a complete loser, and you got mad at me for using INCEL terms on an INCEL forum SYBAU
I dont care about my social life i dont need it i like being alone I just need him
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I am sorry to say this but you are digging yourself into a pit of misery.
she has bpd, as someone who also has it she's probably just splitting on him and the dude's doing nothing wrong; he probably distance himself a little bit cause something she did and now she's freaking out.
honestly she's just complaining at this point. It won't actually do anything about it. There's no way to stop her misery because she won't get herself out of it.
I was willing to help her till she started being weird towards me cause I'm aroace
No im not if im good for him he'll stay and I wont be miserable its not that hard
I can promise you im not just splitting
I've worked my ass off with 3 different therapists to make sure I dont split on him ive done wverything to change
And he cries on me all the time and points out hes awful before I even get the chance to realize
Bpd doesn't mean being an abusive cunt 100% of the time yk?
why would you be with him if he cries, break upppppppp
unc i have bpd and I can see you're clearly not stable
yeah but still this love is not real, break uppppppp!!!!!!!!!!
foid wants attention
if you dont do it he will, im looking out for you
I want attention...? me...? Not the bitch yet again putting another woman down for attention on an incel forum...? Okay that's odd...foid wants attention
Foid wants answers
LMAO I don't think I was putting any woman down
so offensive!!!Foid
wants answers
(why is it only offensive when I do it??? double standard ahh)
I have tits and a vag and ur putting me down sooo
Was so clearly mocking what you said
If you ever do decide to have sex make sure to get an iq test first just in case its illegal
I HAVE TITS AND A VAGINA TO AND IM NOT MOPEING AROUND ON A FORUM MAD AT EVERYONE FOR EXISTING HOLY SHIT SHUT. THE. FUCK. UP.I have tits and a vag and ur putting me down sooo
YOUR GENUINELY SO INSUFFERABLE AND BITCHY, YOU GET MAD AT ME FOR BEING AROACE BECAUSE IT GOES AGAINST YOUR ONE INSULT THAT IM 'looking for male attention' THEN GO AND BITCH AROUND ABOUT YOUR POS BOYFRIEND THAT YOU WONT LEAVE!!
I DONT KNOW WHAT THE **FUCK** YOU WANT US TO DO, YOUR A FUCKING UNTREATED BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER HAVEING BITCH, AND ALL YOU DO IS FLEX YOUR 'BODIES' AND MOPE. I HAVE BPD AND IM NOT AS BITCHY AND DADDY ISSUE HAVEING AS YOU.
IMAGINE TELLING PEOPLE TO 'ROPE' AND BEING A LOW IQ FUCKING f****t CUNT ALL AT ONCE? SYBAU
holy lowiq FOID
Uhm... I got mad at you for defending a guy who was being a misogynistic prick....? And im not complaining about my boyfriend at all I just want to know if I should be concerned
I wasn't mad at anyone but u lebruh
Did I touch a nerve w u too?
no your just an insufferable cunt, you also got mad at @Knight just to remind you because apparently you're so stupid and low IQ that you have fucking amnesia you stupid high body low value LTB whore.
All you were doing was complaining about how he doesn't give you enough attention (of course you need it, not that anyone else other than desperate guy like that would give *you* attention), and obviously you should be concerned if he treats you like shit but it's probably your fault for being so insufferable that no guy wants to talk to you
You know when they said that FOIDS could get layed no matter how ugly I didn't know they were talking about mfs like you, LTB, lowiq, fucking f*g maxxing FOIDS.. I thought the only people you would've been able to pull by now would have been your dad when he r***d you as a kid LMAO low iq ugly bitch
I think he likes his best friend but also if he did like his best friend he probably would be dating his best friend also why would you date someone after they said their best friend is their number one priority if theyre bi also break up
I've been rated hmtb and htb only actually, and I get asked out every day, not that I wanna get layed by men anyway besides my hot sexy bf
All ive heard about u is that ur ltb
And the only people who agree and interact with yoy are the same misogynistic assholes people on here avoid and you chase after like a teeny little pick me with pizza face and butt crust
LMAO im hmtb to htb aswel, i don't know why you're so determined to put other women down just because we don't wanna hear your moping about your sad boyfriend you dirty skank
Im putting other women down because they dont count as a woman because they're a chopped ass attention whore disgrace to anyone in the world with feminine pronouns at all
LMAO okay, i'm gonna stop giving you attention because you're clearly having some kind of borderline personality disorder, mental crisis, and I don't wanna enable you more by giving you attention
When you're mentally sober come look back at this and realize how stupid you look
Not only are you homophobic but you're also sexist and just a bad person
IM sexist??? I went through your profile and you've never once been rude to a man but every woman that goes near u you treat them like dirty gum on ur shoe
Ur retarded, u dont deserve to live, yoy dont deserve rights, and u should be dropped out of an aircraft
i've been nice to literally every woman and every man cause I'm a decent personIM sexist??? I went through your profile and you've never once been rude to a man but every woman that goes near u you treat them like dirty gum on ur shoe
Ur retarded, u dont deserve to live, yoy dont deserve rights, and u should be dropped out of an aircraft
As I said, I'm gonna stop giving you attention cause you're clearly having a mental crisis and you're mentally unwell and even a little bit of attention is clearly enabling you
Btw if you call yourself a good person your usually not a good personi've been nice to literally every woman and every man cause I'm a decent person
As I said, I'm gonna stop giving you attention cause you're clearly having a mental crisis and you're mentally unwell and even a little bit of attention is clearly enabling you
U the typa person to go into a homeless shelter, take a pic, walk out, and then go post it with a paragraph about being kind
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Hi! Im not trying to sound rude in any way possible but if you haven't try talking to him about your relationship and him being distant ik you've most likely done that tho
And I wouldn't overthink about him liking a song because that specific song did blow up and its easy to remember
Him being rlly close to his best freind might be slightly concerning tho id just pay attention to what he says about him and how they interact if they do anything that seems concerning you should make the choice to stay or leave based on what you seem fit and whats best for your own wellbeing
And I wouldn't overthink about him liking a song because that specific song did blow up and its easy to remember
Him being rlly close to his best freind might be slightly concerning tho id just pay attention to what he says about him and how they interact if they do anything that seems concerning you should make the choice to stay or leave based on what you seem fit and whats best for your own wellbeing
I've talked to him about it a million times and he only drifts further ive kind of given up on that, and dw you dont sound rude its completely reasonable
I wouldn't worry about the song if he used tiktok, but he does like once a month to like my messages,
Ive definitely been keeping an eye out on them but I dont think I can bring myself to leave if anything happens
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If you're not willing to leave and hes not willing to change i dont think there is much that you can do at this point
If the relationship does more good than bad for you its reasonable to stay but you also do need to make sure its partially functional and work on being more dependant for your own wellbeing I do understand that can be rlly hard but you said in another reply you talk to a therapist to help you control your bpd episodes it would be worth it to talk about being more independent
Its definitely doing more good than bad, I worked my ass off to get out an abusive home just to stay in this town for him, hes my only motivation, and I think your right maybe I need to figure out how to be less dependant before I keep working on other things
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your bf is chopped af, just ghost him if you have doubts