when they manipulate me, threaten me, are a goth mommy or Latina baddie, dark humor, built like Mewtoo, (I just wanna be loved by someone I'm interested in)what are some ways girls get you to like them? what personality traits? humor? is it just appearance? if you didn’t like a girl, would there be a thing she could do to get you to like her, or is everything set in stone? also, what are things girls do that immediately just turn you off personality-wise? desperation? sorry i have many questions and i want to understand