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Would you do a full 50/50 with a man?
Meaning that you both work, do home chores, cook and all that depending oh who’s tired and who’s free etc

70% in Bulgaria are like this tbh

I dont see a problem with both working and doing home chores

It will be better if people are like this

Less financial issues, xyz.
 
70% in Bulgaria are like this tbh

I dont see a problem with both working and doing home chores

It will be better if people are like this

Less financial issues, xyz.
Yeah I agree. I absolutely hate the typical normie “I use you as my maid and whore, you use me for my wallet” dating dynamic. How about we’re both gonna love and respect each other as individuals
 
Your money is your money and his money is your money right ?
no, im not against 50/50 in some aspects, but full 50/50 in everything fuck no bro. both ppl working is normal, both ppl helping around the house is normal, but imagine ur man is getting tired from fixing up the car and hes like alr babe u take over now 😳 oh na 😭😭😭😭😭 making it dependent on whoever’s free or whoever is less tired is retarded bruh men and women are not equal in that way
 
Of course if she does some job. Will tell kids to do some chores too. A working woman cannot do all chores, she will get sick.

If she is stay at home, she must do 90% of domestic chores. Why tf is she at home then?

It's great if a woman earns decent if a man isn't soo rich to handle whole family financially alone.

Logic is simple. If you are just decent and mediocre income man, go for career oriented women. If you are very rich, easy for you to afford a stay at home trophy wife.
 
Yeah I agree. I absolutely hate the typical normie “I use you as my maid and whore, you use me for my wallet” dating dynamic. How about we’re both gonna love and respect each other as individuals
I swear this shit will make the relationship so much easier, like if your tired or sick fuck it I will cook and clean today.❤️‍🩹
 
imagine ur man is getting tired from fixing up the car and hes like alr babe u take over now 😳
It will never happens. Most women will just go to a car mechanic to get it fixed. I've done the basic maintenance on my fiancée's car, i will never ask her to do it unless she really wants to learn.
making it dependent on whoever’s free or whoever is less tired is retarded bruh men and women are not equal in that way
It does work this way most of the time, especially if the 2 in the couple are working. But it needs organization tho
 
no, im not against 50/50 in some aspects, but full 50/50 in everything fuck no bro. both ppl working is normal, both ppl helping around the house is normal, but imagine ur man is getting tired from fixing up the car and hes like alr babe u take over now 😳 oh na 😭😭😭😭😭 making it dependent on whoever’s free or whoever is less tired is retarded bruh men and women are not equal in that way
I dont think any man will be confident with their girl working on their car or a home project
 
no, im not against 50/50 in some aspects, but full 50/50 in everything fuck no bro. both ppl working is normal, both ppl helping around the house is normal, but imagine ur man is getting tired from fixing up the car and hes like alr babe u take over now 😳 oh na 😭😭😭😭😭 making it dependent on whoever’s free or whoever is less tired is retarded bruh men and women are not equal in that way
I was referirng to everyday chores (laundry, cleaning etc). Obviously there are specific things. Like Im not gonna breastfeed my child (as a guy) because my girl is tired or sum. Also I didn’t add but thought that people would understand that in certain situations one partner has much better skills in things that the other. For example, a guy might be a top tier chef so itd be dumb if his girl would cook their stuff most of the time
 
It will never happens. Most women will just go to a car mechanic to get it fixed. I've done the basic maintenance on my fiancée's car, i will never ask her to do it unless she really wants to learn.

It does work this way most of the time, especially if the 2 in the couple are working. But it needs organization tho
im saying obv both of u have to provide smt in the rls, but u cant expect the things they provide to be equal. like how u wouldnt expect her to help w the car stuff and she prob wouldnt expect u to do certain things that she does. i think relationships should be balanced, but its weird to make it a 50/50 split.
 
I dont think any man will be confident with their girl working on their car or a home project
thats what im trying to say, its smt that just doesnt happen like no man expects his gf to do mechanical shit around the house. if it was 50/50 in that aspect ts just wouldnt make sense
 
im saying obv both of u have to provide smt in the rls, but u cant expect the things they provide to be equal. like how u wouldnt expect her to help w the car stuff and she prob wouldnt expect u to do certain things that she does. i think relationships should be balanced, but its weird to make it a 50/50 split.
Equal ≠ same. Equal means I spend as much time and/or effort on things that help our household/family as you do and that we can manipulate it depending on our current needs and circumstances. Also if it’s not 50/50 in total , which means that you expect your man to do more thus putting yourself at the pedestal
 
I was referirng to everyday chores (laundry, cleaning etc). Obviously there are specific things. Like Im not gonna breastfeed my child (as a guy) because my girl is tired or sum. Also I didn’t add but thought that people would understand that in certain situations one partner has much better skills in things that the other. For example, a guy might be a top tier chef so itd be dumb if his girl would cook their stuff most of the time
i agree then, both the man and the woman should help around the house. i just thought u meant “full 50/50” as in like everything everything
 
thats what im trying to say, its smt that just doesnt happen like no man expects his gf to do mechanical shit around the house. if it was 50/50 in that aspect ts just wouldnt make sense
Even if its fully 50/50 no man will ever say that

As a man he has to do the harder "manly" stuff himself

If the man has a day off and she is at work he can take responsibility to clean the dishes or shit like that
 
Even if its fully 50/50 no man will ever say that

As a man he has to do the harder "manly" stuff himself

If the man has a day off and she is at work he can take responsibility to clean the dishes or shit like that
boiii ur not getting the point, my whole purpose of using that example was showing how absurd it would be for a man to ask his girl to fix up his car. thats just not how the world is. im just saying if u made things fully 50/50, hypothetically speaking that means the woman would be expected to fix up the car, which like u said is wrong.
 
trad family setting with one parent at home seems to be the happiest setup for the kid ngl, "but its unrealistic in ts economy" well yeah thats why most ppl shouldnt have children in the first place no matter how much they want to, i think i would have turned out way better if both my parents didnt work full time and instead had one of them actually take care of me, also by default i think trad setup is already 50/50
 
im saying obv both of u have to provide smt in the rls, but u cant expect the things they provide to be equal. like how u wouldnt expect her to help w the car stuff and she prob wouldnt expect u to do certain things that she does. i think relationships should be balanced, but its weird to make it a 50/50 split.
Equality is a delusional lie. I do believe in equity in a relationship. If she earn less i'll take care more of the bills, if i have more free time i'll do the chores and so on. The 50/50 will never work, and tbf it will just ruin the relationship and build frustration
 
trad family setting with one parent at home seems to be the happiest setup for the kid ngl, "but its unrealistic in ts economy" well yeah thats why most ppl shouldnt have children in the first place no matter how much they want to, i think i would have turned out way better if both my parents didnt work full time and instead had one of them actually take care of me, also by default i think trad setup is already 50/50
It’s not because the chances, overall effort and time that you put into a top tier income are usually much higher than just uh cooking homekeeping. Later might be more boring and repetitive but still
 
Would you do a full 50/50 with a man?
Meaning that you both work, do home chores, cook and all that depending oh who’s tired and who’s free etc
Yeah I wouldn’t mind. Tbh it’s almost impossible for one person to support a whole family in todays world, so both partners working makes the most sense if you want a decent life
 
Yeah I wouldn’t mind. Tbh it’s almost impossible for one person to support a whole family in todays world, so both partners working makes the most sense if you want a decent life
You need yourself a gatherer guy
 
You need yourself a gatherer guy
It sucks that in reality most of the time the woman usually does both working and all the chores while the guy just does his job. Which is why divorce rates are so high so I kind of get why people miss the more traditional way
 
It sucks that in reality most of the time the woman usually does both working and all the chores while the guy just does his job. Which is why divorce rates are so high so I kind of get why people miss the more traditional way
I honestly have no idea because nobody my age is married
 
im saying obv both of u have to provide smt in the rls, but u cant expect the things they provide to be equal. like how u wouldnt expect her to help w the car stuff and she prob wouldnt expect u to do certain things that she does. i think relationships should be balanced, but its weird to make it a 50/50 split.
You’re overthinking the finer details.
 
Would you do a full 50/50 with a man?
Meaning that you both work, do home chores, cook and all that depending oh who’s tired and who’s free etc
yeah as long as its genuinely 50/50 cos half the time it says 50/50 but the woman works, does basically all house chores, cooking and childcare whereas the man works n goes home to eat n sleep
 
Yeah ofc, I’d say the “trad” setup is already 50/50 though because you’re both contributing something. Lowkey I just wanna live my ultrafeminine married off young older guy with job 1950’s housewife dream but thats not realistic these days. The only problem with it for me though is I kinda start losing it when I stay home for too long and I like the routine of going out and seeing people everyday and also I want to go medical school. But unironically I do only want three things in life and one of them is to be a wife
 
Yeah ofc, I’d say the “trad” setup is already 50/50 though because you’re both contributing something. Lowkey I just wanna live my ultrafeminine married off young older guy with job 1950’s housewife dream but thats not realistic these days. The only problem with it for me though is I kinda start losing it when I stay home for too long and I like the routine of going out and seeing people everyday and also I want to go medical school. But unironically I do only want three things in life and one of them is to be a wife
idk i feel like he'd have to earn a lot of money for me to be ok with doing all the house work, cooking and childcare plus like if im going to push out multiple kids (which is whats normally expected of trad wives) n be like a housewife i wanna know that he can give me a stable house not just for me but the kids aswell and know that he won't leave cos if he did id be left w like no money no house no job and multiple kids
 
idk i feel like he'd have to earn a lot of money for me to be ok with doing all the house work, cooking and childcare plus like if im going to push out multiple kids (which is whats normally expected of trad wives) n be like a housewife i wanna know that he can give me a stable house not just for me but the kids aswell and know that he won't leave cos if he did id be left w like no money no house no job and multiple kids
True that is the scariest part if they just leave and then you’re left with nothing. The idea of your whole life being dependent on if a man still loves you is horrible. That’s why I hate when guys protest so much against alimony
 
True that is the scariest part if they just leave and then you’re left with nothing. That’s why I hate when guys protest so much against alimony
yeah also guys that insist on trad relationships tend to not be good men idk why it just seems that they like the idea of some mindless domestic sex doll that does whatever they tell them to rather then having a wife that they love, look after and support
 
yeah also guys that insist on trad relationships tend to not be good men idk why it just seems that they like the idea of some mindless domestic sex doll that does whatever they tell them to rather then having a wife that they love, look after and support
True and without the domestic abuse part too
 
Yeah ofc, I’d say the “trad” setup is already 50/50 though because you’re both contributing something. Lowkey I just wanna live my ultrafeminine married off young older guy with job 1950’s housewife dream but thats not realistic these days. The only problem with it for me though is I kinda start losing it when I stay home for too long and I like the routine of going out and seeing people everyday and also I want to go medical school. But unironically I do only want three things in life and one of them is to be a wife
Tradwife setup realistically isn’t 50/50 because it takes much more time, effort, luck and risk to get legit rich than whatever it does to just do all the basic chores at home (unless the guy was born rich and stuff)
 
yeah also guys that insist on trad relationships tend to not be good men idk why it just seems that they like the idea of some mindless domestic sex doll that does whatever they tell them to rather then having a wife that they love, look after and support
Legit giving best takes on this forum so far
 
yeah also guys that insist on trad relationships tend to not be good men idk why it just seems that they like the idea of some mindless domestic sex doll that does whatever they tell them to rather then having a wife that they love, look after and support
Yeah it grosses me out a lot
 
Tradwife setup realistically isn’t 50/50 because it takes much more time, effort, luck and risk to get legit rich than whatever it does to just do all the basic chores at home (unless the guy was born rich and stuff)
what if I don’t want to be rich
 

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