Question for the girls (Girls gtfih)

[Ladiesman217]

Would you get the ick if your boyfriend asks you “Do you still like me and do you still like me like you did before?” After an argument

 

[Penalizer69]

don't say that shit

 

[LeoK]

Yes

 

[Aryy]

Would you get the ick if your boyfriend asks you “Do you still like me and do you still like me like you did before?” After an argument

Well personally no but ig people are saying yes

 

[Penalizer69]

Well personally no but ig people are saying yes

Well personally I think you're a fucking cuck

 

[Aryy]

Well personally I think you're a fucking cuck

Wym
Why would i get the ick if someones im in a relationship with need assurance

 

[Angel]

if it's genuine prolly not but if it's like annoying yeah

 

[Penalizer69]

Wym
Why would i get the ick if someones im in a relationship with need assurance

It's just biology unfortunately

 

[Aryy]

It's just biology unfortunately

Explain

 

[𐲀 𐲢 𐲠 𐲀 𐲇 𐲰]

this is why im gonna date dudes

 

[Ladiesman217]

I already said it and I know it was stupid but whatever basically I was mad about something she did so I like told her and I was mad and stuff and then she told me stuff she didn’t like that I did and she started crying and shit so she said we’ll talk tomorrow and then I sent her a really good message but then I got pissed later and I brought back the topic in our chats but then I deleted it but then I sent it again and she saw it and she was mad that I was bringing it up after it was sorted out or whatever or on the call and then I asked her like I need u to be honest with me do you still like me and do you still like me the way you did and she didn’t even answer my question and said some shit like I need space and you need to reflect or some stupid shit like that so I said okay im sorry take your space message me when you feel like it . Did I handle the situation well

 

[Ladiesman217]

Explain

Ig they mean that it gives the girl the ick when their partner seems insecure to them I guess

 

[Penalizer69]

Explain

People tend to be attracted to confidence and mystery

 

[Ladiesman217]

I already said it and I know it was stupid but whatever basically I was mad about something she did so I like told her and I was mad and stuff and then she told me stuff she didn’t like that I did and she started crying and shit so she said we’ll talk tomorrow and then I sent her a really good message but then I got pissed later and I brought back the topic in our chats but then I deleted it but then I sent it again and she saw it and she was mad that I was bringing it up after it was sorted out or whatever or on the call and then I asked her like I need u to be honest with me do you still like me and do you still like me the way you did and she didn’t even answer my question and said some shit like I need space and you need to reflect or some stupid shit like that so I said okay im sorry take your space message me when you feel like it . Did I handle the situation well

I think she’s gonna break up with me dude it’s gonna be so brutal

 

[Aryy]

People tend to be attracted to confidence and mystery

but you will have to be emotionally vulnerable and if you feel insecure in a relationship (which i assume most people would if they are attached)
then what?

 

[bananarama]

Would you get the ick if your boyfriend asks you “Do you still like me and do you still like me like you did before?” After an argument

yes if he kept doing ts I’d definitely leave him

 

[tami_26]

Would you get the ick if your boyfriend asks you “Do you still like me and do you still like me like you did before?” After an argument

No wth Ickes only exist when u don’t like the guy

 

[Penalizer69]

I already said it and I know it was stupid but whatever basically I was mad about something she did so I like told her and I was mad and stuff and then she told me stuff she didn’t like that I did and she started crying and shit so she said we’ll talk tomorrow and then I sent her a really good message but then I got pissed later and I brought back the topic in our chats but then I deleted it but then I sent it again and she saw it and she was mad that I was bringing it up after it was sorted out or whatever or on the call and then I asked her like I need u to be honest with me do you still like me and do you still like me the way you did and she didn’t even answer my question and said some shit like I need space and you need to reflect or some stupid shit like that so I said okay im sorry take your space message me when you feel like it . Did I handle the situation well

I don't see a point in arguing because either someone does something bad enough to the point where you need to reconsider the relationship or they don't. Arguing over smaller shit usually just pushes you and your patner apart and breed resentment + the issue almost never gets solved.

Obviously it's easier for me to say outside of the situation but this is just what seems ideal to me from my experience

 

[wildfrost11]

he is asking to be pegged w that question

 

[Pinksunglasses]

Would you get the ick if your boyfriend asks you “Do you still like me and do you still like me like you did before?” After an argument

Added to my Ick list lol

 

[Penalizer69]

but you will have to be emotionally vulnerable and if you feel insecure in a relationship (which i assume most people would if they are attached)
then what?

I don't see a point in arguing because either someone does something bad enough to the point where you need to reconsider the relationship or they don't. Arguing over smaller shit usually just pushes you and your patner apart and breed resentment + the issue almost never gets solved.

Obviously it's easier for me to say outside of the situation but this is just what seems ideal to me from my experience

 

[Pinksunglasses]

I don't see a point in arguing because either someone does something bad enough to the point where you need to reconsider the relationship or they don't. Arguing over smaller shit usually just pushes you and your patner apart and breed resentment + the issue almost never gets solved.

Obviously it's easier for me to say outside of the situation but this is just what seems ideal to me from my experience

Having a gf low t Cnl

 

[Aryy]

I don't see a point in arguing because either someone does something bad enough to the point where you need to reconsider the relationship or they don't. Arguing over smaller shit usually just pushes you and your patner apart and breed resentment + the issue almost never gets solved.

Obviously it's easier for me to say outside of the situation but this is just what seems ideal to me from my experience

so if they do something small you ignore it
and if its big enough you leave

 

[Penalizer69]

so if they do something small you ignore it
and if its big enough you leave

It's a little more complicated than that. I think you can ask someone to stop doing certain things and set your boundaries but arguing is completely pointless, makes you more hurt and tilts power dynamics

 

[Hector of Troy]

foids say that

 

[Ladiesman217]

It's a little more complicated than that. I think you can ask someone to stop doing certain things and set your boundaries but arguing is completely pointless, makes you more hurt and tilts power dynamics

Okay so I set my boundaries but then I got mad again and I sent a rage text saying the same shit again because I was rethinking the relationship and then I asked her be honest with me do you still like me and shit , is it over

 

[Penalizer69]

Okay so I set my boundaries but then I got mad again and I sent a rage text saying the same shit again because I was rethinking the relationship and then I asked her be honest with me do you still like me and shit , is it over

Probably but you're young so it's chill I wouldnt stress it.

 

[Ladiesman217]

Probably but you're young so it's chill I wouldnt stress it.

But do you think she sees me as some kind of cuck now

 

[Penalizer69]

But do you think she sees me as some kind of cuck now

If you've made it a habit yeah if not probably not

 

[Ladiesman217]

If you've made it a habit yeah if not probably not

This is the first time I asked her this but I asked her this like 2 times

 

[regg]

Would you get the ick if your boyfriend asks you “Do you still like me and do you still like me like you did before?” After an argument

nd chat

 

[Ladiesman217]

nd chat

I don’t think im nd tbh

 

[Penalizer69]

This is the first time I asked her this but I asked her this like 2 times

Atleast you know the problem now and can change it

 

[regg]

I don’t think im nd tbh

dont say that anyway, just start a different more positive conversation to change the mood

 

[Ladiesman217]

dont say that anyway, just start a different more positive conversation to change the mood

I said this during the argument and she said she needs some space so I said okay

 

[regg]

I said this during the argument and she said she needs some space so I said okay

ngl youre cooked

 

[Ladiesman217]

ngl youre cooked

I mean she hasn’t removed my @ from her insta yet, when she removes that I know for sure im cooked beyond saving

 

[mermicorn96]

I kinda would tbh

 

[regg]

I mean she hasn’t removed my @ from her insta yet, when she removes that I know for sure im cooked beyond saving

youll be in my prayers