Question for woman what attracts u more nonchalant or more chalant man?

[ragnarok787]

Lets say guy has everything right , u like him. Try to answer as honesty u can based on what u notice on yourself. Do u get turned off if a guy cares too much about u, or shows it and do u prefer if he is less caring and more cool about it ?

 

[Deleted Member 54608]

I would clearly not get with a bitchy jerk. I like "goofy" personalities.

 

[peony]

definitely NOT nonchalant

 

[ragnarok787]

I would clearly not get with a bitchy jerk. I like "goofy" personalities.

Not really the question

 

[Deleted Member 52522]

Chalant for sureeee but with boundaries

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

Asking girls for such advice is like asking a criminal how to be a policeman

 

[Deleted Member 54608]

Not really the question

Nonchalant people are bitchy jerks tho and i don't like too touchy people either

 

[ragnarok787]

Chalant for sureeee but with boundaries

Can u give me example of this boundaries

 

[ragnarok787]

Nonchalant people are bitchy jerks tho and i don't like too touchy people either

Thats not what nonchalant means ela

 

[ragnarok787]

Asking girls for such advice is like asking a criminal how to be a policeman

Its funny cause most of the time in real life they are always atrracted to the opposite of what they say

 

[lifelover]

Lets say guy has everything right , u like him. Try to answer as honesty u can based on what u notice on yourself. Do u get turned off if a guy cares too much about u, or shows it and do u prefer if he is less caring and more cool about it ?

a bit nonchalant only at the beginning but then shows his soft side

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

Asking girls for such advice is like asking a criminal how to be a policeman

For real OP didn't swallow the blackpill yet I think

 

[Deleted Member 52522]

Its funny cause most of the time in real life they are always atrracted to the opposite of what they say

I suppose some girls r like that but I feel like the majority only feel that way when they get love bombed and then cold turkey on her

 

[ragnarok787]

I suppose some girls r like that but I feel like the majority only feel that way when they get love bombed and then cold turkey on her

i would say instincts are different . What girls ussualy say just sounds good on paper and should be ideal but it is not reality. My experience says the same tbh irl when i could care less woman started to be much more attracted to me compared when i started to actually treat her right and care

 

[lifelover]

I suppose some girls r like that but I feel like the majority only feel that way when they get love bombed and then cold turkey on her

exactly what most do when they want certain things quickly

 

[Deleted Member 52522]

i would say instincts are different . What girls ussualy say just sounds good on paper and should be ideal but it is not reality. My experience says the same tbh irl when i could care less woman valued me more compared when i started to actually treat her right and care which is sad. Maybe woman crave man who are out of their reach and control

no it just means they don’t actually like you if they prefer having less reach of you or wtv

 

[ragnarok787]

no it just means they don’t actually like you if they prefer having less reach of you or wtv

my point was when i start care less , they usually start to care much much more. Maybe i was just around wrong woman tho in past. Not all of them were like that in my experience of corse but most

 

[Deleted Member 52522]

my point was when i start care less , they usually start to care much much more. Maybe i was just around wrong woman tho in past. Not all of them were like that in my experience of corse but most

yeah they like the attention they get from u so they start caring when u give less to get that attention once again

 

[ragnarok787]

yeah they like the attention they get from u so they start caring when u give less to get that attention once again

exactly , they miss the attention and realized it later so they want it back. Idk why woman are so fucking ADDICTED to attention like to an heroine

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

exactly , they miss the attention and realized it later so they want it back. Idk why woman are so fucking ADDICTED to attention like to an heroine

social media addiction made it even worse than it was before, some girls I knew were addicting on getting comments from gooners on their IG posts or getting weird DMs jfl

 

[ragnarok787]

social media addiction made it even worse than it was before, some girls I knew were addicting on getting comments from gooners on their IG posts or getting weird DMs jfl

And they never block them lmao cause they love the idea of being desired even when what the males say is weird. Attention is always nice. If they would actually dislike this simple block button in second would solve this but they keep talking to them or even befriend them

 

[zygos]

Lets say guy has everything right , u like him. Try to answer as honesty u can based on what u notice on yourself. Do u get turned off if a guy cares too much about u, or shows it and do u prefer if he is less caring and more cool about it ?

Chalant.