relationship question

[swt]

do you think its a valid reason to break up with your boyfriend of 1+ year(s) just because he slapped you in the face once

 

[Nenestar]

Sure

 

[swt]

Sure

why, its one time

 

[Nenestar]

why, its one time

Who knows when the next time comes.

 

[swt]

Who knows when the next time comes.

what if its the first time in 2 years

 

[Methodical]

why, its one time

If someone violates you to the point of physically hurting you, it's never been 'just one time'.

 

[Deleted Member 73026]

Who knows when the next time comes.

more like if it's "only" a slap next time

 

[□□□□□□]

If someone violates you to the point of physically hurting you, it's never been 'just one time'.

Wise advice ginger man

 

[Nihilus]

Context depending

 

[swt]

Context depending

heated argument

 

[wsada]

1 time is fine if its 7 or more then its bad

 

[Nihilus]

heated argument

How hard was the slap , did he hesitate ? Did he feel bad after ? Did he feel ashamed after ? Did he say he was sorry ? Did he brush it off ? Does he have a certain psychological condition?
Its quite context depending as I said

 

[swt]

1 time is fine if its 7 or more then its bad

my gf broke up with me in my dream cuz i slapped her accross the face 1 time, so i woke up mad af today wanting to break up with her

 

[swt]

How hard was the slap , did he hesitate ? Did he feel bad after ? Did he feel ashamed after ? Did he say he was sorry ? Did he brush it off ? Does he have a certain psychological condition?
Its quite context depending as I said

no condition, didnt hesitate, i didnt slap her too hard but i didnt feel bad either but i said sorry

 

[Deleted Member 70398]

depends if you're into bdsm, i wouldn't mind tbh

 

[Nihilus]

no condition, didnt hesitate, i didnt slap her too hard but i didnt feel bad either but i said sorry

Thought you were the girl

 

[swt]

Thought you were the girl

everyone does , somehow

 

[Nihilus]

everyone does , somehow

Say sorry

 

[Methodical]

How hard was the slap , did he hesitate ? Did he feel bad after ? Did he feel ashamed after ? Did he say he was sorry ? Did he brush it off ? Does he have a certain psychological condition?
Its quite context depending as I said

There's literally zero context in which a man should ever lay his hands on a woman.

The only time it's 'okay' is when it's life or death or he was protecting a loved one.

 

[Nihilus]

There's literally zero context in which a man should ever lay his hands on a woman.

The only time it's 'okay' is when it's life or death or he was protecting a loved one.

"Should" depends on your own morals , you'd be surprised how such standards shift depending on time and culture

 

[Superbia]

no

what did the woman do to provoke her boyfriend?

 

[Methodical]

"Should" depends on your own morals , you'd be surprised how such standards shift depending on time and culture

Women are objectively weaker than men, and women are objectively weaker than men across all cultures. I understand what you're saying but I just disagree. Picking on someone who's physically weaker than you, especially over some argument, it's just wrong regardless of most contexts, in my opinion.

 

[Deleted Member 78476]

do you think its a valid reason to break up with your boyfriend of 1+ year(s) just because he slapped you in the face once

yeah hes likely to do it again then itll turn to punches so its safe to end it for your future selves sake