relationships can really change people

[Aryy]

ive seen many people who were very hostile towards love be very different as soon as they get into a relationship. its like it blinds you somewhat.

 

[arisu]

ive seen many people who were very hostile towards love be very different as soon as they get into a relationship. its like it blinds you somewhat.

happened to me

 

[Aryy]

happened to me

do u regret it?

 

[Suomi Volksgrenadier]

And when they break up they become people from trend "She thinks she love me, I think she trollin'"

 

[chudlite67]

relationship shmationship

 

[TrueOgr3]

happened to me

hello

 

[Deleted Member 114917]

Ofc a perspective of love will change someone if they get enough validation, love and validation are two different things here pal.

Love will change you in a way of mannerism, comfort ability with the one you love, and just overall changes to adapting to a person.
Once that person possibly falls out of love or has something happen in the relationship you will realizing they where being performative and will fall into the same roots as before.

You don't go into a relationship with that mindset and expect the changing of a mind, it's a subconscious performance to adapt to validation purposes.

That's 2026 dating for you, love is a buzzword for feelings when it should be a word used to describe a decision, not only a feeling.

 

[avzrael]

Thats why WE stay single

 

[arisu]

do u regret it?

not really, i think i kinda changed for the best, the biggest problem is that i try to make myself more like him by changing my taste, opinions

 

[Aryy]

Ofc a perspective of love will change someone if they get enough validation, love and validation are two different things here pal.

Love will change you in a way of mannerism, comfort ability with the one you love, and just overall changes to adapting to a person.
Once that person possibly falls out of love or has something happen in the relationship you will realizing they where being performative and will fall into the same roots as before.

You don't go into a relationship with that mindset and expect the changing of a mind, it's a subconscious performance to adapt to validation purposes.

That's 2026 dating for you, love is a buzzword for feelings when it should be a word used to describe a decision, not only a feeling.

i also think love is a choice