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Just an hour ago I saw my crush was on the same bus as me, couldn’t talk to her and she didn’t notice me since we were at both ends of the bus. When it was my stop, I told her if she had an album to recommend to me since I recommended her one like 3-4 weeks ago. She told me one and I asked her if there was anyway I could contact her to tell her what I thought about it and she said « I’d rather not ». Would this have happened if I was HTN+ ?
 
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Just an hour ago I saw my crush was on the same bus as me, couldn’t talk to her and she didn’t notice me since we were at both ends of the bus. When it was my stop, I told her if she had an album to recommend to me since I recommended her one like 3-4 weeks ago. She told me one and I asked her if there was anyway I could contact her to tell her what I thought about it and she said « I’d rather not ». Would this have happened if I was HTN+ ?
Now imagine her massive cock
 
Time to either do one of two things, either tell her how you feel about her and see if she shares the same feelings or just move on (or both if she rejects you)
 
Time to either do one of two things, either tell her how you feel about her and see if she shares the same feelings or just move on (or both if she rejects you)
She doesn’t like me gng Imma just listen to the album because she did the same for me and then move on.
 
yeah her saying she doesnt want to contact u is a big hint
I’ll respect the foid’s boundaries and leave her the fuck alone from now on, s bit sad cuz it was the only person on my campus that fw goth rock too.
 
Just an hour ago I saw my crush was on the same bus as me, couldn’t talk to her and she didn’t notice me since we were at both ends of the bus. When it was my stop, I told her if she had an album to recommend to me since I recommended her one like 3-4 weeks ago. She told me one and I asked her if there was anyway I could contact her to tell her what I thought about it and she said « I’d rather not ». Would this have happened if I was HTN+ ?
im sorry, dont feel too beat up by it. her response was harsh to be honest. of course shes just setting a boundary and doesnt owe you anything, but there were definitely better ways to go about it. it’s an obvious sign she isnt interested in having anything with you. just move on and find a girl who is
 
im sorry, dont feel too beat up by it. her response was harsh to be honest. of course shes just setting a boundary and doesnt owe you anything, but there were definitely better ways to go about it. it’s an obvious sign she isnt interested in having anything with you. just move on and find a girl who is
her response was not harsh at all. giving him her contact is clearly insinuating something and would leave him thinking things could be more. she probably just saw him as a nice person to talk with on the bus or something, but nothing further to where they need each others' contacts. this is exactly something I would say to somebody I'm not interested in. I agree, and he should just move on.
 
you dont have to be a truecel haha just try again. its one rejection
Don’t deny my truecel status, it has been rejections on rejections on rejections. Why do you think Im here in the first place ? I convince myself blackpill is real so at least I have a clear goal to achieve to connect romantically with someone else.
 
her response was not harsh at all. giving him her contact is clearly insinuating something and would leave him thinking things could be more. she probably just saw him as a nice person to talk with on the bus or something, but nothing further to where they need each others' contacts. this is exactly something I would say to somebody I'm not interested in. I agree, and he should just move on.
oh no i dont think she shouldve given him her contact. she clearly isnt interested, thatd just be giving him false hope. i guess i thought she couldve been politer about how she said it, but now that i think abt it i was just comparing her response to how i wouldve responded. im kind of a pushover, so i view being direct as being harsh, even though it isnt actually
 

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Don’t deny my truecel status, it has been rejections on rejections on rejections. Why do you think Im here in the first place ? I convince myself blackpill is real so at least I have a clear goal to achieve to connect romantically with someone else.

How many times have you been rejected? Has anyone been interested in you?
 

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How many times have you been rejected? Has anyone been interested in you?
Since I was 15 because that's kinda when I gained consciousness, 5 times. I count subtle hints or unavailability as rejections btw. No one has ever shown any type of romantic interest towards me. I mean yeah some girls complimented my physique after I got ripped by doing calisthenics but that's about it. I'll either grow a sour bastard or OD at 27.
 

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Since I was 15 because that's kinda when I gained consciousness, 5 times. I count subtle hints or unavailability as rejections btw. No one has ever shown any type of romantic interest towards me. I mean yeah some girls complimented my physique after I got ripped by doing calisthenics but that's about it. I'll either grow a sour bastard or OD at 27.

How tall are you? Also, are you sure this is related all to your looks?
 
She’s not feeling u but there’s other fish in the sea just keep shooting your shot it’s a numbers game eventually there’d be one that fw u
 
She’s not feeling u but there’s other fish in the sea just keep shooting your shot it’s a numbers game eventually there’d be one that fw u
I don't want fishes I want bitches ( it's true because it rhymes )
 
if ur shredded that’s an easy dub just post yourself shirtless on ig method
I am kinda shredded but I don't want to post my face all that much on IG. I don't want to pull materialistic and superficial foids.
 

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Average height, not exactly sure but I think I'm around 5'9

Look, I meant to rate you, but your main "falio" is your hairline, if you can get that straight and in check, or cover it, you will be fine.

Please find a different hairstyle as well, you need to train your neck, thicken, darken, and groom the eyebrows, find some different frames maybe if you do not want to do contacts, I personally do not think the metal frames you have on right now suit many people, hydrocortisone to shrink the nose some, vaseline for the lips, widen the jaw by training the masseters (it would also improve sharpness of jawline) and hop on a skincare routine, your skin looks clear but it could be better and have more of that "glow" effect.

Get back in the gym now or do calisthenics ASAP, it is how you are going to be able to stand out.

I doubt the reason you cannot get a SINGLE woman is solely due to your looks, since you are average height and look pretty average facially, work on your social skills, rotting on .com is not going to help that.

Possibly think about "nichemaxxing" to target a certain audience of women.

What is your race by the way? Are you mixed?
 
Just an hour ago I saw my crush was on the same bus as me, couldn’t talk to her and she didn’t notice me since we were at both ends of the bus. When it was my stop, I told her if she had an album to recommend to me since I recommended her one like 3-4 weeks ago. She told me one and I asked her if there was anyway I could contact her to tell her what I thought about it and she said « I’d rather not ». Would this have happened if I was HTN+ ?
Just stare at her softly from across the bus and don’t break eye contact. Do that for like 10 seconds of you two looking at each other. Then pretend to get a notification and check your phone and don’t look back. From your phone, glance over at her again and see if she’s making eye contact. And then look back at the phone. And then ignore her. She’ll approach you over time because you just confused her and made yourself a mystery. Make sure you do it with confidence tho. This has worked for me like 7 times
 
Just stare at her softly from across the bus and don’t break eye contact. Do that for like 10 seconds of you two looking at each other. Then pretend to get a notification and check your phone and don’t look back. From your phone, glance over at her again and see if she’s making eye contact. And then look back at the phone. And then ignore her. She’ll approach you over time because you just confused her and made yourself a mystery. Make sure you do it with confidence tho. This has worked for me like 7 times
Do not do ts💔
 

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@Blackpillirony Find different hobbies than just rotting on these forums or social media. Stop consuming are start creating, it will make you a more interesting person overall, and will be better for your mental health.

You like music a lot, so maybe pick up an instrument like a guitar and start practicing.
 

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Look, I meant to rate you, but your main "falio" is your hairline, if you can get that straight and in check, or cover it, you will be fine.

Please find a different hairstyle as well, you need to train your neck, thicken, darken, and groom the eyebrows, find some different frames maybe if you do not want to do contacts, I personally do not think the metal frames you have on right now suit many people, hydrocortisone to shrink the nose some, vaseline for the lips, widen the jaw by training the masseters (it would also improve sharpness of jawline) and hop on a skincare routine, your skin looks clear but it could be better and have more of that "glow" effect.

Get back in the gym now or do calisthenics ASAP, it is how you are going to be able to stand out.

I doubt the reason you cannot get a SINGLE woman is solely due to your looks, since you are average height and look pretty average facially, work on your social skills, rotting on .com is not going to help that.

Possibly think about "nichemaxxing" to target a certain audience of women.

What is your race by the way? Are you mixed?
Thanks for the compliment saying I'm pretty. I am an immigrant from France born from Moroccan parents. I am amazigh, which is a group of indigenous people of North Africa ( not arab ). I don't just self-pity, I go to the gym 3 times a week, I have a skincare routine, a hairline reparation routine, started doing neck curls for my jaw. It's hard to find a hairstyle that fits well my type of hair. I'll say my main focus on my looksmaxxing journey is my hairline and jaw definition. I look way better than I did 2 years ago when I first started. I may also have difficulties pulling because I am ND, which can make some people uncomfortable. The way I try to get a gf or at the very least a talking stage is to encounter a girl I find pretty/that I crush on, talk to her and try to find a common interest, try to get her IG and see how things go. Btw looking back at the photos I've sent on .com they seem to be far from being representative on how I actually look on the mirror. I blame lens distortion.
 

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@Blackpillirony Find different hobbies than just rotting on these forums or social media. Stop consuming are start creating, it will make you a more interesting person overall, and will be better for your mental health.

You like music a lot, so maybe pick up an instrument like a guitar and start practicing.
I play bass and I started practicing on guitar. I collect vinyls and generally people I talk with seem to be entertained. I appreciate the recommendations tho
 

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Thanks for the compliment saying I'm pretty. I am an immigrant from France born from Moroccan parents. I am amazigh, which is a group of indigenous people of North Africa ( not arab ). I don't just self-pity, I go to the gym 3 times a week, I have a skincare routine, a hairline reparation routine, started doing neck curls for my jaw. It's hard to find a hairstyle that fits well my type of hair. I'll say my main focus on my looksmaxxing journey is my hairline and jaw definition. I look way better than I did 2 years ago when I first started. I may also have difficulties pulling because I am ND, which can make some people uncomfortable. The way I try to get a gf or at the very least a talking stage is to encounter a girl I find pretty/that I crush on, talk to her and try to find a common interest, try to get her IG and see how things go. Btw looking back at the photos I've sent on .com they seem to be far from being representative on how I actually look on the mirror. I blame lens distortion.

I meant "pretty average" as in you are in the average range, but you have a lot of potential because it looks like you have not worked a lot on your face.

Hop on minoxidil and finasteride to be honest.
Go to turkey if you really have to straighten that hairline if you can afford it.

Also, do not ignore good style and the way you smell either.

Find different frames though as well.

I may also have difficulties pulling because I am ND

This is the thing, a lot of people say,"Oh it is all my looks" but never regard that they are lacking proper social skills, never ignore this. The blackpill "copes" by saying that social skills do not matter and if you have good looks it will solve all your problems, but it matters a lot. Good thing is, is that you can work on them if you are not hardwired.
 

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I meant "pretty average" as in you are in the average range, but you have a lot of potential because it looks like you have not worked a lot on your face.

Hop on minoxidil and finasteride to be honest.
Go to turkey if you really have to straighten that hairline if you can afford it.

Also, do not ignore good style and the way you smell either.

Find different frames though as well.



This is the thing, a lot of people say,"Oh it is all my looks" but never regard that they are lacking proper social skills, never ignore this. The blackpill "copes" by saying that social skills do not matter and if you have good looks it will solve all your problems, but it matters a lot. Good thing is, is that you can work on them if you are not hardwired.
I don't plan on going to Turkey despite the memes lol, in case you haven't seen my hairline reparation guide, I can now see the contours of what should be my normal hairline, all that is missing is some hair density at the bald spot I once had. My hairline holds back my looks a bit significantly but other than that Id say most of my other features are decent, if I had an accurate camera or if y'all rated me irl I probably will be mmtn-hmtn but that's just how I see myself in the mirror. For my glasses, I am not really the one choosing them but I'll find some frames that fit me better soon enough thanks for pointing it out. Although I'm ND, I have a pretty active social circle at my campus. Ofc not everything is about looks, only lobotomized retardcels will think that.
 

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I don't plan on going to Turkey despite the memes lol, in case you haven't seen my hairline reparation guide, I can now see the contours of what should be my normal hairline, all that is missing is some hair density at the bald spot I once had. My hairline holds back my looks a bit significantly but other than that Id say most of my other features are decent, if I had an accurate camera or if y'all rated me irl I probably will be mmtn-hmtn but that's just how I see myself in the mirror. For my glasses, I am not really the one choosing them but I'll find some frames that fit me better soon enough thanks for pointing it out. Although I'm ND, I have a pretty active social circle at my campus. Ofc not everything is about looks, only lobotomized retardcels will think that.

Well, people joke about it because it is genuinely cheaper to travel to Turkey and get a good hair transplant for a much cheaper price than the majority of other countries. Good for you for repairing it.

Also, yes, taking a picture close up with your phone is going to distort you and your ratios.

See what frames work with your face shape though.

How old are you by the way?
 

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I don't plan on going to Turkey despite the memes lol, in case you haven't seen my hairline reparation guide, I can now see the contours of what should be my normal hairline, all that is missing is some hair density at the bald spot I once had. My hairline holds back my looks a bit significantly but other than that Id say most of my other features are decent, if I had an accurate camera or if y'all rated me irl I probably will be mmtn-hmtn but that's just how I see myself in the mirror. For my glasses, I am not really the one choosing them but I'll find some frames that fit me better soon enough thanks for pointing it out. Although I'm ND, I have a pretty active social circle at my campus. Ofc not everything is about looks, only lobotomized retardcels will think that.

Also, look you signed up on September 1st and you already have 50 hours on this site, if I am doing my math correctly, that is about 8 hours a day, you need to greatly limit the time you spend on here, being on here for that excessive amount will do you no good, this is taking you away from actually doing productive things, things that can better you.
 

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Also, look you signed up on September 1st and you already have 50 hours on this site, if I am doing my math correctly, that is about 8 hours a day, you need to greatly limit the time you spend on here, being on here for that excessive amount will do you no good, this is taking you away from actually doing productive things, things that can better you.
True, yeah Ill stop being this chronically online and actually study or some.
 

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Well, people joke about it because it is genuinely cheaper to travel to Turkey and get a good hair transplant for a much cheaper price than the majority of other countries. Good for you for repairing it.

Also, yes, taking a picture close up with your phone is going to distort you and your ratios.

See what frames work with your face shape though.

How old are you by the way?
18 it's on my profile
 

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True, yeah Ill stop being this chronically online and actually study or some.

I do not mean just studying, you should do that too but spend more time with your in real life social network since you said you have that, replace the countless hours you spend here with practicing/improving your hobbies, etc.

18 it's on my profile

Are you in high school or college?
 

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I do not mean just studying, you should do that too but spend more time with your in real life social network since you said you have that, replace the countless hours you spend here with practicing/improving your hobbies, etc.



Are you in high school or college?
Cégep, it's something special in Québec. Call it pre-university if you want. Btw I'll have to sleep now, we can take this on pms. It was a pleasure to have a conversation with someone that genuinely wants to help me.
 
Just an hour ago I saw my crush was on the same bus as me, couldn’t talk to her and she didn’t notice me since we were at both ends of the bus. When it was my stop, I told her if she had an album to recommend to me since I recommended her one like 3-4 weeks ago. She told me one and I asked her if there was anyway I could contact her to tell her what I thought about it and she said « I’d rather not ». Would this have happened if I was HTN+ ?
not to be cynical but you prob just pushed it too far. Should've asked for the album dipped and then sat next to her like a few days later and talked abt it
 

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Cégep, it's something special in Québec. Call it pre-university if you want. Btw I'll have to sleep now, we can take this on pms. It was a pleasure to have a conversation with someone that genuinely wants to help me.

So, improve yourself in pre-university (socially and looks) so when you get to university you will be more confident and comfortable in your own skin. Also enjoy the time that you are in it.

Seneca said something along the lines of,"it is not that we have a short time to live, but rather we waste a lot of it." I think this applies to you right now.

It was a pleasure to have a conversation with someone that genuinely wants to help me.

No problem, I hope and am expecting to see you improve.

Alright, have a goodnight.
 
Just an hour ago I saw my crush was on the same bus as me, couldn’t talk to her and she didn’t notice me since we were at both ends of the bus. When it was my stop, I told her if she had an album to recommend to me since I recommended her one like 3-4 weeks ago. She told me one and I asked her if there was anyway I could contact her to tell her what I thought about it and she said « I’d rather not ». Would this have happened if I was HTN+ ?
Don't give up bro, it was just one woman. You can't be successful with 100% of women. You'll win some you'll lose some
 

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