Serious SA on men (serious replies only please)

[gooning2u67]

Hopefully this isn't TMI, but I came out to my parents yesterday about my sexual assault and they were really respectful about it and hugged me.I was sexually assaulted by a girl my age when I was 6 in elementary school. I won't go into specifics.No one believed me, not even my friends, because I was fat at the time and I didn't know what to do.In 2022 I realized it was sexual assault, and I still never told anyone about it until yesterday. I was wearing khakis and a red t-shirt and Vans at the time it happened.You guys don't have to take this thread seriously. I understand it might sound weird or cringe, but I never knew how to cope with it and I thought as a man I had to enjoy being assaulted by a girl my age.I coped by eating and eating and eating until I was 330 pounds at my heaviest. I lost 100 pounds during 2023-2024, but I still felt horrible deep down and looked at myself every day thinking I was a toy for pleasure.I don't know how to cope with it other than moving on and not letting it define me. I 100% understand if you don't believe me because in my area it's seen as a goal to be assaulted by girls, like an achievement.Today has been different. I treated myself well and cleaned my room and was productive. I actually held a conversation with a girl and talked to people more. My friends even supported me and told me their stories about it.I'd like to thank this forum for assisting me in my journey, even if it's just a little bit. I'm sorry if this sounds mega weird or cringe, but when you've bottled up emotions since 2014-2015, it's hard to stay sane.

 

[gooning2u67]

Dnr

 

[TonyDr]

Hopefully this isn't TMI, but I came out to my parents yesterday about my sexual assault and they were really respectful about it and hugged me.I was sexually assaulted by a girl my age when I was 6 in elementary school. I won't go into specifics.No one believed me, not even my friends, because I was fat at the time and I didn't know what to do.In 2022 I realized it was sexual assault, and I still never told anyone about it until yesterday. I was wearing khakis and a red t-shirt and Vans at the time it happened.You guys don't have to take this thread seriously. I understand it might sound weird or cringe, but I never knew how to cope with it and I thought as a man I had to enjoy being assaulted by a girl my age.I coped by eating and eating and eating until I was 330 pounds at my heaviest. I lost 100 pounds during 2023-2024, but I still felt horrible deep down and looked at myself every day thinking I was a toy for pleasure.I don't know how to cope with it other than moving on and not letting it define me. I 100% understand if you don't believe me because in my area it's seen as a goal to be assaulted by girls, like an achievement.Today has been different. I treated myself well and cleaned my room and was productive. I actually held a conversation with a girl and talked to people more. My friends even supported me and told me their stories about it.I'd like to thank this forum for assisting me in my journey, even if it's just a little bit. I'm sorry if this sounds mega weird or cringe, but when you've bottled up emotions since 2014-2015, it's hard to stay sane.

Sorry bud
I got also SA'd when i was 15yo by a girl who couldn't take a No as an answer

 

[cocteautwins]

glad you found support hope things get better from now on

 

[swanneo]

it seems like you are taking steps for healing, it's incredibly difficult with this kind of thing, but i'm glad people around you understood and supported you, and you were really brave for opening up! & u have the forum too ofc, don't worry things will look up in the future for sure

 

[mxri]

It’s not weird and it’s not cringe. Its a reality where underaged kids in particular are shitty learners of what is wrong and right and can very easily traumatise their peers in the process. Whats done is done, you are finally processing and growing from this which is a positive testament to your character instead of how most “men” would approach male SA topics

 

[Deleted Member 61421]

I’ve had a similar experience near this age though I wouldn’t call it assault myself, it was slightly flustering, it was just very 0-100 real quick and awkward