Discussion Shocks me how many people actually believe this

[mjölk]

I used to think women who tell themselves and others lies about their looks were just doing it because.

Turns out they actually have a goal in mind. Recently I left a comment on a post of an ugly girl claiming to be conventionally attractive saying:
confidence would be “maybe im not conventionally attractive, but ive got this and that quality and im comfy being imperfect” and so many people disagree.

Theyre telling me confidence is “im beautiful and abundant”. How can confidence be dependant on you constantly having to feed yourself lies to stay present? Confidence is being aware and comfortable with every human being having flaws and loving yourself for your personal favourite (real) attributes. Ofc not meaning you cant improve on your flaws, but to not be afraid to accept that you have them.

These people actually are telling themselves fake affirmations with the goal of being confident.

@arya @BigDihDiddy @PingPong @Volksstaffel

 

[scotfield]

I used to think women who tell themselves and others lies about their looks were just doing it because.

Turns out they actually have a goal in mind. Recently I left a comment on a post of an ugly girl claiming to be conventionally attractive saying:
confidence would be “maybe im not conventionally attractive, but ive got this and that quality and im comfy being imperfect” and so many people disagree.

Theyre telling me confidence is “im beautiful and abundant”. How can confidence be dependant on you constantly having to feed yourself lies to stay present? Confidence is being aware and comfortable with every human being having flaws and loving yourself for your personal favourite (real) attributes. Ofc not meaning you cant improve on your flaws, but to not be afraid to accept that you have them.

These people actually are telling themselves fake affirmations with the goal of being confident.

@arya @BigDihDiddy @PingPong @Volksstaffel

Hairycat

 

[screech]

I used to think women who tell themselves and others lies about their looks were just doing it because.

Turns out they actually have a goal in mind. Recently I left a comment on a post of an ugly girl claiming to be conventionally attractive saying:
confidence would be “maybe im not conventionally attractive, but ive got this and that quality and im comfy being imperfect” and so many people disagree.

Theyre telling me confidence is “im beautiful and abundant”. How can confidence be dependant on you constantly having to feed yourself lies to stay present? Confidence is being aware and comfortable with every human being having flaws and loving yourself for your personal favourite (real) attributes. Ofc not meaning you cant improve on your flaws, but to not be afraid to accept that you have them.

These people actually are telling themselves fake affirmations with the goal of being confident.

@arya @BigDihDiddy @PingPong @Volksstaffel

low-key would be better if they just said their ugly and don't care Abt it