Hypothesis Social Acceptance Is A Luxury Earned Through Blood, Sweat And Tears

[SevenColorCrystalBall]

The price one must pay for a group to accept them is learning to conform to whatever social standards they have at any and all costs along with being attuned and intelligent enough to recognize unspoken rules without ever being called for it in meaningful ways. No one owes you anything, but you also owe them nothing too and everyone implicitly knows this so they will evaluate if you're good enough to meet whatever standards have been set in place.

This also means that ever even suggesting you have any right to it is quite arrogant and its actually up to everyone else to decide if you are worth it, I myself will need to get better so I can conform.

 

[SevenColorCrystalBall]

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[Starlet]

good thread

 

[Aurelius74]

The price one must pay for a group to accept them is learning to conform to whatever social standards they have at any and all costs along with being attuned and intelligent enough to recognize unspoken rules without ever being called for it in meaningful ways. No one owes you anything, but you also owe them nothing too and everyone implicitly knows this so they will evaluate if you're good enough to meet whatever standards have been set in place.

This also means that ever even suggesting you have any right to it is quite arrogant and its actually up to everyone else to decide if you are worth it, I myself will need to get better so I can conform.

I would've agreed with it inna patriarchal era of world where men genuinely worked to climb the social ladder.

But today's time when two brothers can have same parents & same upbringing and 1 can be a 6'8 basketball player & other can be a 5'8 nobody than muh "just work ur way up" doesn't necessarily works.

It's just genetic Determinism, u have to be a 15 year old or a good lifer to believe otherwise.

 

[SevenColorCrystalBall]

I would've agreed with it inna patriarchal era of world where men genuinely worked to climb the social ladder.

But today's time when two brothers can have same parents & same upbringing and 1 can be a 6'8 basketball player & other can be a 5'8 nobody than muh "just work ur way up" doesn't necessarily works.

It's just genetic Determinism, u have to be a 15 year old or a good lifer to believe otherwise.

Thats what I meant, basically you're singled out by the human version natural selection unless you can somehow prove you're worthy and if you have bad enough genes you might not be able to