Socializing(irl) is overrated

[Alurmo]

genuinely

 

[wavyheadrei]

genuinely

Explain

 

[Almighty Sigma Wolf]

very

 

[wavyheadrei]

very

Explain

 

[Almighty Sigma Wolf]

Explain

well it's just such a difficult task, with little to no real benefit. I'm sure you have trouble relating

 

[Alurmo]

Explain

talking with sheeple is overrated
u should only connect with like-minded people, anything with people who dont align with ur beliefs, etc. is pointless

i would rather be isolated and wait until i meet someone who thinks more or less like me then feel forced to socialize with people who think and act the same as eacother

 

[Alurmo]

well it's just such a difficult task, with little to no real benefit. I'm sure you have trouble relating

this reason also works
especially if ur non NT

 

[wavyheadrei]

well it's just such a difficult task, with little to no real benefit. I'm sure you have trouble relating

Trouble relating to what exactly?Difficulty, or lack of benefit? If it's so difficult, there must be a significant payoff you're missing, what exactly makes it such a time sink?

 

[wavyheadrei]

talking with sheeple is overrated
u should only connect with like-minded people, anything with people who dont align with ur beliefs, etc. is pointless

i would rather be isolated and wait until i meet someone who thinks more or less like me then feel forced to socialize with people who think and act the same as eacother

If you only talk to people who think exactly like you, how do you ever learn anything new or challenge your own beliefs? Isolation just creates an echo chamber where you never have to justify your own position

Are you looking to have your beliefs affirmed, or do you want to actually discuss and understand things?

 

[idioteque]

genuinely

you just typing shit

 

[Alurmo]

you just typing shit

 

[wavyheadrei]

you just typing shit

True....

 

[idioteque]

you wanna give me a kiss or something? my mouth is currently preoccupied

 

[wavyheadrei]

you wanna give me a kiss or something? my mouth is currently preoccupied

 

[Almighty Sigma Wolf]

Trouble relating to what exactly?Difficulty, or lack of benefit? If it's so difficult, there must be a significant payoff you're missing, what exactly makes it such a time sink?

well maybe i just get all nervous talking to people irl okay my stomach starts to feel all funny and my mouth goes dry and its just bad

 

[Almighty Sigma Wolf]

If you only talk to people who think exactly like you, how do you ever learn anything new or challenge your own beliefs? Isolation just creates an echo chamber where you never have to justify your own position

Are you looking to have your beliefs affirmed, or do you want to actually discuss and understand things?

silly mindset, i hold all of my beliefs as absolutes to my being. No need to justify a position you wholeheartedly believe is superior

 

[Alurmo]

you wanna give me a kiss or something? my mouth is currently preoccupied

state of .com

 

[wavyheadrei]

well maybe i just get all nervous talking to people irl okay my stomach starts to feel all funny and my mouth goes dry and its just badView attachment 188938

Ah, okay That's a completely different kind of "difficult task"

I get that social anxiety is a real challenge, it absolutely drains your energy but was that the 'difficult task' with 'little to no real benefit' that we were originally discussing? If not, what was the thing you found so difficult?

 

[idioteque]

state of .com

boyyyyyy this place has been dead since before i joined

 

[Almighty Sigma Wolf]

Ah, okay That's a completely different kind of "difficult task"

I get that social anxiety is a real challenge, it absolutely drains your energy but was that the 'difficult task' with 'little to no real benefit' that we were originally discussing? If not, what was the thing you found so difficult?

talking to people itself is the difficult task bro. And yes i believe it does have little to no benefit as personally I see no negative effects of isolation.

 

[wavyheadrei]

silly mindset, i hold all of my beliefs as absolutes to my being. No need to justify a position you wholeheartedly believe is superior

If a person truly holds a superior truth, the goal shouldn't be isolation, but sharing it to genuinely elevate others

Holding a belief as an absolute is fine, but it becomes meaningless if you don't engage with the world to put that belief into practical action and show its benefit

Isn't the ultimate goal to improve things, not just to feel superior in silence?

 

[Almighty Sigma Wolf]

If a person truly holds a superior truth, the goal shouldn't be isolation, but sharing it to genuinely elevate others

Holding a belief as an absolute is fine, but it becomes meaningless if you don't engage with the world to put that belief into practical action and show its benefit

Isn't the ultimate goal to improve things, not just to feel superior in silence?

well someones feeling himself at the moment. Did you just meditate or smth

 

[wavyheadrei]

well someones feeling himself at the moment. Did you just meditate or smth

Im talking about the value of your ideas, not my feelings, if a belief is truly superior, its value lies in the positive change it brings about in the real world

Why are you focusing on the confidence of the person holding the idea, instead of arguing for the benefit of the idea itself?

 

[Almighty Sigma Wolf]

Im talking about the value of your ideas, not my feelings, if a belief is truly superior, its value lies in the positive change it brings about in the real world

Why are you focusing on the confidence of the person holding the idea, instead of arguing for the benefit of the idea itself?

under the assumption i care about any positive change it brings to anyone other than myself. Now can you stop acting like you're prince siddhartha, its scary

 

[A1AD3H]

genuinely

Ur right just socialize online you can find people with exactly the same interest

 

[Schizotypalcel]

Sometimes

 

[wavyheadrei]

under the assumption i care about any positive change it brings to anyone other than myself. Now can you stop acting like you're prince siddhartha, its scary

If your only goal is to feel superior in your own mind, that's fine, but it seems like a very small purpose for an absolute truth

What is the ultimate point of holding a superior belief if it doesn't lead to anything, even for yourself?

And fym I'm "acting" like "prince siddhartha", I'm acting like @apatheia

 

[Almighty Sigma Wolf]

If your only goal is to feel superior in your own mind, that's fine, but it seems like a very small purpose for an absolute truth

What is the ultimate point of holding a superior belief if it doesn't lead to anything, even for yourself?

And fym I'm "acting" like "prince siddhartha", I'm acting like @apatheia

You're ruining my night rn, you better apologize bro

 

[wavyheadrei]

You're ruining my night rn, you better apologize bro

My bad bhai

 

[giga.mia]

well it's just such a difficult task, with little to no real benefit. I'm sure you have trouble relating

Small talk is such a chore

 

[apatheia]

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If you only talk to people who think exactly like you, how do you ever learn anything new or challenge your own beliefs? Isolation just creates an echo chamber where you never have to justify your own position

Are you looking to have your beliefs affirmed, or do you want to actually discuss and understand things?

Great perspective, @desk.appeal.

If your only goal is to feel superior in your own mind, that's fine, but it seems like a very small purpose for an absolute truth

What is the ultimate point of holding a superior belief if it doesn't lead to anything, even for yourself?

And fym I'm "acting" like "prince siddhartha", I'm acting like @apatheia

You aren't acting like me at all, this is all you, desk.

 

[wavyheadrei]

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Great perspective, @desk.appeal.

Yeah, peace forever

You aren't acting like me at all, this is all you, desk.

I'm acting like you, in the end you taught me Chad