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Sonder is a term for the average

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I agree why be average at something when you can do research and understand how to take it to the next level even if it considered “too much” by many
 
I agree why be average at something when you can do research and understand how to take it to the next level even if it considered “too much” by many
This wasn’t what the post was insinuating
 
water this type of post is what girls who say "i had this thought at 9" are referring to
 
Once you’re past a specific threshold of intelligence, “sonder” simply isn’t applicable to you
Especially if you’re a high-functioning neurodivergent
Meds
 
Sonder? Big Word
 
It’s the profound realization that every random passerby has a life just as complex and vivid as yours
Basically what youre saying is that highly intelligent and specially neurodivergent people dont experience that type of realization?
 
Yeah I don’t understand what the fuck you’re talking about
You just said some bullshit talking about “oh yeah I agree”
I read the post wrong
Then I said “fuck you” as a joke bc you made me realize I read the post wrong
Mb
 
Wait I mean yes
I mean they don’t have that realization
Yeah i guessed what you meant, i gotta say most of the times it doesnt pass by my mind at all, individualism at its purest form yk. But sometimes when i interact with people on a deeper level, specially emotionally, i always get this feeling and realization that they have their own completely different life and they have their own personal struggles, you could say thats empathy, but it also suits sonder from what i just comprehended
 
Yeah i guessed what you meant, i gotta say most of the times it doesnt pass by my mind at all, individualism at its purest form yk.
Individualism is rare to find
Everybody is a mindless drone the way I see it
But sometimes when i interact with people on a deeper level, specially emotionally, i always get this feeling and realization that they have their own completely different life and they have their own personal struggles, you could say thats empathy, but it also suits sonder from what i just comprehended
I only feel this with people who already have high metacognition
 
Individualism is rare to find
Everybody is a mindless drone the way I see it
Could agree with you
I only feel this with people who already have high metacognition
Why does a higher metacognition inspire you to get such realization? They can maybe talk you about their reality and how deep is it due to their self-awareness im guessing?
 
Could agree with you
It’s true
Why does a higher metacognition inspire you to get such realization? They can maybe talk you about their reality and how deep is it due to their self-awareness im guessing?
Yes
If you can reflect on yourself you can reflect on how the world has affected you objectively
 
Yes
If you can reflect on yourself you can reflect on how the world has affected you objectively
Deep icl, i think i can get such feeling with both people low and high metacognition, altough a high one probably induces it and makes it quite easier
 
Low metacognition n*****s = mindless drones
I just figure without them even telling me that they also have their own problems, i think it all ends up depending on your eq and the inherent capacity of reading social cues, also it could be induced by the type of environment you had and were exposed to in your chilhood, if it made you more prone to read those social cues it might be easier for you to read them in the future
 
I just figure without them even telling me that they also have their own problems,
Yeah but are their problems just bullshit or more complex
I think it all ends up depending on your eq and the inherent capacity of reading social cues, also it could be induced by the type of enviroment you had and were exposed to in your chilhood,
To understand retards?
if it made you more prone to read those social cues it might be easier for you to read them in the future
Water
 
Yeah but are their problems just bullshit or more complex
You will never know if they have such low metacognition, but life itself is complex regardless of who you want to look at
To understand retards?
I mean the fact that they have low metacognition does not automatically signal theyre low iq, tho many times they overlapse but a person with a very high iq may have a low metacognition, he may give you more data for you to reflect on, but self-reflection itself is a completely different skill
Not thirsty G but thanks
 
You will never know if they have such low metacognition, but life itself is complex regardless of who you want to look at
It doesn’t matter whether they think theirs is complex or not
Complexity is relative
If you blindfold a n***a benching 405 for his 1RM and give him 225 he’ll think it was light as shit even if 225 is the max of 0.075% of the world’s population
I mean the fact that they have low metacognition does not automatically signal theyre low iq, tho many times they overlapse but a person with a very high iq may have a low metacognition, he may give you more data for you to reflect on, but self-reflection itself is a completely different skill
They are definitely correlated and that’s what I meant but yeah
Not thirsty G but thanks
Drink my semen
 
It doesn’t matter whether they think theirs is complex or not
Complexity is relative
If you blindfold a n***a benching 405 for his 1RM and give him 225 he’ll think it was light as shit even if 225 is the max of 0.075% of the world’s population
Yeah, i see your point but if we were to put ourselves on that scenario almost all people like you and us that live on first world countries arent even living a 1% of what exploited and malnourished vietnamese 5yo children are living every single day, like you said its relative, but the radicality of a minority of people (.075% in your example), shouldnt make us deny acknowledging others peoples problems even if its not as hard as others people lives.
They are definitely correlated and that’s what I meant but yeah
Yep, they are
Drink my semen
When and where
 
Yeah, i see your point but if we were to put ourselves on that scenario almost all people like you and us that live on first world countries arent even living a 1% of what exploited and malnourished vietnamese 5yo children are living every single day, like you said its relative, but the radicality of a minority of people (.075% in your example), shouldnt make us deny acknowledging others peoples problems even if its not as hard as others people lives.
You’re confusing something
Complexity ≠ Difficulty
Yep, they are
Yeah
When and where
Now
 
You’re confusing something
Complexity ≠ Difficulty
I think they correlate in some way, but yeah since you said bullshit problems before i kinda associated it with difficulty

guirao funny.webp
 

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