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I’m coming up with a theory rn
One thing I’ve noticed about guys and girls when it comes down to status is that men would be more direct in challenging another, let’s say in popularity or in terms of looks, through direct competition. You’re more likely to see two n*****s openly do shit to tear the other down. It’s a lot more simple, and a lot more apparent.
Whereas as with girls, that shit is mostly lowkey. The ones that aren’t super high in the social hierarchy will actively avoid direct conflict with the other, not really saying what’s on their mind and disguising their own status games through compliments they don’t mean. What I mean by this is telling a fat girl she’s perfect as she is- ts a compliment but a subtle way to keep the fat girl where she is and for the other one to keep her position above her. Another one would be saying girl 1 who’s slightly lower in the hierarchy telling girl 2 who clearly isn’t a “10” that she’s a “10” which in turn makes girl 1 feel like she’s higher up than she really is- since using that logic it would make her almost a “10”. It’s a status strategy.
I’ve got a lot more that I’m trying to put in to words but tell me what you guys think of this so far
One thing I’ve noticed about guys and girls when it comes down to status is that men would be more direct in challenging another, let’s say in popularity or in terms of looks, through direct competition. You’re more likely to see two n*****s openly do shit to tear the other down. It’s a lot more simple, and a lot more apparent.
Whereas as with girls, that shit is mostly lowkey. The ones that aren’t super high in the social hierarchy will actively avoid direct conflict with the other, not really saying what’s on their mind and disguising their own status games through compliments they don’t mean. What I mean by this is telling a fat girl she’s perfect as she is- ts a compliment but a subtle way to keep the fat girl where she is and for the other one to keep her position above her. Another one would be saying girl 1 who’s slightly lower in the hierarchy telling girl 2 who clearly isn’t a “10” that she’s a “10” which in turn makes girl 1 feel like she’s higher up than she really is- since using that logic it would make her almost a “10”. It’s a status strategy.
I’ve got a lot more that I’m trying to put in to words but tell me what you guys think of this so far