struggle with relationships and the overall dynamic

[Kamo]

I have been in a few relationships in the last few years, recently I got into a new one, my issue is they expect so much from me and they have extreme attention seeking needs, I wanna focus on myself and work on myself but they get pissy when I cant call 24/7 or always message, I explained to them why but still to no avail they don't understand, what to do next?

 

[Kamo]

@foidletlexi hello

 

[Stardust_]

I have been in a few relationships in the last few years, recently I got into a new one, my issue is they expect so much from me and they have extreme attention seeking needs, I wanna focus on myself and work on myself but they get pissy when I cant call 24/7 or always message, I explained to them why but still to no avail they don't understand, what to do next?

What do they say to you when you want space from everything?

 

[fashist]

@foidletlexi hello

bruh idk

 

[Kamo]

What do they say to you when you want space from everything?

"I just want you to be constantly clingy"--"why do you treat me like a friend?"--"always busy your acting suspicious"

 

[Stardust_]

"I just want you to be constantly clingy"--"why do you treat me like a friend?"--"always busy your acting suspicious"

But if you explained the reason, they should be more understanding towards you because some people need time to process things

 

[Kamo]

But if you explained the reason, they should be more understanding towards you because some people need time to process things

I try explaining but they over react like crazy, like I recently got messaged from them "I miss you" and she spoke with me ten minutes ago

 

[wifey]

I have been in a few relationships in the last few years, recently I got into a new one, my issue is they expect so much from me and they have extreme attention seeking needs, I wanna focus on myself and work on myself but they get pissy when I cant call 24/7 or always message, I explained to them why but still to no avail they don't understand, what to do next?

I think it’s because in this generation having no personal space and being constantly together is normalized and considered as a proof of love

 

[Kamo]

I think it’s because in this generation having no personal space and being constantly together is normalized and considered as a proof of love

Right spot on, I feel the constant 24/7 need for reassurance shouldn't be what brings relationships down, yet it usually is

 

[Genetics]

Perhaps don't indulge in any relationships until you find a person that you're compatible with.

 

[wifey]

Perhaps don't indulge in any relationships until you find a person that you're compatible with.

this is honestly crucial

 

[Kamo]

I tried expressing how im quite busy due to the start of college and everything but they seem to think its excuses, and even when they are out with friends or doing something they always feel the need to call me, if Im not responsive enough they begin to act really messed up

 

[Nbernical]

I have been in a few relationships in the last few years, recently I got into a new one, my issue is they expect so much from me and they have extreme attention seeking needs, I wanna focus on myself and work on myself but they get pissy when I cant call 24/7 or always message, I explained to them why but still to no avail they don't understand, what to do next?

gtfo sexhaver

 

[Kamo]

gtfo sexhaver

 

[Nbernical]

so how was the puh?

 

[Kamo]

so how was the puh?

Idk never had intercourse with her, not interested in having intercourse either

 

[Nbernical]

Idk never had intercourse with her, not interested in having intercourse either

low t

 

[Kamo]

low t

Idk I just dont wanna sleep around, not good for the soul and mind, also women are humans too that have feelings and intercourse is a deep thing

 

[wildfrost11]

find someone else