Stuff i have realised

[Ben07]

Im bettering myself day-by-day and for every month that goes by i look slightly better then the last. But it really does not matter. I am to introverted to talk to girls, and I dont feel any better when talking to girls for that matter. For atleast 2 years now I have just existed kind off. And tbh i dont mind. I enjoy being alone and just doing my own thing yk, I enjoy to just go to the gym being all quiet and just work work work. I could not imagine myself doing anything else. Im born to just be a background character and I dont mind in the slightest. If I had the option to be the "main character" i would prob not take it.

Sorry for the yapsesh but was wondering if any of you feel the same?

 

[rand anon]

Well yeah, the difference being that I DO mind it though, I wish I could be NT so badly

 

[Ben07]

Well yeah, the difference being that I DO mind it though, I wish I could be NT so badly

Ye most people feel that way i belive. Personally I just feel comfort in being alone. When I come to close 2 ppl I just push them away anyways.

Just this month I booked tickets to see a concert alone, alone time rly is the best imo but I can def understand why others dont feel the same since humans are made to be in groups

 

[fulh]

Bro ofc you are a background character if you do nothing but gym.
Go get drunk make friends, get hobbys.
For being more social in school and shit just microdose shrooms and if that doesn't work take Phenibut.
Stop rotting and wasting your life

 

[pompompurino]

i hope to not care as much one day about being a background character like you, i crave validation and want more. must be nice to feel this way.

 

[Ben07]

Bro ofc you are a background character if you do nothing but gym.
Go get drunk make friends, get hobbys.
For being more social in school and shit just microdose shrooms and if that doesn't work take Phenibut.
Stop rotting and wasting your life

I dont belive u read my thread. The point was that I dont mind being the background character at all, I prefer being the background character

 

[Ben07]

i hope to not care as much one day about being a background character like you, i crave validation and want more. must be nice to feel this way.

Thats just in female nature tbh. Females need validation more then men

 

[fulh]

I dont belive u read my thread. The point was that I dont mind being the background character at all, I prefer being the background character

Does the idea of wasting your life's potential not upset you?

 

[pompompurino]

Thats just in female nature tbh. Females need validation more then men

yeah true kinda, but it’s definitely a choice to be this way so i will change my ways and be happy with simply myself and improvement.

 

[Ben07]

Does the idea of wasting your life's potential not upset you?

What exact waste do you mean? I dont just gym if thats what ur talking about. I do maths, sports, read (alot) and study. If you say this is "wasting" I dont agree with you. My ideal life isnt fucking women all day and partying. I like to improve and I like to do it alone. I have no need for people except for my family and God.

 

[fulh]

What exact waste do you mean? I dont just gym if thats what ur talking about. I do maths, sports, read (alot) and study. If you say this is "wasting" I dont agree with you. My ideal life isnt fucking women all day and partying. I like to improve and I like to do it alone. I have no need for people except for my family and God.

If your ideal life is "just kind of existing" great man, but honestly seems like an insane cope especially since you have posted it here to validate your ego-protecting state.

 

[Incognito]

Im bettering myself day-by-day and for every month that goes by i look slightly better then the last. But it really does not matter. I am to introverted to talk to girls, and I dont feel any better when talking to girls for that matter. For atleast 2 years now I have just existed kind off. And tbh i dont mind. I enjoy being alone and just doing my own thing yk, I enjoy to just go to the gym being all quiet and just work work work. I could not imagine myself doing anything else. Im born to just be a background character and I dont mind in the slightest. If I had the option to be the "main character" i would prob not take it.

Sorry for the yapsesh but was wondering if any of you feel the same?

Maturing is realising that the real background characters are the ones you think are the main. They work themselves to death, waiting for the weekends to blackout on booze or mess around like animals. They are the sheep, the ones who move like a collective. You are the one who stands out, the one who goes against the flow, so you are the main character, and they are the background characters.

 

[rand anon]

When I come to close 2 ppl I just push them away anyways.

I tend to do that too but it’s cause it’s too exhausting to mask all the time

 

[Ben07]

If your ideal life is "just kind of existing" great man, but honestly seems like an insane cope especially since you have posted it here to validate your ego-protecting state.

So partying all day and just fucking is better? I dont agree at all. They will most likely die of overdose or do nothing in life. I Just strive to be the version of me i want to be and I prefer doint it alone. Whats ur ideal life? And what ego exactly? U might acually be the first person that I put on ignore. Talk like a normal person i have not dissrespected or done anything to you except for saying what I think my ideal life is. I got no ego

 

[Slicer]

I'm low-key the same. I really have never had any extreme desire for female attention or attention from anyone for that matter. Doing my own thing is just better sometimes

 

[fulh]

So partying all day and just fucking is better? I dont agree at all. They will most likely die of overdose or do nothing in life. I Just strive to be the version of me i want to be and I prefer doint it alone. Whats ur ideal life? And what ego exactly? U might acually be the first person that I put on ignore. Talk like a normal person i have not dissrespected or done anything to you except for saying what I think my ideal life is. I got no ego

If you have no ego how come you get offended when someone opposes your worldview.
Brutal

 

[fulh]

 

[pompompurino]

this is the goal

 

[Ben07]

If you have no ego how come you get offended when someone opposes your worldview.
Brutal

Ofc every human being got ego i just worded it incorrectly. My point was why r u trying to shame me for my ideal? And whats so "ego" about my post exactly. I would like to hear your ideal life then. Let me guess, fucking foids? Partying? Drugs?

 

[fulh]

Ofc every human being got ego i just worded it incorrectly. My point was why r u trying to shame me for my ideal? And whats so "ego" about my post exactly. I would like to hear your ideal life then. Let me guess, fucking foids? Partying? Drugs?

Because your ideals are a facade you have created for yourself to cope with your inability to be socially outgoing.
You are too deep in the hustler, winter arc, read books, do combat sports, be religious, no women echochamber.
You probably are still young tho so Gl

 

[Ben07]

Because your ideals are a facade you have created for yourself to cope with your inability to be socially outgoing.
You are too deep in the hustler, winter arc, read books, do combat sports, be religious, no women echochamber.
You probably are still young tho so Gl

Winter arc thing is cringe. I red and do sports as a hobby not to seem better then others. You just dont get it because its 2 far from what u would consider anything good or ideal for that matter

 

[fulh]

Winter arc thing is cringe. I red and do sports as a hobby not to seem better then others. You just dont get it because its 2 far from what u would consider anything good or ideal for that matter

Ive lived a similar life to this due to going to a new school and being ass socially. But luckily I realized I was coping hard and missing out on life so I went and fixed that shit.
There is more to Life than this trust

 

[Whitepill]

people dont care about improvement

 

[Whitepill]

people dont care about improvement

they want u to be the best result at all times, this is a sad reality

 

[Whitepill]

they want u to be the best result at all times, this is a sad reality

even people who care about u dont want u to necessarily "improve"