such a hell i live in

[swt]

"out of 10 babies, on average about 2 will be neurodivergent"

i had a 80% chance to be normal , im by definition unlucky


im not actually diagnosed but its so clear, it couldnt be any more clear, genuinely

 

[swt]

ggs

 

[apatheia]

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ggs

How bad is it?

 

[Nenestar]

You're NT, stop coping, idiot.

 

[apatheia]

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You're NT, stop coping, idiot.

How do you know this? I'm curious.

 

[Nenestar]

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How do you know this? I'm curious.

I don't, just a guess

 

[Cuckㅤ]

JFL

 

[apatheia]

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JFL

Flex how you ND "mog" them.

 

[swt]

You're NT, stop coping, idiot.

dude no its so bad

how am i coping and how am i nt

 

[Nenestar]

She might be ND tbh. I read a thread today with a quote "The number of neurotypical people is close to ZERO" seems valid.

 

[Nenestar]

dude no its so bad

how am i coping and how am i nt

What is so bad?

 

[jkcwakcjw]

dude no its so bad

how am i coping and how am i nt

i have mental too but it depends on how bad it is

 

[swt]

What is so bad?

im socially retarded, i overthink everything i do, every movement i make so i walk stiff because of it, then when im actually talking to people i dont know what facial expressions to make because i genuinely feel so empty and theres not many emotions going on for me to actually form a real facial expression, and then the eye contact, i literally look anywhere BUT the person talking to me because it feels like torture

not to mention my overall lifestyle , ideas and beliefs are different from the norm, my though process is highkey niche

 

[swt]

She might be ND tbh. I read a thread today with a quote "The number of neurotypical people is close to ZERO" seems valid.

wym

 

[jkcwakcjw]

im socially retarded, i overthink everything i do, every movement i make so i walk stiff because of it, then when im actually talking to people i dont know what facial expressions to make because i genuinely feel so empty and theres not many emotions going on for me to actually form a real facial expression, and then the eye contact, i literally look anywhere BUT the person talking to me because it feels like torture

not to mention my overall lifestyle , ideas and beliefs are different from the norm, my though process is highkey niche

what i do to stop overthink is i dont wear airpods or headphones bc i play the songs in my head and i hum the tune
or i will intentionally force myself to do something like consciously breathe so i can get out of my head

 

[apatheia]

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im socially retarded, i overthink everything i do, every movement i make so i walk stiff because of it, then when im actually talking to people i dont know what facial expressions to make because i genuinely feel so empty and theres not many emotions going on for me to actually form a real facial expression, and then the eye contact, i literally look anywhere BUT the person talking to me because it feels like torture

not to mention my overall lifestyle , ideas and beliefs are different from the norm, my though process is highkey niche

Get diagnosed, don't self diagnose, you just sound socially awkward to be honest, which could be "nd" but you need to get diagnosed.

 

[Nenestar]

wym

Nothing, just dogshit thread I sadly read.

 

[apatheia]

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I spelt diagnosed wrong ignore that.

 

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Get diagonised, don't self diagnose, you just sound socially awkward to be honest, which could be "nd" but you need to get diagonised.

what are traits i can look for so i can have an idea of whether im nd

 

[Deleted Member 74478]

"out of 10 babies, on average about 2 will be neurodivergent"

i had a 80% chance to be normal , im by definition unlucky


im not actually diagnosed but its so clear, it couldnt be any more clear, genuinely

You have a gf so it’s fine and your like mtn not a bad fate

 

[apatheia]

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what are traits i can look for so i can have an idea of whether im nd

I don't know but don't self diagnose.

 

[Cuckㅤ]

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Flex how you ND "mog" them.

A lot of ND fags struggles get exaggerated into “my life is so awful” stories and or narratives. Often that feeling comes from cognitive dissonance, being overloaded by constant self awareness bullshit, real or imagined. example: “Everything is so hard because I procrastinate.” Okay, but then do it instead of circling the same thought. The cycle feeds itself.

Selfishness = cognitive dissonance.
Doing something about it = the fix to cognitive dissonance.

 

[apatheia]

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You have a gf so it’s fine and your like mtn not a bad fate

What is he complaining about then.

 

[Deleted Member 74478]

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What is he complaining about then.

Nd still applies sadly

 

[apatheia]

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A lot of ND fags struggles get exaggerated into “my life is so awful” stories and or narratives. Often that feeling comes from cognitive dissonance, being overloaded by constant self awareness bullshit, real or imagined. example: “Everything is so hard because I procrastinate.” Okay, but then do it instead of circling the same thought. The cycle feeds itself.

Selfishness = cognitive dissonance.
Doing something about it = the fix to cognitive dissonance.

Wow, a rare well thought out take.

But, let me confirm that I interpreted this correctly: are you saying these "ND" people just make it out to be worse than it actually is because they do not take accountability and use that "ND" label as a crutch?

 

[Cuckㅤ]

But, let me confirm that I interpreted this correctly: are you saying these "ND" people just make it out to be worse than it actually is because they do not take accountability and use that "ND" label as a crutch?

correct

 

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correct

Alright, so I do not think I am "nd" myself, although I never got diagnosed so I cannot know for sure, but what is the extent that the majority of nd's can "blame" their shortcomings on their neurodivergency? Such as their life sucking. (Actual neurodivergent people, not the ones faking it.)

Of course it is a spectrum, but how about maybe for high-functioning autists and people with ADHD since that is probably the most common forms of neurodivergency, and probably the most common in these forums?

Because statistically, I think high functioning autists have a harder time finding jobs, connecting, etc. correct me if I am wrong.

Or is this still too broad to say for sure?

 

[Cuckㅤ]

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Alright, so I do not think I am "nd" myself, although I never got diagnosed so I cannot know for sure, but what is the extent that the majority of nd's can "blame" their shortcomings on their neurodivergency? Such as their life sucking. (Actual neurodivergent people, not the ones faking it.)

Of course it is a spectrum, but how about maybe for high-functioning autists and people with ADHD since that is probably the most common forms of neurodivergency, and probably the most common in these forums?

Because statistically, I think high functioning autists have a harder time finding jobs, connecting, etc. correct me if I am wrong.

Or is this still too broad to say for sure?

I'm replying now since you were banned when i was going to. #BrokeForumPhilospher, anyways.

It's fair to say being ND can make life harder, especially with autism and adhd, jobs, socializing, basic functioning, all that fuckery. But it's not some shit as easy to say as "life sucks", that card is ridiculous to pull. Some stuff is neurodivergence, some is life being fucking life yk? Some is just bad luck and some is the vibe you maintain and if it's shit you will likely blame being ND instead of yourself.

TLDR: it's too broad, ND isn't a switch it's more chaotic. Some autists/ADHD fags are thriving, some are on fire, some are thriving on fire etc.

 

[sams872]

im socially retarded, i overthink everything i do, every movement i make so i walk stiff because of it, then when im actually talking to people i dont know what facial expressions to make because i genuinely feel so empty and theres not many emotions going on for me to actually form a real facial expression, and then the eye contact, i literally look anywhere BUT the person talking to me because it feels like torture

not to mention my overall lifestyle , ideas and beliefs are different from the norm, my though process is highkey niche

Fuck I acc relate to this so much

 

[dipenhydramine]

im socially retarded, i overthink everything i do, every movement i make so i walk stiff because of it, then when im actually talking to people i dont know what facial expressions to make because i genuinely feel so empty and theres not many emotions going on for me to actually form a real facial expression, and then the eye contact, i literally look anywhere BUT the person talking to me because it feels like torture

not to mention my overall lifestyle , ideas and beliefs are different from the norm, my though process is highkey niche

thats js high self awareness

be grateful you dont suffer from sever overstimulation and all the other bullshit wnd move on with your day