Talked to my ex tonight... might get back with her eventually

[Deleted Member 136549]

Shiiiiii... this went too well. Im scared

 

[Deleted Member 136549]

Basically we talked for a while and honestly it went way better than I expected. It wasn't really tense or awkward. We were joking around like we normally do and the vibe was still there. We talked about what we've both been doing, whether either of us had met someone else, and eventually I brought up the whole situation between us. I told her I stopped chasing her because I realized it didn't make much sense when we weren't even talking anymore, but I also told her I hadn't removed her because I don't want to make a permanent decision while I'm still unsure about how we'd actually be together in person again. She understood that and basically said she feels the same way about wanting things to be clear, but that she still thinks it's better to judge whether we'd work when I'm actually back to where we lived (we did LDR for several months/that shit dont work). She even said the vibe between us has always been there and that the fights are really what made things difficult. So nothing was decided, but it didn't feel like she was closing the door either. We were both pretty comfortable, joked around, she asked about the girls I'd talked to, said she it was impossible for her to be friends, and we ended the conversation normally. Basically we're still in that "we'll see what happens when I'm back to her"

I even got a pic

 

[euphoric]

Basically we talked for a while and honestly it went way better than I expected. It wasn't really tense or awkward. We were joking around like we normally do and the vibe was still there. We talked about what we've both been doing, whether either of us had met someone else, and eventually I brought up the whole situation between us. I told her I stopped chasing her because I realized it didn't make much sense when we weren't even talking anymore, but I also told her I hadn't removed her because I don't want to make a permanent decision while I'm still unsure about how we'd actually be together in person. She understood that and basically said she feels the same way about wanting things to be clear, but that she still thinks it's better to judge whether we'd work when I'm actually back to where we lived (we did LDR for several months/that shit dont work). She even said the vibe between us has always been there and that the fights are really what made things difficult. So nothing was decided, but it didn't feel like she was closing the door either. We were both pretty comfortable, joked around, she asked about the girls I'd talked to, said she it was impossible for her to be friends, and we ended the conversation normally. Basically we're still in that "we'll see what happens when I'm back to her"

I even got a pic

make a tldr i cant be bothered to read all that

 

[Deleted Member 136549]

make a tldr i cant be bothered to read all that

make a tldr i cant be bothered to read all that

We talked and the vibe was actually really good. She still thinks we have chemistry and basically agrees that we should see how things feel in person again when I’m back (i had to move away during the second year of our relationship). Nothing is guaranteed to work again, but we didn’t close the door either, basically. I stopped chasing her (i did chsed her a bit even tho i was the dumper), she seemed more relaxed, we joked around, talked about other people, she said no friends cause she finds me hot, and overall it felt way better than our previous conversations. We stopped talking for months. I got a pic if you see what i mean

Take into account this shit was over 100% and burried before all this