Talking to family is excruciating

[Newday]

shut the fuck up man

 

[Deleted Member 102155]

Is it your mom again

 

[Deleted Member 102155]

Big bull with mommy issues ^^^

 

[Newday]

Is it your mom again

not that woman, please. It’s everyone especially that woman christ above

 

[Monsieur Meow]

harm them

 

[Newday]

harm them

I’m male

 

[Balian]

Be respectful to your family kid

 

[snoblomov]

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not that woman, please. It’s everyone especially that woman christ above

is she hot tho?

 

[Monsieur Meow]

I’m male

why does that matter

 

[Newday]

Be respectful to your family kid

Shut the fuck up

 

[Balian]

Shut the fuck up

they should've done a better job with your manners

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

shut the fuck up man

this is exactly how i feel about my mum half the time
shes always got sum bullshit to rant about it makes me want to hold an open flame to my eyes

 

[Newday]

they should've done a better job with your manners

Am I a dog?

 

[Newday]

this is exactly how i feel about my mum half the time
shes always got sum bullshit to rant about it makes me want to hold an open flame to my eyes

I wish I lived in some cheap area so I can buy like a one bedroom bungalow

 

[Deleted Member 102155]

Am I a dog?

Ain’t we all

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

I wish I lived in some cheap area so I can buy like a one bedroom bungalow

same, cant wait to move out and go uni (im going all the way to scotland to escape this woman)

 

[Balian]

Am I a dog?

dogs are loyal animals and precious beings
are you?

 

[Balian]

same, cant wait to move out and go uni (im going all the way to scotland to escape this woman)

after you're gone
you'd most probably miss her and her neggings

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

dogs are loyal animals and precious beings
are you?

tbf family can be awful esp if theyre abusive or neglectful
abusive parents arent owed respect after causing massive issues which can be irreparable in their kids lives

 

[Monsieur Meow]

after you're gone
you'd most probably miss her and her neggings

not always the case

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

after you're gone
you'd most probably miss her and her neggings

no she (was) abusive, its not nagging
she shoved me down the stairs, kicked me, hit me, had a hand in causing my ed, im not gonna miss that

 

[Newday]

dogs are loyal animals and precious beings
are you?

Nuance

 

[Newday]

after you're gone
you'd most probably miss her and her neggings

FUCK NO

 

[Monsieur Meow]

no she (was) abusive, its not nagging
she shoved me down the stairs, kicked me, hit me, had a hand in causing my ed, im not gonna miss that

some parents are so horrible i hope u get away from her soon and get better

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

some parents are so horrible i hope u get away from her soon and get better

dw she cant rlly do that anymore, she got too skinny from all the mounjaro and were about the same height now (shes llike 5'3-4)
she knows if she did it now id do it right back so now its more just snide comments etc which is fine

 

[Monsieur Meow]

dw she cant rlly do that anymore, she got too skinny from all the mounjaro and were about the same height now (shes llike 5'3-4)
she knows if she did it now id do it right back so now its more just snide comments etc which is fine

okay thats good to hear
hope u heal (for the most of it) from wtv psychological issues shes caused

 

[Balian]

tbf family can be awful esp if theyre abusive or neglectful
abusive parents arent owed respect after causing massive issues which can be irreparable in their kids lives

no she (was) abusive, its not nagging
she shoved me down the stairs, kicked me, hit me, had a hand in causing my ed, im not gonna miss that

i agree with that, some aren't owed respect
but the bar for what's considered neglectful or abusive has been lowered so much
whole lotta people don't like their family's anymore

if that's true, then that takes away alot of that respect
but ask yourself, didn't she ever love you as a mother and cared for you altruistically?
were these routine or are you blaming her for a few happenstances?
after all
she's your mother

 

[Monsieur Meow]

after all
she's your mother

propaganda im not falling for

 

[Newday]

i agree with that, some aren't owed respect
but the bar for what's considered neglectful or abusive has been lowered so much
whole lotta people don't like their family's anymore

if that's true, then that takes away alot of that respect
but ask yourself, didn't she ever love you as a mother and cared for you altruistically?
were these routine or are you blaming her for a few happenstances?
after all
she's your mother

 

[Deleted Member 74605]

Moving out and living in my own was the best decision ive ever made for my mental health, highly recommend

 

[Newday]

same, cant wait to move out and go uni (im going all the way to scotland to escape this woman)

Me reside in

 

[Deleted Member 104212]

n***a just talk to your family

 

[snoblomov]

I have the best mom, she's amazing. no one has a better relationship with their mom than me

 

[snoblomov]

Me reside in

me save da tree, me name ali

 

[Monsieur Meow]

n***a just talk to your family

they dont get it
@Newday @rickydickydoodahgrimes

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

i agree with that, some aren't owed respect
but the bar for what's considered neglectful or abusive has been lowered so much
whole lotta people don't like their family's anymore

if that's true, then that takes away alot of that respect
but ask yourself, didn't she ever love you as a mother and cared for you altruistically?
were these routine or are you blaming her for a few happenstances?
after all
she's your mother

well when i do think 'well shes my mum' i sit and i think back to how she would treat me when i was little, often leaving me at home alone with my baby brother for like two days completely, or how physically and verbally horrible she was, the things she would call me, some of the earliest memories i have of her are horrible
as someone who has worked in childcare and is a baby sitter i look after kids who are that sorta age all the time and it really is confusing to look at a 5 year old girl and feel anything but wanting to look after and protect them, everytime i see a child my mums actions become even more unfathomable and evil to me, because what evil bastard can look at a kid and do that
every altruistic thing she has ever done has been completely offset by how horrible she was, im still trying to fix the issues that ED gave me and my little brother has only just managed to have stable health (he faced a lot of time having his kidneys because my mum gave him sedatives made for adults to make him sleep as he was a hyperactive kid)
so no i dont owe her shit

 

[Balian]

well when i do think 'well shes my mum' i sit and i think back to how she would treat me when i was little, often leaving me at home alone with my baby brother for like two days completely, or how physically and verbally horrible she was, the things she would call me, some of the earliest memories i have of her are horrible
as someone who has worked in childcare and is a baby sitter i look after kids who are that sorta age all the time and it really is confusing to look at a 5 year old girl and feel anything but wanting to look after and protect them, everytime i see a child my mums actions become even more unfathomable and evil to me, because what evil bastard can look at a kid and do that
every altruistic thing she has ever done has been completely offset by how horrible she was, im still trying to fix the issues that ED gave me and my little brother has only just managed to have stable health (he faced a lot of time having his kidneys because my mum gave him sedatives made for adults to make him sleep as he was a hyperactive kid)
so no i dont owe her shit

in that case
your disdain is justified
a mother however stressed and pressured should not behave this way

i was talking more about the people who begin to hate their family for trivial things