Bro I'm saying. It's actually annoying because we live in a time where there's so many routes we can take to change our appearance, and yet you still have people saying "it's over" because they weren't born 10/10 Chad/Stacy. And these will be the same people undervaluing other people and tips as well, I literally saw a calorie deficit recommended to someone overweight and someone else said "that's not going do anything", I also see stuff like "you didn't ascend, you just fixed your skin and your hair", like why are we so determined to downplay people's efforts to better themselves? It's like these people are disturbingly fixated on self-improvement and their appearance, but also refuse to actually do anything about it! Because it's easier to cope and blame your genetics/puberty/situation than actually get up and make a change. I'm sorry for my yap session, but I just totally get what you mean and it's very frustrating. (Ofc I understand body dysmorphia exists as well and I'm not speaking about that.)