Serious Tbh having a partner isn’t all that good

[BigDihDiddy ⚦]

It’s one of those situations where u want it when u don’t have it and don’t when u get it type beat

It decreases ur independence as u need to maintain the relationship through constantly seeing them and doing things with them sometimes even when u don’t feel like it

There are pros but also negatives. Nobody missing out on much except obligatory side quests

 

[BigDihDiddy ⚦]

It’s like if ur playing a game then unlock a bunch of obligatory side quests u have to complete in a satisfactory way

 

[unknownincel]

It’s one of those situations where u want it when u don’t have it and don’t when u get it type beat

It decreases ur independence as u need to maintain the relationship through constantly seeing them and doing things with them sometimes even when u don’t feel like it

There are pros but also negatives. Nobody missing out on much except obligatory side quests

i just wanna tap tho

 

[Deleted Member 71746]

It’s one of those situations where u want it when u don’t have it and don’t when u get it type beat

It decreases ur independence as u need to maintain the relationship through constantly seeing them and doing things with them sometimes even when u don’t feel like it

There are pros but also negatives. Nobody missing out on much except obligatory side quests

I don’t want a partner i just wanna look good

 

[Chifuyu]

Unrelated but I can't unban you from .org

I forgot why you were banned but now I know

 

[Huntergirl]

It’s one of those situations where u want it when u don’t have it and don’t when u get it type beat

It decreases ur independence as u need to maintain the relationship through constantly seeing them and doing things with them sometimes even when u don’t feel like it

There are pros but also negatives. Nobody missing out on much except obligatory side quests

I need a low maintenance relationship

 

[BigDihDiddy ⚦]

Unrelated but I can't unban you from .org

I forgot why you were banned but now I know

FWARK n***a is it cause of the ey88 dox and now I’m IP banned

 

[Chifuyu]

FWARK n***a is it cause of the ey88 dox and now I’m IP banned

Yeah it's cause you doxxed him. I can actually see his pics because we delete threads but not from the server itself, so it's there for staff to see

You can appeal after 1 year since your ban. Wasnt it around may or june? So may 2026 or june 2026 I'll let you back in. Don't create any alts in the meantime.

I also unbanned bgm after 1 year so yeah

 

[moonlight1]

It’s one of those situations where u want it when u don’t have it and don’t when u get it type beat

It decreases ur independence as u need to maintain the relationship through constantly seeing them and doing things with them sometimes even when u don’t feel like it

There are pros but also negatives. Nobody missing out on much except obligatory side quests

yea life isn’t all about relationships good friendships can be even more fulfilling

 

[Deleted Member 84302]

I need a low maintenance relationship

Nooooo id be in his face like 24/7 and never leave him the fuck alone

 

[Deleted Member 89158]

A partner should elevate your life, not reduce it. Do not trade your well‑being for society's expectations.

 

[Deleted Member 86515]

dude got 13 thumbs ups

 

[kifykify]

dude got 13 thumbs ups

Fixed

 

[Deleted Member 74605]

For me I always found that relationships where great for the first 2-3 months and then became a chore. I think the way out of this is not letting urself get attached. Minimize deep conversations, eye contact during sex, hand holding and other stuff that will make u catch feelings

 

[Datt]

It’s one of those situations where u want it when u don’t have it and don’t when u get it type beat

It decreases ur independence as u need to maintain the relationship through constantly seeing them and doing things with them sometimes even when u don’t feel like it

There are pros but also negatives. Nobody missing out on much except obligatory side quests

ok

 

[kifykify]

For me I always found that relationships where great for the first 2-3 months and then became a chore. I think the way out of this is not letting urself get attached. Minimize deep conversations, eye contact during sex, hand holding and other stuff that will make u catch feelings

So Ye Ye, just don't feel true love theory

 

[Deleted Member 74605]

So Ye Ye, just don't feel true love theory

This guy gets it

 

[TonyDr]

It’s one of those situations where u want it when u don’t have it and don’t when u get it type beat

It decreases ur independence as u need to maintain the relationship through constantly seeing them and doing things with them sometimes even when u don’t feel like it

There are pros but also negatives. Nobody missing out on much except obligatory side quests

Yeah you need to make concessions if you seriously date someone, doing couples activities etc.
But as i grow older and date a more independent working woman, i think it's better because we do our lives and then when we come home we just chill