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The dating scene is shit regardless if you’re good looking

tami_26 said:
thats true,i mean allot of guys in my area say they want a deep relationship but put no action to make it deep or simply just want shallow relationships,in all honesty I completely given up,I'm sick of being disappointed,I have no expectations,if a miracle happens and i get a good romantic relationship then ill b gassed but I'm not holding my breath
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I have no idea what to tell you because i’ve only met one guy ever who puts interest in relationships. He’s a super nice guy, super loyal, and not dry. Here’s some stuff I observed from him

- Average height
- Good lookin ethnic, but not Indian type ethnic I mean a part white part ethnic guy. Probably HTN-Chadlite
- Had social media, but had a private account and a blank pfp
- Pretty quiet and doenst like physical touch, but if you’re friends with him he’s a nice and talkative guy

I’d say the social media part is key, 99% of the time if they have social media and are active on it don’t even attempt to talk to them
 
I believe there is someone out there for everyone. You must know where to look for them. Most people have too much trauma so they continue to fall for people who will hurt them and do not know any better because they cannot recognize good treatment, and they do not even know what it is they want from a relationship in the first place

In a proper relationship, you are both connected by something intrinsic going beyond shared interests and physical connection

Ultimately, with myself, there was value dissonance. I can’t connect with anyone irl so I endure the isolation then spend a few days rotting on a non-NT forum or Discord server to discharge all of this turbulence then I go back to my life. I am usually mute because I feel as if no one could ever like me if they knew me and I come to regret everything I say or do and feel as if it was not perfect enough. It does not help that I attend a good university where everyone is obsessed with image and I try to polish myself as much as possible.
It is difficult for me to leave blackpill even though it has been years. Why? I met people who had the same problems as I did (male and female)
When I was younger (high school), I was very non-NT and socially rejected by my classmates

I had two brief irl “situationships.” One was with a .org user I met around mid-2023(?). He is very attractive and younger than me by 2 years (I am 21, he was 19). I ended my relationship with him because he was very dull, predictable, and I did not feel a strong connection with him. He is good-looking (Chadlite)… and that is it. Nothing more.

The second “situationship” was December 2023-February 2024 with a male classmate of mine, also 2 years younger, who is a very nice person and comes from wealth. He is MTN, average height, and Indian (brown-skinned). He is very normal, attends AP Dhillon concerts, and religious. While we did enjoy Bollywood movies like Mahabharat, my quintessential beliefs about the world and people dramatically differed from his. Furthermore, I am not religious… more spiritual… and I frequent New Age shops which would be regarded as “sinful.” Family is important to him whereas my family dynamic is constant infighting and lawsuits

It irritates me when encels say “you’re a HTB foid jfl you have high SMV”
I have 141 IQ and perennial existential dread. The only time I am happy is during a trance state or after weed/shrooms and I can’t use anymore or else I will develop schizophrenia. On top of feeling lonely and disconnect from other people.
A lot of males like me physically but they wouldn’t like me if they knew me as a person. Most of the time they run from me when they do. I still suffer isolation.

I don’t have any IRL friends. Only acquaintances. If they knew anything about me, they would want to have NOTHING to do with me at all
 
Yourlocalwhore7 said:
What’s an NT
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A* and it stands for Neurotypical, it means you’re normal and social and outgoing, practically the opposite of autism and social anxiety. Non neurotypical, that would be like autism and social anxiety or just bad social skills. It’s probably the most important non physical trait in looksmaxxing.
 
Dandelions said:
Sorry, thought you were a man. You only got 1 friend? Is that by choice or are you like non NT
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Both tbh,used to b NT but stopped socialising with everyone( so my social skills went down allot) BCS they r honestly just shit,except my day 1,she a real one,so we locked in tbh,shes way less NT than me
 
tami_26 said:
Both tbh,used to b NT but stopped socialising with everyone( so my social skills went down allot) BCS they r honestly just shit,except my day 1,she a real one,so we locked in tbh,shes way less NT than me
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Yeah I’m in the same boat as you. What about your dating life are you a femcel or do you pull guys?
 
Dandelions said:
Yeah I’m in the same boat as you. What about your dating life are you a femcel or do you pull guys?
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ehh,i used to pull a few guys but they weren't good guys,( just guys wanting to sleep with me and I'm not about that life),I also don't know if it was a joke BCS they would also make fun of me and make fun of how I look at the same time???
rn I don't pull at all, ( for like over a year tbh) I'm in the negatives atp,like I str8 been made fun of by guys
I'm going to college in September so fresh start,need to lock in to have different fate (change canon tbh)
wbu?
 
little devil said:
I believe there is someone out there for everyone. You must know where to look for them. Most people have too much trauma so they continue to fall for people who will hurt them and do not know any better because they cannot recognize good treatment, and they do not even know what it is they want from a relationship in the first place

In a proper relationship, you are both connected by something intrinsic going beyond shared interests and physical connection

Ultimately, with myself, there was value dissonance. I can’t connect with anyone irl so I endure the isolation then spend a few days rotting on a non-NT forum or Discord server to discharge all of this turbulence then I go back to my life. I am usually mute because I feel as if no one could ever like me if they knew me and I come to regret everything I say or do and feel as if it was not perfect enough. It does not help that I attend a good university where everyone is obsessed with image and I try to polish myself as much as possible.
It is difficult for me to leave blackpill even though it has been years. Why? I met people who had the same problems as I did (male and female)
When I was younger (high school), I was very non-NT and socially rejected by my classmates

I had two brief irl “situationships.” One was with a .org user I met around mid-2023(?). He is very attractive and younger than me by 2 years (I am 21, he was 19). I ended my relationship with him because he was very dull, predictable, and I did not feel a strong connection with him. He is good-looking (Chadlite)… and that is it. Nothing more.

The second “situationship” was December 2023-February 2024 with a male classmate of mine, also 2 years younger, who is a very nice person and comes from wealth. He is MTN, average height, and Indian (brown-skinned). He is very normal, attends AP Dhillon concerts, and religious. While we did enjoy Bollywood movies like Mahabharat, my quintessential beliefs about the world and people dramatically differed from his. Furthermore, I am not religious… more spiritual… and I frequent New Age shops which would be regarded as “sinful.” Family is important to him whereas my family dynamic is constant infighting and lawsuits

It irritates me when encels say “you’re a HTB foid jfl you have high SMV”
I have 141 IQ and perennial existential dread. The only time I am happy is during a trance state or after weed/shrooms and I can’t use anymore or else I will develop schizophrenia. On top of feeling lonely and disconnect from other people.
A lot of males like me physically but they wouldn’t like me if they knew me as a person. Most of the time they run from me when they do. I still suffer isolation.

I don’t have any IRL friends. Only acquaintances. If they knew anything about me, they would want to have NOTHING to do with me at all
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read the yap and i agree, women having higher intrinsic SMV is a blessing and curse
you should probs mental health maxx,I did that helped me but I started pulling even lower💀💀
its almost as if guys go for mentally unstable women/hj 🤔
 
Dandelions said:
Yeah real life is a lot different from IRL. In fairness though, I highly doubt anyone you ever meet IRL even knows these type of forums exist. Most dudes on here are incel and haven’t tasted female attention, like @RAJ GHRANDHICK (full offense meant lol) so they are prone to just killing their standards and looking for any girl, and trying at all means.
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I have very good standards and if i tried i would get gfs i am scared of people and even more scared of women and i hate to socialize since i was born

I have always stayed inside my home i hate to go out people hate me and i hate them I

always end up conflicting with others and i have to
hold myself back cause my parents will ruin my life


(One time i got in a very heated argument with mid 20s guy when i was 12 and he started to say gun names and told me take it out and shoot him and there were 100-120 people watching
I didn't understood why was he talking about guns but later i realized he might have been a gang member and he had guns and if i had done some stupid shit i would have been shot to death

My parents deleted all games, didn't let me use any phones / laptop , grounded me, stopped talking to me , ignoring me ,
All this happened just cause i told him to go from the side and i am not moving my cycle)

I think they were so strict cause it was a grave matter now they're chill but u never know

Keep in mind this was 3 weeks later after i broke in the house of the kid to kill him who harassed my little sister and threw an indian brick on my head with full force

They didn't do anything cause it wasn't my fault that time

I have very good social skills normally and i can make my fear vanish too but still i am not willing to take action towards

I will we eligible to participate in dating after i lose my fat but i don't want to put in so much effort for dating and shit i like being alone



I hate trying to get a gf its like fishing in Minecraft u can absolutely shit experience in ur life of u could get the best time of ur life (which will also cease to exist )


Its pretty much Buddhist ideology for me regarding this matter
Desire causes suffering


I will not try but if I do I will be able to succeed

I think i will end up trying to find a girl for me someday tbh


also tip slay only mtb -htb who have good bodies and shit personalities

ltr htb-stacy who have good personality and don't care about bodies
 
I will kill myself and free myself from the curse called life
 
I never knee it was this hard for people to get a partner i will try to not traumatize myself and stay away from people


And remember anything i have said i didn't think thoroughly before saying this so it is really variable

it will change cause life brings change if it doesn't then u should consider urself dead
 
RAJ GHRANDHICK said:
I never knee it was this hard for people to get a partner i will try to not traumatize myself and stay away from people


And remember anything i have said i didn't think thoroughly before saying this so it is really variable

it will change cause life brings change if it doesn't then u should consider urself dead
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hard icl
 
RAJ GHRANDHICK said:
I never knee it was this hard for people to get a partner i will try to not traumatize myself and stay away from people


And remember anything i have said i didn't think thoroughly before saying this so it is really variable

it will change cause life brings change if it doesn't then u should consider urself dead
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spitting bars
 
tami_26 said:
read the yap and i agree, women having higher intrinsic SMV is a blessing and curse
you should probs mental health maxx,I did that helped me but I started pulling even lower💀💀
its almost as if guys go for mentally unstable women/hj 🤔
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I don't seem mentally stable. Most people know me for being quiet and cold.
I do have a lot of cluster A traits

I am not a bad person and I do care about others
I am able to have conversations with older adults but there is obviously a disconnect there

I have tried reaching out and engaging with people and ended up being rejected. It hurt. It's difficult for me to be receptive and "myself." I have no one to truly talk to. I don't have health insurance to afford therapy from May-August because I'm not in school
 
little devil said:
I don't seem mentally stable. Most people know me for being quiet and cold.
I do have a lot of cluster A traits

I am not a bad person and I do care about others
I am able to have conversations with older adults but there is obviously a disconnect there

I have tried reaching out and engaging with people and ended up being rejected. It hurt. It's difficult for me to be receptive and "myself." I have no one to truly talk to. I don't have health insurance to afford therapy from May-August because I'm not in school
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move to uk for free healthcare
 
tami_26 said:
ehh,i used to pull a few guys but they weren't good guys,( just guys wanting to sleep with me and I'm not about that life),I also don't know if it was a joke BCS they would also make fun of me and make fun of how I look at the same time???
rn I don't pull at all, ( for like over a year tbh) I'm in the negatives atp,like I str8 been made fun of by guys
I'm going to college in September so fresh start,need to lock in to have different fate (change canon tbh)
wbu?
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Good luck in college. Hope you find a HTN non frat boy guy who doesn’t sleep around 24/7. And no i’m KHHV 🙁
 
RAJ GHRANDHICK said:
I have very good standards and if i tried i would get gfs i am scared of people and even more scared of women and i hate to socialize since i was born

I have always stayed inside my home i hate to go out people hate me and i hate them I

always end up conflicting with others and i have to
hold myself back cause my parents will ruin my life


(One time i got in a very heated argument with mid 20s guy when i was 12 and he started to say gun names and told me take it out and shoot him and there were 100-120 people watching
I didn't understood why was he talking about guns but later i realized he might have been a gang member and he had guns and if i had done some stupid shit i would have been shot to death

My parents deleted all games, didn't let me use any phones / laptop , grounded me, stopped talking to me , ignoring me ,
All this happened just cause i told him to go from the side and i am not moving my cycle)

I think they were so strict cause it was a grave matter now they're chill but u never know

Keep in mind this was 3 weeks later after i broke in the house of the kid to kill him who harassed my little sister and threw an indian brick on my head with full force

They didn't do anything cause it wasn't my fault that time

I have very good social skills normally and i can make my fear vanish too but still i am not willing to take action towards

I will we eligible to participate in dating after i lose my fat but i don't want to put in so much effort for dating and shit i like being alone



I hate trying to get a gf its like fishing in Minecraft u can absolutely shit experience in ur life of u could get the best time of ur life (which will also cease to exist )


Its pretty much Buddhist ideology for me regarding this matter
Desire causes suffering


I will not try but if I do I will be able to succeed

I think i will end up trying to find a girl for me someday tbh


also tip slay only mtb -htb who have good bodies and shit personalities

ltr htb-stacy who have good personality and don't care about bodies
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Is this real? Hope it gets better and you ascend, Panav. <3
 
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