Experience The Looksmax Community & It's affect on my subconscious so far.

[Orka]

I have been in this community since Late 2023, which is probably around when everybody else joined after the chico edit era, I don't take shame in being a 'new member' of the community, or at least not an OG one.

I've been on forums since Sep 2024, but was on the discord side of the community until September.

When it comes to learning useful information, I don't think I learned anything until early 2025.

I started treating people worse, and developed a superiority complex over people because of my appearance in late 2024, I'm low-mid mtn for reference. Thankfully but at the same time unfortunately, joining forums has humbled me, I don't see myself as attractive in photos anymore, but I do like to look at myself in the mirror occasionally.

When it comes to my actions, I noticed that I don't try as much with women, I don't think I'm below average looking, but I don't try talking to people who I believe are more attractive than me, and hence better than me in a way. This goes for both men and women.

I started treating women worse overall, and I'm dissapointed in this, since I was a respectful person by nature before joining. I'm becoming more active on here as opposed to org where I already have a large reputation to attempt to combat that, I'll still be DIYing procedures & making guides to post on both here and org, but I'll just try and distance myself from misogyny or excessive hateful speech.

I plan to stick around for a while, since I'm not content with my appearance just yet, but at the same time don't want to compromise my behavior & personality while doing so.

 

[Orka]

There isn't particularly a purpose in this post, I just think aknowledging things like this can help.

 

[Superior]

I started treating women worse overall

I started to love women better

 

[Orka]

I started to love women better

Neat, good for you

How'd you get rid of your established tags? Asked a mod I'm assuming? If so why?

 

[Superior]

How'd you get rid of your established tags? Asked a mod I'm assuming?

yes

If so why?

look cleaner

 

[Orka]

I have been in this community since Late 2023, which is probably around when everybody else joined after the chico edit era, I don't take shame in being a 'new member' of the community, or at least not an OG one.

I've been on forums since Sep 2024, but was on the discord side of the community until September.

When it comes to learning useful information, I don't think I learned anything until early 2025.

I started treating people worse, and developed a superiority complex over people because of my appearance in late 2024, I'm low-mid mtn for reference. Thankfully but at the same time unfortunately, joining forums has humbled me, I don't see myself as attractive in photos anymore, but I do like to look at myself in the mirror occasionally.

When it comes to my actions, I noticed that I don't try as much with women, I don't think I'm below average looking, but I don't try talking to people who I believe are more attractive than me, and hence better than me in a way. This goes for both men and women.

I started treating women worse overall, and I'm dissapointed in this, since I was a respectful person by nature before joining. I'm becoming more active on here as opposed to org where I already have a large reputation to attempt to combat that, I'll still be DIYing procedures & making guides to post on both here and org, but I'll just try and distance myself from misogyny or excessive hateful speech.

I plan to stick around for a while, since I'm not content with my appearance just yet, but at the same time don't want to compromise my behavior & personality while doing so.

I feel like one of those greys who says "bp ruined my life" now.

So I'll drop my org profile here for people to admire my rotting.

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[Superior]

I feel like one of those greys who says "bp ruined my life now"

So I'll drop my org profile here for people to admire my rotting.
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[Superior]

I feel like one of those greys who says "bp ruined my life now"

So I'll drop my org profile here for people to admire my rotting.
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we almost have the same join date in org

 

[Deleted Member 102155]

i think it just made more self aware I was insanely arrogant and I thought I was very good looking lol

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

i relate to the first part a lot. i was are of looksmaxxing since 2022 and joined discord stuff late 2023. however, i didnt become active here until early this year. as you can see though, ive had this account months before i became active in april.

im glad youve recognized your treatment to people, i think thats very mature. unfortunately, this place has so much bias and resentment towards women, even showing them rationality will not help. im sure as a male its easy for that to rub off on you. just try to respect yourself, but keep in mine that women are not a hivemind. obviously, you shouldnt put women on a pedestal or start 'trying' more with them, but just be normal. try to realize when youre setting unfair bias against them due to their gender, and change it. if the person (female in this cas) is insufferable or treats you badly, try not to blame it on the fact that theyre a woman, but just a rude person.

and im not just saying this because im female. i give this same advice to a woman who treats men worse.

 

[Deleted Member 102155]

Fuck how do I stop hijacking threads sorry op.
My advice for you is just to don’t let anything brain wash you on the internet and follow your instincts

 

[Orka]

but keep in mine that women are not a hivemind. obviously, you shouldnt put women on a pedestal or start 'trying' more with them, but just be normal. try to realize when youre setting unfair bias against them due to their gender, and change it.

I understand, but by 'trying' with them I meant try to approach them with romantic intentions, not as in literally 'try' speaking with them.

and im not just saying this because im female. i give this same advice to a woman who treats men worse.

I appreciate it

 

[Orka]

Fuck how do I stop hijacking threads sorry op.
My advice for you is just to don’t let anything brain wash you on the internet and follow your instincts

You're not hijacking it, you're participating in the discussion, that's alright

i think it just made more self aware I was insanely arrogant and I thought I was very good looking lol

That helps

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

I understand, but by 'trying' with them I meant try to approach them with romantic intentions, not as in literally 'try' speaking with them.

I appreciate it

yeah trying with any person is overrated and stressful